Chinese 2006 starts with the Beijing Film Academy Art Examination

"This award is very important. Great directors like Zhang Yimou and Chen Kaige know this. They became famous from the time they started receiving these awards. If you don't win, you won't be given one. Face is given to each other."

Yang Lingyue explained this. He originally wanted to say it was the teacher and the school, but after thinking about it, he changed his explanation.

"Your mother is not stopping you from going. You have to understand your mother's thoughts correctly." Yang Wenchang said solemnly.

"How come, others will care about whether I fly high or not, but you will care about whether I am tired from flying." Yang Lingyue said with a playful smile.

"Honey, my son has such a long vacation, it doesn't matter if he doesn't celebrate the New Year." Yang Wenchang comforted his wife.

Yang Lingyue suddenly looked embarrassed.

"Tell me, when are you leaving?" Liu Qingna looked at her son and asked helplessly.

Yang Lingyue had no choice but to talk about his itinerary.

I have to observe the nursing home in the past few days. I will fly to Rongcheng on the 19th, then fly to Kyoto for a while, then return to Longcheng, and then fly to Berlin at the end of the year.

"Why are you going back to Kyoto?" Liu Qingna asked in confusion.

"It's the Chinese New Year, so you're not allowed to visit your teacher." Yang Wenchang said while gesturing to his son with his eyes.

"Well, my dad is right. One more thing. I have a girlfriend. She is an actress. She is also in Kyoto."

Yang Lingyue complained in her heart that her father didn't want to say that he already knew that his son had a girlfriend. His mother would be jealous.

"ah?"

After Liu Qingna was surprised for a moment, she began her interrogation journey.

So, after Yang Lingyue finished telling the details about Zeng Li, the couple fell into silence.

"It's quite beautiful." Yang Wenchang said with difficulty.

"Eat, eat."

Liu Qingna did not answer, but stood up from the sofa to greet her husband and son.

"Dad, Mom, I know it's hard for you to accept it for a while, but what I want to say is that when we chose to get along, she didn't know how much money I could earn. Please don't think too much about this. And I took the initiative to pursue her. , she is sincere, casual, kind and independent, I like her very much.”

At the dinner table, there was silence for a while, and then Yang Lingyue slowly spoke.

Yang Lingyue didn't know whether or how Zeng Li would tell her family, but Zeng Li acquiesced or ignored Yu Li's existence for him, which was the main reason why he made up his mind to tell his parents face to face.

"Son, since you decided to take the art exam on your own, your dad has often told me that you have grown up and there are many things that you have to look further than us and see clearly. Just care and give less advice. Although mom talks about it, Your dad says it won’t work, but he agrees with it in his heart.

You have indeed grown up, but your mother still hopes that you will think carefully. You are a man and you are young. You can't afford to delay. Women's good times only last for a few years. Once you are over 30, it is difficult to have children. "

After Liu Qingna thought about it for a while, she said to her son seriously in a different attitude and tone than usual.

"Haha, let you have your grandson as soon as possible."

Yang Lingyue tried to break this unaccustomed atmosphere.

Sure enough, Liu Qingna raised her hand.

"Son, if your parents object, will you break up?" Yang Wenchang asked quickly.

"Won't."

Yang Lingyue looked at Yang Wenchang with a straight face and replied.

"Her name is Zeng Li, right? Can her family agree?" Liu Qingna took the baton and continued to ask.

"I don't know. We haven't told our family about this before. After all, we just dated." Yang Lingyue replied.

Yang Wenchang and Liu Qingna looked at each other and nodded secretly.

"Let nature take its course." Liu Qingna made the final decision.

The topic then shifted to Yang Lingyue's next trip to a nursing home.

"It's unfilial to throw your parents into a nursing home."

"You can't say that. If you don't have children and you really don't have the energy to raise them, what can you do?"

.......

The two different views of Liu Qingna and Yang Wenchang are actually discussing the same issue:

“Is it filial piety or unfilial piety to send an elderly person to a nursing home?”

In the minds of most Chinese people, this is obviously unfilial. Only by taking parents around and taking care of them personally can the love and warmth of the family be reflected.

However, society is developing and the family structure is changing. In one-child families, there are elders at the top and younger children at the bottom. What should we do under these circumstances when we need to support our family, even bear car and house loans, and study and educate the next generation?

Some people may say that this is still a minority, but where is it?

China, what a huge base.

Some people may think that people who earn a lot of retirement salary and dance square dances every day are extremely happy.

So what about the largest base of rural elderly?

How many of the moviegoers are children or grandchildren of farmers?

But Yang Lingyue just wants to find a story that resonates with people, write it down, and film it, without asking for anything to change, and maybe it won't change anything.

Originally I just wanted to focus on the marathon for the elderly, but now it seems that it would be better to run the two in parallel.

"Son, you must make this movie well. Your parents firmly support you."

Liu Qingna felt something in her heart. She and her husband had just talked about the problems they would face when they grow old. What should we do if our daughter-in-law is not filial? What will happen if you have money then?

Talking about Mr. Li, who lives alone in Building 3, his wife died of illness, his daughter is married to Yangcheng, one of his grandchildren is taking the college entrance examination, and the other is taking the high school entrance examination. The son-in-law also has to support his parents, so he has to go to a nursing home.

After living there for half a year, he became more taciturn. It is said that his pension is not enough for his expenses. The people in the nursing home learned that Mr. Li's children were not around, and their attitude towards him was different from that of other elderly people.

Yang Lingyue asked which nursing home he was in and decided to go to Mr. Li to talk.

"Son, you can go, but bring more nutritional supplements. But don't give money, it's easy to cause trouble." Yang Wenchang thought about it and still reminded him.

"I understand." Yang Lingyue nodded.

He really understood his father's thoughts. Let's not talk about gratitude and hatred. What other elderly people would think if they knew about it. After all, there are other elderly people in the community.

"Wife, after our son's business is done, let's donate some rice, flour, grain and oil to the nursing home in the name of the supermarket." Yang Wenchang discussed with Liu Qingna.

"Well, okay."

Liu Qingna nodded happily.

Parents have always been kind to others, thrifty in life, and have the cunning unique to ordinary people. This is the wisdom given by life, just like the parents of many people.

In the past, Yang Lingyue was indeed strictly controlled, but he would also provide a computer when his son said he wanted to learn programming.

He went to Beijing to take the art exam privately, and finally adjusted his mentality.

Now it is like this again, and his parents are Yang Lingyue's biggest support.