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3o3. talk about marriage

Just eat and eat! But Lu Shuangping always likes to talk about the marriage between Meng Qingqing and Qin Haonan. ?? Hunting? ???

Everyone was eating, when Lu Shuangping came again, "Originally, like our family's current economic conditions, Haonan will not be able to support his wife and children in the future, so Qingqing will not need to work in the future. It doesn't matter, but since Qingqing wants to study, let her continue to graduate! After all, a little more culture will be good for children's education in the future."

Meng Zijun said: "Of course you should finish reading it. The three or four years of life are not short or long, but you can't miss the opportunity and time to go to school. As for whether she will need to work in the future, that is another matter." It's nothing to talk about."

Qin Haonan understands his mother's thoughts, and also knows that Meng Qingqing will not only give up her studies, but also will not give up the opportunity to work in the future.

He hurriedly said: "Qingqing's university is a key university. It's not something that ordinary people can get into if they want to. Of course, such an opportunity should not be missed. Don't overwhelm yourself with too many skills!"

"Yes, you can't miss your studies, but I heard that as long as the college students reach the age, they can get married! The school has no right to interfere. Qingqing will turn 20 next year. Otherwise, when Qingqing is on winter vacation next year, we will kill them. Let's handle the marriage of the two of you!"

Meng Zijun hesitated, "There's no need to be in such a hurry, right? Although the country only stipulates that marriages are allowed within the legal age, and the school has no right to interfere, Qingqing is still in college after all. The impact is not good, right?"

"I don't think it has any effect! Qingqing got married when she went home during the winter vacation. She can continue to go to school after taking the vacation, so it won't affect her studies! As for the students' discussion, it won't matter! They are married It proves that the matchmaker is marrying, besides, I saw on TV that some college students hold weddings on campus! Young people nowadays can accept such things. Qingqing is not the first one, there are many college students getting married at school!"

Of course Meng Qingqing disagreed, but she couldn't object directly in front of everyone. She lowered her head and secretly pinched Qin Haonan who was sitting next to her.

Qin Haonan understood, and said to Lu Shuangping: "Mom, what are you talking about for the Chinese New Year? Isn't this early next year? Come, let's eat."

As he said that, Qin Haonan put a chicken leg in his mother's bowl.

Qin Guoliang also saw that Meng Zijun's father and daughter disagreed with this matter, so Lu Shuangping wanted to say something, he quickly interrupted and said: "Oh, I don't seem to have taken the medicine this morning, you go and help me get it , this medicine must be taken on time."

After hearing this, Lu Shuangping stood up to get the medicine,

After thinking for a while, he said doubtfully, "That's not right! I remember that you have already taken it, and I personally brought you the medicine!"

Qin Guoliang looked blank, "Really? You said that as if you really ate it. Look at my memory. I have already eaten it but forgot it. Thanks to you remembering."

Qin Haonan said: "Dad, you can't take this medicine indiscriminately. It's not good if you take too much. Mom, my dad has a bad memory. You have to watch him take it every day. When and how much? How many times? Make no mistake."

Lu Shuangping's mind was successfully attracted, and now she only cares about the old man's health problems.

"Why did he become so forgetful? Okay, okay, I will watch him take his medicine carefully in the future. You can't take the wrong medicine."

This day is so perfunctory, but since Lu Shuangping has such an idea, she will not calm down.

The family of three was having dinner that day, and she brought up this matter again.

"Hao Nan, go and discuss with Qing Qing, and I will take care of your affairs with Qing Qing during the winter vacation next year."

Qin Haonan said: "Mom, Qingqing and her father and daughter were invited to dinner that day. Didn't you see that? Meng Zijun disagreed with Qingqing's marriage so early, and Qingqing herself didn't want to."

"Why doesn't Meng Zijun agree? As a parent, if it's for the sake of the child, shouldn't the child be married earlier?"

"Mom, their family's situation is different. Their father and daughter have been dependent on each other all these years. This daughter has finally grown up, and Meng Zijun's health has just recovered. He may be reluctant to let his daughter marry so early!"

"What's the reason? He doesn't want his daughter to get married earlier, so he wants us to wait like this? How can they be so selfish? Don't think about you being so old, and we are too old, we want to have grandchildren earlier Is that asking too much?"

"Mom, what's the rush? Isn't it just waiting for two more years?"

"Yes, yes, I am the emperor. I am not in a hurry to be an eunuch. Don't think about it. Many people who are as old as you already have children. You are still waiting to get married here."

"There are more than 30 people who are still single! How can I say that I already have a marriage partner!" Qin Haonan said.

"Hey! Water flows to low places and people go to high places. Why don't you look after the good ones and look back. When you go to school, you have to work hard to get high marks. You can't be content to stay behind, you have to scramble to be the first, you know?"

Facing his mother's theory, Qin Haonan was really at a loss. He asked his father for help, "Dad, please persuade my mother, she is a bit crazy like this! How can getting married and having children be related to work and harmony?" Since the person I like is so much younger than me, I have to accept this reality. I can’t just think about myself, I have to think about her too. She is still a college student at school, and she is still a child. Let her get married, she is not happy, we will not be happy after we get married, what is the use of getting married?"

Qin Guoliang also said: "Yes! Don't force your children. What's the difference between two years earlier and two years later? Children and grandchildren have their own blessings, so don't worry about it. I can see that day. I don’t want my daughter to get married early, if you say that people are selfish and don’t consider you, they will think the same way, saying why are you so selfish and don’t consider them.”

Lu Shuangping still couldn't figure it out, "Hey! Tell me, that young Meng Qing, Ji Xiao, is just ignorant. As a parent, why is Meng Zijun like this? Isn't it a good thing for children to get married earlier? How could he disagree? Woolen cloth?"

"For you, it's a great thing for your child to get married earlier, but it's not necessarily true for others," Qin Guoliang said.

"It's said to get married early and get rich early. Why isn't it a good thing to get married early? There are many benefits."

"What's the good? It's not that you and Dad are retired, and you feel uncomfortable when you are idle, so you want to hug your grandson. You are talking in my ears every day, and my ears are full of calluses. Mom, if you feel uncomfortable when you are idle, just Go and dance square dances with those old ladies in the community, don't stare at me and Qingqing all day long." (To be continued.)