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On the way home, Pan Ge showed a visible happiness.

Humming songs, jumping around, childish enough to step on the floor tiles.

It was also the first time for Han Lie to see her like this.

very cute.

Gradually, Han Lie's mood couldn't help but be infected by her, and he smiled from the bottom of his heart.

When they reached the downstairs of the community, Pan Ge suddenly stopped rushing up. Suddenly he turned his body upside down, put his little hands behind his back, looked directly at Han Lie, and asked him a question.

"Do you think that I am not obedient enough today, that I have too many bad ideas, that I can't wait to interfere in your life just after I have gained a little bit of status?"

Pan Ge rarely talked to Han Lie so seriously.

There is not much communication between the two that touches the depths of their souls. Most of the time, they are observing each other, and then overturning their original judgments and forming new perceptions during the confrontation...

Today was a good time, and Han Lie suddenly wanted to chat with her.

"Won't."

Han Lie shook his head: "I am going to marry a woman after all, and it is you. There is nothing wrong with it. We are very compatible, right?"

Pan Ge laughed happily, then pouted and complained: "You are in tune with everyone... Your rank is too high, and my mother doesn't allow me to care too much about you or mess around with you..."

"But I received too much help and favor from Uncle Pan and Aunt Zhao, as well as your connivance."

Han Lie did not refute her, but gave her a positive response from a different angle: "Replace your sincerity with your sincerity, right?"

"right!"

Pan Ge became happy again, and the slight anxiety and uneasiness in his heart quickly dissipated.

When a dog is not a dog, he is really warm, and glows with the unique charm of a mature man from the inside out.

Pan Ge thought for a while, tilted his head and asked again: "But you are really complicated... Sometimes I really can't figure out whether you are particularly responsible or have no sense of responsibility at all. How do you view responsibility?"

Regarding this question, Han Lie pondered for a moment.

He had the answer, but he didn't know how far it would be appropriate to explain it to Pan Ge.

After thinking for a while, he finally decided to tell the truth.

Whether she can truly understand it is her business, but her attitude is my problem.

So, in a low voice, he carefully talked about his thinking in this regard.

“When people live in this world, they always have to bear certain responsibilities, towards their children, their lovers, their parents, their subordinates, the society, and the nation…

When working as a social animal, it is enough to take good care of the small family.

When you are a small boss, you provide several jobs to support your family, pay taxes according to regulations, and naturally contribute to society.

Do something bigger, do some small charity within the scope of your ability, build a school and build a road for your hometown, and benefit your family. It will make you feel more at ease than worshiping any gods and Buddhas.

When you really reach a certain height, you have to start thinking about how to realize greater value in life.

"Zuo Zhuan: The Twenty-Fourth Year of Duke Xiang" says: "The supreme leader has established virtues, followed by meritorious services, and the third has established words. Even if they are not abolished for a long time, this is called immortality." ’

Some things in Confucianism are very dogmatic, but its core philosophy has not only shaped the soul of the nation for thousands of years, but also points directly to the ultimate destination of individuals.

I have never thought about being a saint and living such a tiring life, but I also want to pursue self-realization.

Speaking on a small scale, I have to take good care of my family, respond to all those who have helped me, think highly of me, and love me, and assume the most basic responsibilities and virtues of being a human being.

Speaking more broadly, I have to learn to be a leader, lead my team and partners to do something great, take root deeply in a certain level of society, and then spread my influence and enjoy the respect I deserve... …”

Pan Ge had stopped, listening to Han Lie's story in rapt attention.

In the past, she had not been interested in this kind of topic at all - what does the realization of value or lack of value have to do with me, a boring young lady who has too much money to spend?

But now, because of Han Lie, she not only listened very carefully, but even started to think along with him.

The reason is simple - her life will be completely embedded in Han Lie's life.

Then, his mission is also his own mission.

There is nothing to be afraid of if you don’t have a target, just follow him!

"You're already on the right track."

Xiao Shou Pan nodded seriously, indicating that he was thinking about it and agreed very much.

Um, so cute...

Han Lie smiled, happy and comfortable, and then continued speaking naturally.

“… Next, I will continue to do something for this country and this nation.

It sounds a bit false, but things like personal belonging and national identity are very strange. We usually don’t think of it at all, and we even sneer when others mention it. But once it comes to the real critical moment, most Yanhuang The spontaneous actions of our children will show that we have been under their strong and profound influence.

Western values ​​don’t quite believe in this. They always put ‘me’ first, put the individual above everything else, and pursue absolute freedom...”

Logically speaking, as Han Lie is a loser, he is the one most qualified to shout "I am the world".

However, as a smart person who truly understands philosophy, sociology, and the laws of the world, he knows very well what his roots are.

"do you know?

Without this nation and this land, no amount of success will make me happy.

If you think about it simply, this is as natural as 'rich people should return home'.

Thinking deeply, this is like the Jewish people's tireless pursuit of national restoration. A nation-state represents the home of the soul and true peace.

Didn't you expect that?

In fact, I am quite patriotic.

Patriotism should never be about loving the country because it is strong, but because of a fatalistic identity - I like who I am now, and everything about me is because of this land and its long-standing culture. Originated from.

I know exactly who I am, what I want now, and what I will pursue in the future.

So I can fully enjoy material things and satisfy all kinds of selfish desires without worrying about getting lost in the end.

So you don’t have to worry - I may not be a perfect husband who is particularly loyal and dedicated, but I will try my best to give you the greatest preference and shoulder the responsibilities that I should bear without losing my true heart. "

Han Lie finally introduced the real theme, so Pan Ge listened more carefully.

“In ordinary marriages, interest is an unavoidable theme. It usually replaces feelings and becomes the bond between husband and wife to maintain their relationship.

But for me, profit has never been the focus. It's not mine, I don't want it, it's mine, and I can spend most of it on you.

Correspondingly, I hope you can forgive and accept my imperfection.

Of course, you can still declare sovereignty to anyone, just like you did to Chen Yanfei today.

And I will try my best to respect you and start our pre-marriage relationship..."

Han Lie's words carried a kind of rationality and clarity unique to human sobriety.

When Pan Ge listened to his confession, instead of feeling that Han Lie was greedy, selfish and shameless, she felt heartbroken by his magnanimity.

A real man is born to conquer the world.

And women are also part of the world. What's wrong with conquering some women by the way?

She has lived in a patriarchal family since she was a child. Her father Pan Shengwu is the pillar of the family, a business card to the outside world, and the protector of mother and daughter. She deeply understands that fierce horses can only be restrained but not tamed.

If you want him to be ambitious outside and conquer cities, but at the same time you want him to be obedient and obedient at home, isn't that schizophrenia?

Not to mention men, even those powerful women, such as the iron lady Dong Mingzhu and Deng Wendi, who have not made a mess of their families and lives?

For some things, if you insist on having the best of both worlds, you are making things difficult for others and torturing yourself at the same time.

So it’s better to wake up and find a younger brother who can hold on to you if you want exclusive love, and support the sky and wind and rain outside by yourself.

If you want to find an unparalleled hero that you can admire, then accept his uncontrollability and look at the good and the bad dialectically.

Pan Ge's family determines that she does not have the naivety of a little girl. In contrast, Chen Yanfei, who is more cautious in her behavior, has been educated to be sophisticated but not worldly. She is sober and has the persistence of a girl. She is completely Another style.

Therefore, it is destined that Pan Ge is more suitable for the current Han Lie than the village beauty.

"I like your ideals, your understanding and pursuit of greatness."

Pan Ge responded word by word, carefully considering every word and striving to express accurately without making mistakes. His expression was so serious.

"I am not a particularly dreamy, capable, or passionate person, but I am very adaptable. Now that I have decided on you, I will get used to and accept everything you have.

Well, at least for now.

If you always treat me badly and always break my heart, then getting married doesn't mean anything, so...well, anyway, you know! "

At the end of the story, she became inexplicably shy.

He no longer looked into Han Lie's eyes, turned his head away, and rubbed the ground with his toes.

Han Lie smiled, stepped forward, hugged her slender waist, and kissed her gently on the forehead.

"I know! I'm a scumbag. So, in order to celebrate the official establishment of the Dog Boy and Girl Group, shouldn't we find a place to have some excitement?"

Pan Ge was frightened.

He jumped away like a rabbit and looked at the dog man warily: "What do you want to do? I'm warning you, it's best not to even think about those weird things!"

Then, before Han Lie could use his tricks and eloquent words, he immediately rushed towards Han Lie's unit.

Run!

It's safe when you run home!

Gou Lie was speechless - What are you doing? Am I so scary and unreliable?

Humph, you are smart!

When the two of them returned home after playing around, Pan Zi was holding Han Yong's tea ceremony, and Annie was chatting with Ma Honglian about skin care, and they were all enjoying themselves.

Pan Zi was very classy and didn't tell Han Yong how much the teapot was worth until the end. Instead, he kept urging him to drink more of the tea he brought, saying it was good for his health.

But Han Yong was used to being thrifty and kept waving his hands.

"How can I afford this... No, no, the big-leaf jasmine is quite nice and will quench your thirst!"

Hearing this, the flesh on Pan Zi's cheeks twitched.

What a sin!

Gu Jingzhou's pot has fallen to this point. I can't help but feel sorry for you!

Looking at the Tieguanyin, Pu'er, Qimen Mountain black tea, and Xinyang Maojian lined up on the table, Pan Zi despaired.

Old Han, I'm willing to give up the pot and prepare the tea for you. Why don't you listen to my advice? !

Han Yong was also aggrieved: What kind of family? A pot of tea costs several thousand yuan, and I took two sips of the small cup. Ten thousand yuan was gone. What a fuss?

