Crazy Psychologist

How could such a thing be said directly?

What will others think of me?

Even if the neighborhood committee cared about her and asked her to talk about domestic violence so that she could find a way to help Liu Xiaoju, she didn't say anything. She just said that maybe because of differences in the concept of taking care of children, everyone's tempers sometimes got a little grumpy. No one wants to listen to anyone else!

In short, there are some problems that do exist, but who doesn’t have such problems?

"By the way, how are things going with you and your wife?"

Mu Chun suddenly asked, and Huang Ke's face turned red.

His feet were originally placed on the ground, but now they are stepping on the crossbar of the wooden chair, and his right hand is constantly rubbing the wafer biscuits.

"Ah, I just want to know. I heard that many couples become less and less interested in that area after getting married, and even less after having children. They almost no longer perform breeding rituals. Is this true? Huh? Now, I have a person I want to date. Although I fell in love with her on a dating website, I really want to know if I will always like her. Now I feel that if I can have her, I will definitely It's very beautiful, but will the relationship fade away after you actually have it?

If that's the case, wouldn't it be such a pity that if you look at someone all day long, you may like them, but you just don't have that kind of thought? Would something like this happen? "

It was clearly said just now that the Department of Psychosomatics was for chatting with patients, so why now it has become a matter of patients accompanying doctors to solve problems?

Huang Ke shook his head, "Not necessarily, every family is different. After we got married, Liu Xiaoju was actually more interested in that aspect than before, and our relationship has always been very close."

Huang Ke's voice became quieter and quieter, and the last few words were almost inaudible.

She still didn't eat the wafer biscuits. Instead, she squeezed the index finger, middle finger and ring finger of her right hand tightly with her left hand, until the three fingers turned pale.

"When he first fell in love, he was very shy and had some low self-esteem, because at that time Xiaoju was just a boy who graduated from college and couldn't even find a decent job. At that time, his biggest ideal was to live in this city. , buy a house.”

"Sounds very inspiring."

"Ah, yes, he is a very hard-working boy. This is why I like him. At that time, I actually had a better opportunity to work in another city. Although the city was not as prosperous as here, the positions and salary were better. It's better. I wasn't born and raised here originally. I wanted to travel around and choose a place to live forever. He wanted to work hard here. I hesitated, but in the end I stayed here because of him.

In the third year of our relationship, my family was urging us to get married, so we took out a loan to buy a very small house here. The house is located in Liudong. The environment is elegant, but there are many mosquitoes in summer. At the beginning, it was still a suburb with few residents, so it was very quiet. He has to take the subway for 50 minutes to go to work, and the round trip takes more than two and a half hours, but he never complains and works hard every day.

Even though I think it must be very hard for him to come home after working overtime, we still hug each other and fall asleep together after midnight snack. "

"It looks like the wedding takes a long time."

"Yes, it wasn't until the fifth year when our first child was born. After he was born, we moved to a bigger house. His income increased very quickly in those years. Sometimes I didn't know how the money was earned. I quit my job and took care of my children at home.

We still loved each other during those times, and I even think he enjoyed it a little too much. Doctor, do you understand? That kind of enthusiasm that never goes away, day, night, morning, and sometimes even a little bit of time in the kitchen. At that time, there was an aunt at home who helped with housework."

"Well, good health, lots of energy, or maybe you just love each other very much."

Huang Xiaoxiao looks very beautiful, but can't hide her embarrassment.

"The change started two and a half years ago, when we gave birth to our second child. It was really hard at that time. During that time, the company expanded its operations and opened several branches in several cities. There were many senior executives in the company. Managers were rushing back and forth, and he was no exception. At that time, he had just been promoted, so he couldn't make mistakes and performed better than usual. Most of the employees in the branch were new employees, and he had to train new employees and start them up. The new company’s local business often involves being away for more than a week, and then having to travel again for two or three days after returning.”

“Many families can’t survive being together less and away more.”

"In the first few months, we were still very affectionate. I mean, he seemed more enthusiastic than before, and of course I didn't hate it. But after returning from a certain business trip, he became cold."

"No more sweetness between husband and wife?"

"Yes, I can't tell it at ordinary times. He is even nicer to me. He gives me more household expenses and buys me various things. But I actually don't use them. I have been at home for a long time and I don't need those luxuries. . But he still bought it for me, and the more he bought, the more he bought. Our quarrels became more and more frequent, sometimes over small things. We no longer use emotions to iron out our lives, we use calculations and words, even words. Text Analysis."

"You no longer have sex?"

Huang Ke's eyes turned to the window.

The haze was deep, and her eyes were full of haze.

"Do you know why?"

Muchun asked.

Huang Ke shook his head, how could a woman know the reason, and how could she not know the reason.

"He said that he was very busy at work and not feeling well. He seemed to be very afraid that I would mention taking some health supplements or going for a check-up. Every time I mentioned it, he would say that the company had just had a physical check-up and I in good health.

I learned a lot about physical examinations. Generally, physical examinations in companies are ordinary physical examinations, and the scope and degree of success involved are very limited. I hope that if he feels uncomfortable, he will not hide it from me. I followed him when he failed to achieve anything. Could it be that Will you reject him just because he feels uncomfortable now? "

Huang Ke shook his head like a rattle and said vaguely, "I don't know, I don't know, I really don't know."

"This kind of thing is really not easy."

Before Mu Chun finished speaking, Liu Xiaoju pushed open the door and entered with a piece of white tape on his hand. It was the kind of transparent tape used to fix infusion needles.

Liu Xiaoju has a burly figure and looks several times stronger than Muchun. The muscles in his arms are the result of long-term training in the gym. He is also very tall and straight. There is no sign of the spinal problems that people who sit in offices for a long time can have.

"What are you doing here? I've been waiting for you in the internal medicine department for a long time."

Liu Xiaoju's tone was like a boss talking to an employee.

"I'm here to ask the doctor for some advice."

"What's the matter? Is it because of the quarrel in the infusion room just now? That's our family matter, and we don't need outsiders to interfere."