Crazy Psychologist

Although the child is young, he also understands that the people around him look at him in an unfriendly way. Whether anyone around him likes him or hates him, children sometimes know this feeling in their hearts.

Later, Muchun told Xie Chunping and Li Xiaoyun that children do not classify various emotions very carefully, and children will only be "abandoned" in a hurry.

Neglect from adults, parents leaving their children with the elderly, or parents yelling or even beating their children.

Children cannot think about many complex emotions, but they will feel - abandoned.

This feeling will follow the children throughout their lives, and many will not change for many years into adulthood.

When you grow up, this feeling of abandonment will develop into a certain kind of people-pleasing personality.

Because they are afraid of being abandoned, they always work hard to do a lot of things and always hope that people around them think they are good. Such a life will be a very tiring life.

And for all the carelessness of parents, it is the children who bear everything.

Li Xiaoyun finally calmed down after listening to Mu Chun's words, and Muchun's voice also softened, "It is indeed difficult. Whether it is now or in the future, there are many things to face, but we can face it together."

"Tell me, what's the disease?" Li Xiaoyun stretched out his right hand to wipe away his tears.

"It should be [Tourette's syndrome], a hereditary neurological disease."

After Muchun finished speaking, Li Xiaoyun was confused, "Doctor, I don't understand, so you just tell me how to treat me, what kind of medicine should I buy, or should I do some infrared physiotherapy or something?"

"There are no targeted drugs."

Muchun replied.

"No?"

"Yes, not at all."

"Actually, we met last time in the concert hall. Do you still remember?" Muchun reminded Li Xiaoyun.

Only then did she realize that this was indeed the case. She had indeed met this doctor when she took Xie Xiaofei to the finals of the Lechuan National Piano Competition. At that time, she thought this man was nosy, but it turned out that people around him said that he was really a doctor.

During the intermission, in the hall, Li Xiaoyun couldn't help his temper and educated Xie Xiaofei, but was later stopped by a man.

This person is Dr. Muchun! That’s right!

"I'm really sorry," Li Xiaoyun said, "I'm really sorry."

"I just said that Dr. Muchun must have a solution here. I saw many people on the Internet saying that Dr. Muchun is very good." Xie Chunping praised bluntly.

Li Xiaoyun glanced at her husband from the corner of her eye, and then asked Dr. Muchun seriously, "What should I do if there is no specific medicine?"

"Tourette's syndrome usually begins before puberty, but in some cases it ends at the end of puberty, and in some patients it may persist."

"Then how do you know which category our Xie Xiaofei belongs to?" Li Xiaoyun asked hurriedly.

Muchun understands very well the worry and pressure parents feel when they know their child is sick and there is no clear treatment.

When I saw Xie Xiaofei in the concert hall, this sense of oppression already existed in Muchun's heart. And when Xie Xiaofei grows up, when he understands people's evaluations and understands more emotions, what Xie Xiaofei will have to face This world will be very unfriendly.

"There is no way to judge." Muchun decided to tell the truth.

He has no way to hide the child's pain from the parents, because this concealment may temporarily alleviate the parents' pain, but it has no meaning at all.

"Then what are we going to do?" Xie Chunping grabbed Li Xiaoyun's shoulders, his fingers trembling slightly.

"First, these symptoms, such as strange cries and body tremors, will occur more frequently due to emotional stress. It will be much better to keep your emotions as calm as possible.

Second, exercising more and improving physical fitness will be helpful.

Third, family harmony. Even if the child has no problems, we should try our best to maintain family harmony. In addition, slowly let him understand his own problems. This kind of problem does not affect him and every normal child. There is no difference between them. .

It is necessary to consider in advance the inferiority complex that children may have due to the surrounding environment, and build and protect the child's self-confidence. Parents, especially, must not let the child feel that because of these strange things about himself, his parents are embarrassed, so his parents look down on him.

He will definitely encounter various difficulties outside, because we cannot avoid or prevent other people's eyes and bad words from happening, right? "

Xie Chunping and Li Xiaoyun nodded together.

