A tumultuous life

Baoli said, "I didn't expect it to turn out like this."

An Siming said, "Some women are not suitable for marriage. Even living together will scare many people away."

Xiaoyu said, "Impossible?"

An Siming said, "I'll tell you a story and you'll know." Looking at Xiaoyu, "A couple lived together. When the woman was sick, the man took great care of her. When the man was sick, the woman didn't care and let the man go to the hospital by himself. The man asked, what did I do when you were sick? Why did you do this to me? The woman said, that's what you should do. At this time, the woman felt that what the man did to her was natural."

Xiaofang said, "How could there be such a woman?"

Baoli was speechless. She knew that some women were like this.

This is courting death.

If you don't know which woman it is, there is nothing to say. Maybe you met one yourself. If you know it before marriage, you will separate. If you know it after marriage, you will divorce. And if you have a child, you may pay it. There is no way around it. There are probably not many women like this now. Once they are discovered, they will be kicked out immediately.

That is to say, love is mutual, and care is also mutual.

One-sided giving will never get warmth and will always be lonely.

It's like a family where only one person is always giving, while the other is enjoying and picking and choosing. Life is very difficult. Smart people will choose divorce. After all, a bad woman can ruin three generations. If you just make do with your life, it will bring endless troubles.

Min Rou said: "It's not about how there are such women, but that some women are just like that."

Xiao Fang said: "Such women should not get married."

An Siming said: "It's not that they shouldn't get married, but some women are acting like that. They spent several generations' savings to marry a wife, but it turned out to be very bad. Many people feel miserable. For example, a certain woman, who had been married for several years, did nothing at home and relied on her husband to do everything. Later, her husband found out that she had lived together, and at that time, she was very diligent, doing laundry, cooking and cleaning the house. Then, he filed for divorce."

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Baoli said: "Why divorce? That was in the past."

Xiaoyu said: "Not in the past. Men don't care about the past."

Baoli said: "What is that?"

Xiaoyu said: "Now."

I didn't understand at first, and said: "What do you mean? Aren't they married? Why can't they continue to live together?"

Xiaofang said: "When I was with my boyfriend, I could do laundry, cooking, cleaning, etc. Why can't I do it now? Now I am a young lady? Or a great-grandmother? In the past, when I was with my boyfriend, I lived together, but when I was with my husband, I lived with him.Life with a husband is the rest of your life. Why do you have to be a grandmother in the rest of your life? What is the difference between your husband and your boyfriend? "

Bao Li finally understood.

What men care about is not a woman's past, but a woman's behavior. Women don't know nothing, but they know everything and can do everything, but the results are different. In other words, she regards the place where she used to live together as her home, and her home as a place where she can do whatever she wants.

Xiao Yu said: "No one is a fool. Think about it, the woman you serve is like that in front of other people, serving other men. What is wrong with you? If we work together, there is no possibility of saying anything."

Min Rou said: "If you don't like each other, you can choose not to get married, instead of saying, get married, this way."

This is a sighing approach.

An Siming said: "Just like when I am with Xiao Na, you can know what ordinary men do. Ordinary men are unlikely to care about women's past. What matters is how a woman behaves when she is with him, whether she is coping or liking him. Of course, in the meantime, she needs to follow me, not do other things. "

Xiao Na is typical.

An Siming doesn't care about her past, but he cares whether she was with other men when she was with him, and whether she will be with other men in the future. This is what he cares about. It's not that he cares about the past, that is, who doesn't have a little past?

The question is whether Xiao Na can let An Siming become the past. If An Siming becomes the past, it will be impossible to turn back. This is An Siming's idea. It is also the idea of ​​many men. Many people can see the things that exist here, and they can also know the problems here.

Bao Li said: "I didn't expect it."

An Siming said: "You are different from them. I took your red pill. Of course, I will cherish you very much. This is reasonable. Men will care about women's red pills, and they will be very happy. Therefore, your treatment is better than theirs, which is reasonable. Of course, the past can also be turned over. " Bao Li did not speak. The past can be turned over, not to say that other people can be treated as fools. Just like Xiaona, she obviously has other ideas. How could she want to stay with An Siming all the time? Therefore, An Siming does not care about what she wants to get, and it is impossible for her to care. What An Siming cares about is that when she is with An Siming, she is absolutely not allowed to be with other men. Min Rou said: "Think about it, it's true. Several generations have spent a lot to marry a very bad daughter-in-law, and the result is really not worth it. " An Siming said: "Remember, there was a person who wanted to get married. Originally, the betrothal gift was agreed upon, but the other party heard that his family was good, so he started to increase the price. The man said, okay. When the woman saw the man, she said, "I'm fine.The man agreed happily and raised the price again. The man also agreed, and then asked the doctor to come over, saying that if it was the bride's first time, they would get married and give more gifts. If it was not the bride's first time, and we didn't know how many times it was, it would be equivalent to the second, third, or fourth marriage. It was unreasonable to ask for such a large amount of gifts after several marriages. Of course, the bride would not let the doctor check whether it was her first time. This marriage, just like that, became a ridiculous joke. The invitations and other things had already been sent out, but there was no way to change them, and they could only say that they would not get married. This was a typical end of courting death. They never thought that the man wanted to get married, not to let them tease him at will. This was a constant teasing. ”