After being reborn repeatedly, he was entangled by a green tea repeater

"I once saw a sentence in a book." Chen Jiayu said slowly, "Sometimes, good deeds can arouse hatred just like evil deeds."

"What do you mean?" Hou Zifan was confused.

"This sentence comes from Machiavelli's "The Prince"." Cai Jiayi looked at Chen Jiayu and said with a smile, "It means that if the way of helping people is inappropriate, it will hurt the self-esteem of the person being helped, causing the other party to

resentment."

Chen Jiayu glanced at her in surprise: "Cai Jiayi is right, that's why I don't agree with what you are doing."

"But we want to help him, it's just good intentions." Zhu Shu said unconvinced, "Besides, he sets up a stall to sell things, and we go to buy things, which is considered a fair transaction. How can it hurt his self-esteem?"

Woolen cloth?"

"Yes, we have good intentions. Classmate He Yan shouldn't be angry." Tian Tian said softly.

“Is it really a fair deal?”

Chen Jiayu raised his hand, pointed at the plastic sheet in front of He Yan and the dazzling array of gadgets on it, and raised his voice slightly, "Do you see clearly what he is selling? It's all there.

Children's toys, light sticks and the like, do you think you really need these things? Will he believe that you really need them - "

Hou Zifan, Zhu Shu, and Tian Tian were all stunned on the spot.

The corners of Cai Jiayi's lips curved slightly.

"He Yan is not stupid. Of course he can see that you don't really need those things. It's just out of pity and sympathy for him that you spend money to buy these things that are of no use to you.

"

Chen Jiayu glanced at everyone and said word by word, "So, to him, our behavior is not so much help as it is pity. Even worse, it is in the name of help and good intentions.

Because, in fact, we are giving favors with an unconscious sense of superiority like a superior. Our actions invisibly differentiate him from superior to inferior, which is unequal. We have good intentions, but he will receive the favor.

The burden and pressure of mercy.”

"Do you think he will be grateful to us, or will he feel inferior to us?"

Chen Jiayu paused for a moment and continued, "If the help to a person is just to relieve the impulse induced by our own sympathy, without considering the other person's situation, we cannot make the other person accept it willingly, and we cannot

Improving the other person's situation is called self-righteousness and narcissism, and it only helps ourselves, not him."

Hou Zifan, Zhu Shu, and Tian Tian frowned and remained silent for a long time.

Chen Jiayu looked at them, did not continue, and waited patiently.

In his opinion, Hou Zifan and the others are just a group of seventeen or eighteen-year-old children after all. It will take a certain amount of time to completely digest these words...

etc!

Chen Jiayu's whole body suddenly shook.

Why has his mentality become so old-fashioned? Isn't he also a child of seventeen or eighteen?

Even if you repeat eighteen years old a hundred times, you are still eighteen years old!

Reflect, reflect well.

After a while, Hou Zifan scratched his head and said with a stern expression: "Listening to what you said, Lao Chen, it seems to be the same reason... If we want to help He Yan, we must also consider his mood.

If it has the opposite effect, it will be our fault."

"Well, we didn't think carefully and almost did something bad with good intentions." Zhu Shu also sighed and said, "But I really want to help him. Who else would think about it, if there is anything more

A good idea?"

"I also want to help classmate He Yan, he is having a hard time." Cai Jiayi pursed her lips, looked at Chen Jiayu, and asked softly, "Chen Jiayu, what do you think we should do?"

"It is the right thing to do good to others without asking for favors." Chen Jiayu replied calmly.

Do good to others without asking for favors.

Hou Zifan and the others pondered these eight words seriously in their hearts.

I seem to understand, but I don’t seem to fully understand.

After a while, Cai Jiayi clapped her hands gently and said with a smile, "I have an idea, why don't you all listen to it?"

"Say it."

"Say it."

"..."

Cai Jiayi looked at a few children playing roller skating not far away, with crooked eyes, "How about asking them to help?"

Chen Jiayu smiled slightly.

Hou Zifan also reacted and said: "What do you mean, give them the money and let them go to He Yan to buy things on our behalf?"

"Yes." Cai Jiayi nodded.

Zhu Shu and Tian Tian looked at each other, is this okay?

Thinking about it more carefully, it seems that... it is indeed feasible.

Zhu Shu has a do-it-yourself temperament, and she couldn't wait any longer. She turned around and ran towards the children quickly. Everyone saw her pulling the children, and after talking a lot, she took them with her triumphantly.

They're coming.

"I have already made an agreement with them to hand over the money to them, and then they go to He Yan to buy toys. They can buy as many toys as they can with the money, and the toys they buy belong to them."

In this way, a few of them helped He Yan, and He Yan also sold things without the burden of "pity" and "benefit", and the children also got their favorite toys.

Well, it's a triple win.

The money was collected, totaling 267 yuan, and was held by Cai Jiayi.

Just as Cai Jiayi was about to hand them over to the children, someone added another one hundred yuan note to it.

"This is mine." Chen Jiayu said.

Cai Jiayi glanced at him, smiled and said, "Okay."

She knelt down, put the three hundred and sixty-seven yuan in the hand of the older child solemnly, and said seriously: "Sister, please help me, go to the stall over there to buy toys. Buy them."

All the toys that come are yours, but don’t fight over them, let’s play together. And don’t tell the brother selling things that we gave you the money, remember?”

The child nodded vigorously: "Okay!"

Cai Jiayi touched his head and said with a smile: "Go."

Several children ran towards the square happily and happily.

They ran to He Yan's stall, handed all the money in their hands to He Yan without even counting it, and then started shouting over each other.

"Brother, I want this little duck!"

"I want to buy an electric plane and a little duck!"

"Brother, give me some water!"

"Ultraman!"

"Dump truck!"

"Water gun! Windmill!"

…

He Yan's face turned red with excitement. He hurriedly handed over the toy and stammered, "Children, come one by one, don't rush, don't rush... The water gun is ten yuan, the dump truck is fifteen yuan... Hey

Hold it, don't drop it. Do you want an airplane? Airplanes need batteries. Come on, brother, I'll teach you how to use them..."