I don’t know how much they understood. When leaving the hospital, Li Xiaoyun secretly returned and asked Dr. Muchun if he could try some drugs. Muchun originally wanted to prescribe her some drugs to control Tourette’s syndrome, but Xie Xiaofei’s current condition The situation is not too serious. Mu Chun hopes that they can bring the child for a follow-up visit every half month and record the time when the child's symptoms become severe at home, with a cycle of two weeks. At the same time, Mu Chun suggested that Li Xiaoyun communicate with the school teacher about this matter. , explain the child's situation truthfully, so that the child may suffer less pain at school.

Mu Chun tried his best to do everything that could be done in advance, but whether the child would suffer pain outside, Mu Chun knew that it would definitely happen.

This family has to face and endure this matter together. Whether a child with Tourette's syndrome can grow into a happy and cheerful child depends on the influence of parents.

Of course, Muchun also hopes that Xie Xiaofei can escape the control of this disease after a wonderful period of adolescence.

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That night, Mu Chun made an appointment with Mu Xiao for dinner. Mu Xiao saw that Mu Chun's expression was a little gloomy, thinking that he was worried about the professor, and wanted to comfort him, but Mu Chun asked about Xiaolan Ping and Dahai.

"You mean their Tourette syndrome charity movie?" Mu Xiao asked.

Mu Chun nodded, put down his chopsticks and asked Mu Xiao, is the filming of this movie going smoothly?

Mu Xiao took out her mobile phone from her bag and told Mu Chun happily, "It's so great. I really didn't expect that these two children could do this to such a complete extent. I thought they would be simple at first. They just found some patients and did some interviews, but they actually used the documentary filming method of follow-up shooting. I watched the edited version for the first time and cried while watching it."

When she said this, Mu Xiao's eyes were red, as if she was about to shed tears in the hotel.

"Don't cry, why are you so fragile?" Muchun comforted.

"What's fragile? Is it touching? See for yourself."

Mu Xiao opened the video and handed it to Mu Chun.

This early edited version often lasted for more than an hour. Muchun, a grown man, wanted to cry after just reading the story of the first patient.

"It's really too difficult." Muchun said while leaning on the chair.

"Yes, this girl's parents are divorced and she lives with her mother. She was laughed at by her classmates when she was studying. She finally graduated from college and wanted to find a job, but she was repeatedly called weird by her boss. It doesn't reflect the company's image particularly well, or She was rejected because it would affect the work of other colleagues. It was really not easy, but you see she is so optimistic and looks like a completely normal 21-year-old girl."

In the documentary, the girl named Liu Hui showed Dahai the medicines she took. There were more than 20 kinds of medicines in a shoe box. She took out five cans and poured the pills in according to the dosage requirements on the instructions. On the palm of your hand.

She extended her hand toward the camera lens and then said: "Look, this is the medicine I take every day, no, it's the medicine I take every meal."

Liu Hui counted them in front of the camera, "Eighteen!" she said.

"Is it useful to eat it?" Dahai asked.

"What do you think? Have you never taken these medicines?" Liu Hui smiled heartily.

The voice of the sea appeared in the screen, "I have been eating it for a year or two, but my mother said it is useless. It is useless at all, so it is not a waste of money."

"Hahaha, I don't know how many years I have been taking these medicines. What you see here are more than a dozen bottles of medicine. Look at these, I don't even know how to take these medicines or what they are. Anyway, some are vitamins and some are Some nourish the nerves, and some heal emotions—because I’m often either very irritable, very irritable, or very irritable.”

Liu Hui's mother said from the side: "Yes, he is very irritable, almost like a psychopath."

The picture still stayed on Liu Hui's mother Liu Fangmin, but suddenly Liu Hui's voice broke in, "What does it mean to be like a psycho? Am I not a psycho? A psycho and a psycho."

Liu Hui, who was wearing a ponytail, yelled at Liu Fangmin while tapping her fingers on the table, making her whole body tremble.

"Look, she's like this. She can't say a word. How can I say anything to her? Whenever I say something, she gets angry and quarrels with me all day long." Liu Fangmin didn't look at Liu Hui or the camera. I was scrolling through Weibo on my phone.

"Don't worry about it. My mother and I are like this. It's not easy for her. Mom! