Crazy Psychologist

"Yes, there is a nanny at home to take care of him during the day. His wife has been dead for more than ten years. You said that after Wu Fang got a wife, he didn't care about the father at all. It's not a big deal, right? Although Lao Wu didn't rush out later. It’s the first pot of gold in the online economy, but it won’t mean that the family is in ruins. It’s just that the assets haven’t been enlarged. If you ask me, I suspect that Wu Fangfang has always been angry, and now he simply doesn’t care about the old man.”

Before Sun Xiangyun finished speaking, Amin interrupted: "What are you talking about, old man? You are still young. Now, people of your age are not called elderly. Only those who are over eighty are considered elderly. Okay, you are all middle-aged and elderly."

"But Lao Wu can't speak clearly now. I listened to him talking vaguely for more than an hour. In the middle, he said he had a stomachache and went to the toilet twice. He couldn't stand up even with a cane, and he had to wait for the nanny to come and help him. "Look, you said that a grown man now needs a nanny to help him go to the toilet, and he can't clean himself, so he has to rely on others to take care of him. This is really the way to live."

"That doesn't mean Wu Fang and his wife won't come to see this father anymore. They don't live far away now."

Amin asked angrily, thinking that if he collapsed on the bed many years later, he wondered if his son and daughter-in-law would just throw him to the nanny like this.

"They live in Fengting Haiyuan. It only takes 20 minutes to walk to Lao Wu's place, and it takes five or six minutes to drive there. You just don't want to come see Lao Wu. This dad is of no use now, let alone , there are not a few young people with this mentality.”

"I don't believe our children will be like this in the future. Speaking of which, can the nanny take care of him? Who will accompany Lao Wu when he goes to see a doctor or something?"

"Community hospital beds. Doctors from the community hospital come to your home once a week, but the nanny said that the doctor hasn't come to your home for more than a month. It seems that Wu Fang didn't register or something. Old Wu, he's really suffered enough now. I can’t even stand it.”

"Then when you go there, they won't even be able to entertain you for tea. The nanny can understand what Lao Wu is saying. Many nannies can't understand the local dialect here. What a sin, Lao Wu? good person."

Sun Xiangyun picked up another piece of bread and chatted that he had already eaten two pieces of bread and a piece of apple.

"What can you expect from a nanny, and it's not the kind of 24-hour nanny. I heard from Lao Wu that if someone refuses to take care of someone at night, it's too troublesome. Lao Wu's brother comes to stay with him at night, and his brother has to go to work in the morning. Lao Wu probably gave his brother a lot of money, otherwise his brother wouldn't be able to leave his own family alone and live in his brother's house every night to take care of him. I think the happiness index of the elderly is too low. They really can't stay in bed even if they are sick. In bed, it was horrible."

Amin shook his head, "I can't help it. Lao Wu has brothers and sisters, but you don't have any brothers and sisters. You have to rely on me and our son."

Sun Xiangyun shook his head, "My son looks good now, but there is no filial son in bed for a long time. Who knows if he will take good care of me if he does fall down? Maybe I can find a nanny for me during the day, or at night." I want you to work hard, but it’s more important for me to be nice to my wife.”

Seeing her husband joking like usual again, Amin felt a little more relaxed.

"Teacher Chen, you know, Grandpa Chen, he lives in Building 3." Amin tried to change the topic.

"Of course I know, we have a famous longevity old man here." Sun Xiangyun said.

"Well, he died two days ago, probably on Saturday."

Amin said while clearing the dishes.

"Wait a minute, I also want to eat a piece of apple."

Sun Xiangyun took the bowl of apples and suddenly found that his left hand was shaking. Amin noticed that something was wrong with her husband's expression, and quickly continued: "The nanny found it. She asked him to have breakfast in the morning, but he couldn't wake him up."

"The nanny found it? Don't they live with the children? Is the nanny taking care of them at night?"

"Yes, Lao Chen seems to have found a nanny to sleep in the next room at night. Because he is too old, the family is afraid that he cannot take good care of him, so in the past few months, he has paid for a nanny to take care of him. During the day, there is no problem. The eldest son is almost 70 years old and has retired at home a long time ago. He is afraid that he will not be able to take care of the elderly at night, so he has been looking for a nanny to take care of him. However, now the nannies are not willing to take care of him at night, and those who have the ability are willing to do menstruation. Sister-in-law, I don’t get much money for the rest of the night as an escort. It only costs 3,000 yuan a month at most. My family thinks that I just sleep and sleep. I don’t even have to get up if nothing happens. Compared with the confinement sister-in-law, the treatment is really world-class. What a difference."

"The confinement nanny is amazing, the confinement nanny costs 18,000 yuan a month."

Sun Xiangyun coughed and shook his head while laughing, "Young people nowadays really can't take care of anything by themselves."

Amin also shook his head, "Anyway, I can't afford to get sick when I get old. Not to mention, I spend a lot of money when I get sick. I am bedridden and have no one to take care of me. I can't go anywhere. It's really scary to think about this kind of life."

"The main reason is that it's dirty. I think people get very dirty after lying on the bed for a long time. There is also a strange smell in the room. It makes me want to vomit when I smell it. That day I saw the nanny helping Old Wu to go to the toilet and then returning it to me after using the toilet. I didn’t dare to eat any fruit or tea that I brought because I was afraid that Lao Wu would be unhappy if I didn’t eat. People, after lying in bed, their brains are confused and their nerves are more sensitive than when they are awake. He understands your every emotion better than others. Everyone knows it.”

"Stop talking, it's terrible. It's better if you don't eat it. I think the nanny's work is not clean after all."

Amin frowned and added: "So you see, I never let the nanny enter the house. I would rather work harder on myself."

"Should we go to Old Chen's house to see the memorial platform? It should be that the memorial platform has not been evacuated today, so we can send some money or something. After all, we have been neighbors for so many years, and Grandpa Chen is such a lovely old man. In the summer, I stood He even used a fan to help me drive away mosquitoes while I was painting in the pavilion."

Sun Xiangyun said that he imitated the way Grandpa Chen used to drive away mosquitoes, using his right hand as a fan and grabbing his right wrist with his left hand to pretend to fan.

"It's not available on Saturday morning. Maybe it's not too late to go today." Amin picked up the dinner plate and said as he walked to the kitchen.

Sun Xiangyun thought that it was only 8:30 in the morning, so he should go to Lao Chen's place first before going to the hospital.

Although there are many things that I want to talk to the doctor about, Grandpa Chen is going to be 100 years old in a week. Why is it that he suddenly said no?

"Don't tell me, there are a lot of elderly people missing around here recently." Amin said in the kitchen.

"It's true. I only know two of them in our community."