On the other side, the communication between Annie and Lao Ma was not smooth either.

The mother-in-law tried her best to tell Ma Honglian the secret of skin care. The old Ma's face was serious, as if she was being tortured.

It took a lot of effort for her to hold back what she said in her heart - sister, we both have no surnames anymore. No matter how hard we try to take care of ourselves, we might as well give Lao Han some home remedies...

The vastly different lifestyles are destined to lead to communication difficulties.

No matter how high EQ Panzi and Anni are, and no matter how backward compatible they are, they cannot be reduced to the level of old Han and old horse.

The result is that chickens and ducks can only talk about superficial family information.

As soon as Han Lie and Pan Ge came back, both families were liberated.

Then Pan Ge's chirping eased up, and the room was filled with joyful laughter again.

At around 9 o'clock, Pan Shengwu and his family said goodbye and returned to the hotel.

On the way, Annie suddenly said something incoherently: "This family is very nice."

Could it be bad?

Han Lie was already terrifyingly strong. If his parents were still strong and had their own ideas, Pan Ge would definitely have a hard time in the future.

Now is the ideal time. Han Lie's parents are just ordinary citizens. They treat Pan Ge as a treasure. They are easy to tease and have few troubles. Even living together is comfortable enough. What's more, they have no plans to leave their hometown and settle in the magic city?

Pan Shengwu's heart also dropped, he nodded slightly and said with emotion: "Fate... Nannan is a lucky one!"

Pan Ge smiled sweetly and was in a very happy mood.

That gem, coupled with Han Lie's connivance today, can already clarify a basic fact - although Han Lie is a little carefree, he has a great heart to repay kindness and is not the kind of ordinary financial man who can't get out of money. Cold-blooded man.

As long as the major issues are upheld, minor problems are not obstacles at all.

When the whole family thinks like this, the decision to get married is basically finalized, and many things will never be the same again.

…

Before going to bed, Han Lie received several photos from Niuben and the corresponding text reports.

Wen Yu endured it all the time at first, but was so tortured by Niu Ben and his younger brothers that he went to the bathroom and vomited more than once.

Later, Wen Yu met a group of buddies at a nightclub, and finally couldn't help but fall out, and then the two parties had a fight, with both parties injured.

Wen Yu himself is quite miserable. He is currently in the hospital and will have to deal with things later.

Xiao Yinbi's tragic photo looked quite relieving, but Han Lie didn't look at it much. He just smiled casually and replied: "Come to Mengyuan to report to me tomorrow."

If things go well, then I'll give you a chance, that's all.

A meteoric rise?

It depends on your ability!

…

The next day, Han Lie took his parents and called Pan Zi's family to see the house in Mengyuan.

Pan Dajun had been waiting at the sales office to receive him early, and had a pleasant chat with Han Yong and Pan Shengwu.

After a brief look at the king of the building, Pan Shengwu made the decision on the spot: "Keep both floors, and you don't have to worry about the decoration. I'll find someone from Shanghai to do it. I'll ask Brother Pan to cooperate with me when the time comes..."

"It should."

Pan Dajun smiled brightly and flexibly provided assistance: "Leave all the materials to me. When the time comes, you will ask the designer to make a list, and I will find the best master to do it. Your people can control the quality. Come on, let’s work together to set a benchmark and open the eyes of the bumpkins in Dream City!”

This person is good at flattering and makes Zhao Anni and Ma Honglian smile.

Taking an opportunity, Han Lie had a private chat with Pan Zi about taking over Mengyuan.

After hearing the whole story, Pan Zi immediately agreed with Han Lie's idea.

“This idea is very spiritual. If you sell such high-end houses in Dream City, you do have a unique advantage, and the funds will be withdrawn very quickly.

Okay, I'll help you contact Caiye when you get back and lend you the money. He won't have any worries. "

In fact, the focus is still on Pan Zi's guarantee.

Otherwise, for a large loan like this, we may not be able to reach an agreement even after a month of wrangling.

If Pan Dajun had a way to borrow this kind of short-term financing with moderate interest and fast payment, do you think he would be in a hurry to get rid of the project?

This is the importance of support from noble people.

Of course, the prerequisite for the noble person to be effective is that you must be able to stand up and be valuable.

Han Lie's start could not have been smoother, but all of this was made by himself, and it was inevitable by accident.

Back at lunch, Han Lie gave Pan Dajun a reassurance.

During the banquet, the business was basically settled. He only had to wait for the signing of the contract and payment, and this top-level community in Dream City would belong to him.

Pan Dajun shouted one after another, and called Pan Shaohang over temporarily.

Xiao Pan called "Brother Lie" and "Sister-in-law" without changing his expression. He drank almost half a catty of white wine one mouthful at a time, and then fell down happily.

At this point, the grudges have been completely cleared up, and new friendships begin to have the basis to move forward.

The trip back home is coming to an end with a general satisfaction and a small regret.

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