ad people: their understanding is against the heavens and they are immortal.

Faced with this question of my father,

Tong Tong also began to think very seriously,

was framed by others,

What should I do?

After thinking for a while, Tong Tong said,

"I might explain to him that I didn't take their pens......"

Tong Tong's answer,

It was not out of Lu Yu's expectations,

Or rather,

For the most part,

When you are framed, your first reaction may be to hurriedly explain to the other party.

is like the sixth child in "Let the Bullets Fly", who desperately wants to prove his innocence by himself, and even does not hesitate to open his stomach to wash off the dirty water on his body.

However, as everyone knows,

Such self-proof,

In fact, it is very ridiculous and weak.

From the moment you start trying to prove your innocence, you have fallen into passivity, caught up in the rhythm of the other person......

"Tong Tong, do you think that if you explain to the other party that you didn't take their fountain pen, will the other party believe it?"

A smile appeared on Lu Yu's face and said,

"There's a good chance he won't believe it!"

"It's like the owner of the noodle shop in the story. "

The sixth man explained to him countless times, saying that he really just ate a bowl of noodles, but the owner of the noodle shop still didn't believe it. "

"Because the person who wronged you actually knows better than you yourself that you have been wronged!"

"If he believed it as soon as he explained, then he wouldn't have stood up and wronged you in the first place!"

"You think his wrongs are from misunderstandings, but they are often not!"

"They actually know the truth, it's just pure bad!"

“......"

Lu Yu's words,

attracted the child's deep thought,

Those who have wronged themselves know better than themselves that they have been wronged......

They know the truth, but it's just pure bad......

Digested for a long time,

Tong Tong finally understood the meaning of these words.

I couldn't help but ask a little anxiously,

"Dad, what should I do in this situation? Isn't there no way?"

Tong Tong said helplessly,

No matter how you explain it, he doesn't believe it. "

"Then how do you prove that you didn't take their fountain pen?"

Seeing that Tong Tong really can't think of an answer,

Lu Yu took a sip of pumpkin porridge at this time,

Explain it to her slowly.

"Tong 100 Tong, in fact, the moment you want to explain, you fall into the trap of the other party. "

"Trap?"

"Yes, it's a trap!"

Lu Yu nodded and said,

"As I said earlier, he knows that you are wronged, but he still wrongs you like this, and in this case, the explanation is useless at all. "

"It will only make you more and more passive, darker and darker, and more and more nervous!"

"No matter how hard you struggle, he won't let you go!"

"The more you struggle, the more excited he gets!"

"He will feel that playing with ~ a prey like you will give him a greater sense of accomplishment, and he will also take the opportunity to make more excessive demands!"

Therefore, if you really encounter this kind of problem in the future, explain it once or twice, and if you find that the other party still doesn't believe it, you don't need to explain it again. "

"So what should I do?"

Tong Tong asked.

"Actually, the solution is very simple. "

Lu Yu's face rarely became a little serious, and said,

"Whoever wronged you will be let the evidence come out!"

"Whoever asserts it, who adduces evidence!"

"No, after he opened his mouth and talked nonsense, let us desperately prove our innocence!"

"Good people, they shouldn't deserve to be pointed at gunpoint!"

"A person who is innocent in his own right, obviously hasn't done anything, and there is no need to frame others for a word, so he will try his best to prove himself!"

"You framed me for taking your pen, yes, you can frame, but you have to show me the evidence!"

"If you take out the evidence, I'll admit it!"

"How to lose money and lose money, how to deal with it!"

"But, if you can't come up with evidence, but you still insist on framing me here, then you are malicious slander!"

“......"

Lu Yu said this,

Tong Tong fell into contemplation again, and thought about it for a long time, and then his eyes lit up, and he suddenly realized,

"yes, Dad, you have a point!"

"Only those who frame others should come up with evidence!"

"Instead of being framed, to prove your innocence!"

