Conan: I Am Not a Snake Spirit

Thinking of the previous investigation data mentioning that 'Urumo Ayaka's mother and stepfather are relatively strict', thinking of Urumo Ayaka's rebellious behavior, and thinking of Urumo Ayaka's recent softening of attitude, Chi Feichi had an answer in his mind.

This couple is interesting.

When Ayaka Urano left home and came to Tokyo alone, the couple was indeed afraid of losing their daughter and worried about their daughter's safety. However, after deciding that Ayaka Urano's life was not in danger, the couple seemed to want to regain their love for their daughter. Take control and treat my daughter in the same way as in the past.

The first step is to suppress accusations. We believe that praising children will make them complacent and lose their ambition. They always find faults with a critical eye, saying that this is wrong and that is not good, and never give recognition and encouragement to the child's performance.

The second step is moral kidnapping, using the words 'I have paid a lot for you, you can't refuse my request' and 'Because of you, I live such a wronged life' to kidnap the child, making the child feel guilty and willingly succumb. Discipline for low self-esteem.

At the same time, it is actually difficult for the couple to provide spiritual support and psychological comfort to Ayaka Urano.

Just like tonight, if it is a child from a normal family, after seeing the cruel acts of a criminal organization with his own eyes, the child would want to cry and tell his parents about his fear, and then get comfort from his parents, but Ayaka Urano's Without knowing anything about Ayaka Urano's experience, her biological mother and stepfather relied on their own feelings to arbitrarily conclude that 'you look fine and it is impossible to have experienced anything terrible', and then repeatedly emphasized to Ayaka Urano - 'Like Your suffering is nothing compared to what I've been through'.

No wonder Takatori said, "I don't think she had a chance to say it." Ayaka Urano was indeed deprived of the right to express herself in front of this couple. The couple didn't want to hear what their daughter had to say, they only cared about what they wanted.

This is a form of mental abuse.

If there are three people living in the same room, as roommates, two of them join forces and constantly accuse the third person of not doing anything well, and keep saying, 'We have done a lot for you, we are doing it for your own good, you have to thank us.' , has no response to the third person's emotions, and if we live together like this for a year or two, the third person will have some psychological problems no matter what.

If the third person is a minor who needs to rely on the other two for survival and whose self-awareness is not yet complete, the mental trauma suffered in the process will be even more serious.

In that family, Ayaka Urumo was the third person who was mentally abused, and it was difficult for Ayaka Urumo to express her depression and pain to others.

Because Urano Ayaka's biological mother and stepfather never treated her harshly in food and clothing, and would care about her safety and her future. In the eyes of outsiders, Urano Ayaka is a child who is very loved by her biological mother and stepfather, so , once Urano Ayaka acts against her parents, many people will question Urano Ayaka - your parents are just strict, why do you do these things to make them sad?

But in fact, Ayaka Urano has been living in a life of suppressed low self-esteem for a long time, and the psychological pressure may have almost exceeded her ability to bear it.

This is the last piece of the puzzle that belongs to Ayaka Urano.

In the past, Ayaka Urumo was involved in a group of delinquent girls, but he found that Ayaka Urumo was not a very aggressive person, and she did not like to bully others. Now it seems that Ayaka Urumo did not join the delinquent group because she advocated violence. Girls' groups, but because they live a life of low self-esteem that is denied every day at home, they need to seek the experience of high self-esteem that is recognized outside, in order to gain psychological comfort and ensure that they will not be driven crazy.

Perhaps Ayaka Urano doesn't know why she is like this. She just feels that the environment at home is suffocating and painful, and she subconsciously resists and escapes to save herself.

And the "you are so cool" that Ayaka Urano always talks about and is eager to be evaluated by others, its essence should be——

"Urasheng, you are so great!"

"Wow, Ayaka, you are so awesome!"

After this piece of the puzzle appeared, he felt that it was understandable that Ayaka Urano was so prone to symptoms of Stockholm syndrome.

When it comes to "finding psychological solace on your own to prevent a nervous breakdown", Urano Ayaka must have been very skilled at it.

In the past, Ayaka Urano used other delinquent boys and girls to say "you are so cool" to get psychological comfort and prevent herself from collapsing in a long-term life of low self-esteem.

When she arrived at the organization's training ground, Ayaka Urano also used psychological hints such as 'They are actually not that cruel' and 'Lark definitely didn't want me to die' to get mental support and prevent herself from breaking down in fear.

Moreover, compared with children from normal families, it is difficult for Ayaka Urano's parents to become her spiritual support. After discovering the danger level of the organization, Ayaka Uramio does not think that her fellow bad girls can save her, so it is naturally difficult for her to save her peers. As a spiritual support, as for the adults in the outside world, due to the suppression and denial of Urano Ayaka's biological mother and stepfather, and because those two people said that "you will only make adults hate you", Urano Ayaka thought of asking for help from teachers, the police, etc. As an adult, you may think, 'They won't care about a terrible, rebellious kid like me,' and have doubts about whether you can get help.

If she were in a normal state, Ayaka Urumu might not mind trying to see if she could get help from the teacher or the police, but facing the threat of death, Ayaka Urumu's spirit was in a state of high anxiety or high depression, and she would directly exclude those options that made her doubt and distrust. When there was no one to choose from, she chose him as her psychological support.

He had the ability to influence the trial field, could be contacted by Ayaka Urumu, and had never expressed disgust because of Ayaka Urumu's mixing with bad girls. For Ayaka Urumu, he was indeed a good spiritual support...

Ayaka Urumu only needed to find a suitable reason to convince herself, such as 'Lack is actually very good to me', 'As long as I do well, Lack will not hurt me', and brainwash herself to the point that she believed it without a doubt, so that 'Lack wine' would truly become a spiritual support, so that she could still see the hope of survival, so that Ayaka Urumu would have the motivation to persist in survival and her spirit would not completely collapse.

This was a choice made under the instinct of human survival.

After Ayaka Urumu left the trial field, her brain would automatically beautify that terrible experience. If she wanted to beautify that experience, she would naturally beautify the characters in her memory. He, who had been her spiritual pillar and did not hurt Ayaka Urumu afterwards, would become the focus of beautification.

"How do you feel after listening to the recording?"

When Takatori Yannan saw Chi Feichi turn off the recording on his phone and reach out to turn the knob on the monitoring device, he said with emotion, "When Urumu's mother and stepfather spoke, they either said that this was not good or felt wronged. I was a little upset. It was not easy for Urumu to insist on having dinner with them."

"After listening to it, I actually felt that I was not bad." Chi Feichi's hoarse voice revealed a hint of sarcasm, and he used the monitoring device to call up the second recording.

He really cares about the value of Uramura Ayaka. If Uramura Ayaka fails to achieve the goal, he will definitely punish Uramura Ayaka. But if Uramura Ayaka does well, he doesn't mind saying to Uramura Ayaka, "You did a good job this time."

As long as he has time, he doesn't mind listening to Uramura Ayaka. When Uramura Ayaka chattered with him about her school life and study, he was listening.

In this comparison, he suddenly felt that he was not bad as the boss. In terms of mental state and mental health, he seemed to be relatively normal.

It's worth being happy.

Moreover, the more this couple puts pressure on Uramura Ayaka and the less willing they are to listen to Uramura Ayaka, the more it is conducive for the organization to exert influence on Uramura Ayaka. With such a family, at least it is unlikely that Uramura Ayaka will be influenced by her family and suddenly turn to the police. He can also put down his previous worries.