Lu Yu's words,

Let Tong Tong immediately open his mind,

"It's like the sixth child you just talked about in the story Dad. "

"Someone else framed him for eating two bowls of noodles. "

"It doesn't matter how he explains!" (chad) "But if he can be as smart as you are, Dad, he doesn't have to find a way to prove that he didn't eat two bowls." "

"Instead, he asked the owner of the noodle shop to come up with evidence that he had eaten two bowls......"

"Then his ending shouldn't be so miserable!"

"Well, Tong Tong, you're right. "

"The example you gave is also great!"

Seeing that her daughter seemed to understand what she meant,

Lu Yu nodded with satisfaction,

It's my daughter,

This little head is spinning so fast,

As soon as she said it herself, she understood, and she knew how to draw inferences.

"So, Tongtong, if you encounter this kind of framing in the future, if your father is not by your side, don't be afraid, and don't panic. "

"Keep your mind clear. "

Lu Yu said,

"Don't mess up your own proportions because of a few words from others. "

"Let's take the supermarket owner, for example. "

"He framed you for taking his pen, then let him take out the evidence, he can't take it out, then you just go away!"

"But if he still stops you and won't let you go......"

Speaking of which,

Lu Yu stopped again and looked at his daughter with a smile,

"What are you going to do if he still won't let you go?"

"Don't let me go?"

Tong Tong said angrily,

"He can't produce evidence, why won't he let me go!"

"Tongtong, but there are such bad people in the world!"

Lu Yu sighed,

"Not everyone can be as kind as us. "

"So, what should I do?"

Tong Tong is completely out of the question.

If the other party can't produce evidence and won't let him go, what else can he do?

"Actually, the solution is very simple!"

Faced with her daughter's confusion,

Lu Yu explained to her again,

"If he still stalks and won't let him go, then you don't have to argue with him anymore. "

"You're a girl, and if you really provoke the other party, it won't do you any good. "

"In this case, you can pay him as much as he wants. "

"It doesn't matter if you apologize to him, lose money, or be insulted ~ scolded by him in public. "

"Dad doesn't want you to have any more conflicts with this kind of person to escalate the conflict between you. "

"Compared to money, compared to a momentary grievance......"

"Your safety always comes first!"

"Of course, this matter will definitely not end like this. "

"When you come out of it safely, tell your dad about it as soon as possible, and then ......"

"You don't have to worry about how to deal with that kind of bad guy!"

"Dad will definitely help you get back the grievances you have suffered!"

"I will fight everything to administer justice for you!"

“......"

Some people may think that

Lu Yu taught children like this, it was not right.

The child was obviously wronged, how could he admit it?

But in fact,

Kids, especially girls, you have to do that!

When it's time to coax, you have to hurry down.

It's really dangerous for you to provoke such an unreasonable bad person.

In case the other party is annoyed and angry,

What should I do if I hurt someone?

It's not that such examples have happened.

There was a high school student who was framed like this.

At that time, he tried his best to refute the boss, and finally from a verbal conflict, it escalated to a physical conflict, the boss was enraged, and in anger, the other party lost his mind, took out a dagger, and stabbed the high school student thirteen times.

The high school student failed to resuscitate and eventually died.

Although the boss was also imprisoned in the end and lost money,

But

No matter how severe the punishment he receives,

I can't buy the life of that high school student anymore. (If you read a violent novel, go to Feilu Novel Network!)

So

Sometimes,

You must be smart and clever to be a person.

Be tough when it's time to be tough,

But when it's time to coax, you must also coax.

You never know if the person standing across from you is a human or a ghost.

You don't know,

What did the other party think in their hearts?

When a person is provoked and loses his mind, he can do anything.

So

If you really encounter this kind of thing one day,

Lu Yu doesn't want her daughter to be a person who is upright and hard-hearted and doesn't know how to back down.

It's time to coward, then it's cowardly!

As long as she can ensure her safety first, everything will be easy to say!

What to do next,[]

It's not for my daughter to ask,

It's my turn to be the old man, to come forward and support my daughter!

At that point,

If Lao Tzu wants to coax again, then he is not a man!

It's not that the other party apologizes and returns the money, and it can be solved!

Dare to wronged my daughter,

Don't let you pay a terrible price,

Lao Tzu is not worthy of being ranked among the three Qings!

So,

The sixth child in the movie, he did it wrong from the beginning, what kind of abdomen he cut, what kind of innocence he proved, it was so stupid!

Let the other party come up with evidence first,

Can't take it out?

Hehe, then go straight away!

Can't walk and are surrounded by people?

Then admit it!

As long as you can get out of that bird place alive, are you worried that you won't be able to take revenge when you turn back?

Shut down the eyes of all those who have wronged themselves,

Eat it in your stomach,

Let them see it with their own eyes,

Did Lao Tzu eat one bowl of noodles or two bowls of noodles!

Such a practice,

It's called smart and domineering!

Lu Yu's words,

Let Tong Tong fall into a thoughtful state again,

She's smart,

It didn't take long to figure out the truth.

Even in my heart,

Summed it up.

"It's ...... to encounter this kind of thing"

"Don't panic first, let the other party take the evidence, if the other party can't take it out, you will leave, if you can't go, you will admit it, and when it is safe, tell your father as soon as possible, and your father will support you......"

This series of operations,

Dad explained it to himself clearly,

Tong Tong really understands and grasps it.

"Dad, I know!"

"Today, I'm here with you again, and I learned a trick!"

"Hehehehe, in the future, when you encounter this kind of thing, don't worry, I will definitely be able to handle it well!"

“......"

Tong Tong said with an oath.

In the eyes,

It is also full of confidence and confidence.

"Mmmmmmmm

Looking at the appearance of his daughter,

Lu Yu smiled reassuringly,

Then he said proudly,

"Follow your dad, there's still a lot to learn!"

"Dad's casual show of his hand is enough for you to benefit immensely!"

"So, for Dad's sake, shouldn't you bake a few more pieces of meat for Dad!"

"Huh?"

Tong Tong was stunned for a moment, and then he was shocked to find that the meat just roasted on the baking tray was unknowingly eaten up by his father!

"Ahhhh

"Every time you deliberately chat with me, and then secretly eat meat!"

Tong Tong protested loudly,

"Talk if you can next time, don't keep moving chopsticks!"

"Hahaha, who told you to just listen and don't know what to eat!"

"If I don't eat it again, won't it be baked!"

“......"

Lu Yu's words,

The angry boy rolled his eyes,

For this dad of his own,

She is really sometimes in love with the distance, can grow to the moon, but sometimes, she is really angry and can't do anything!

It can only be said that

My own dad is really hard to bring!

I always hear adults say that it is hard to bring a baby, and it is hard to bring a baby.

But when it comes to me,

But it's hard to become a dad!

Tong Tong said, I'm too difficult!

And at the same time,

Just when the father and daughter began to quarrel and grab meat again,

In the live broadcast room,

It's already boiling!

Lu Yu's previous words,

It's not just that Tong Tong has benefited a lot,

In the same way,

It also shocked the audience in every live broadcast room!

When the child is outside,

When you are falsely accused and misunderstood,

What should I do?

This kind of thing should also be extremely worrying for many parents.

And today,

Time to eat a barbecue,

Lu Yu used extremely clear ideas and language that was not difficult to understand, to teach Tong Tong a lesson, and also to the audience in the live broadcast room.

The point is,

He gives people the appearance of teaching,

It's so relaxing,

is not like Chen Aijun's serious and serious and old-fashioned words every time he educates children, and the words he says are empty and general......

When Lu Yu was teaching Tong Tong these things,

But it's like chatting between friends,

Chatting and chatting,

Unconsciously,

conveyed the meaning to the child.

Because of this,

When Lu Yu finished saying this,

In the live broadcast room,

Immediately exploded!

...............

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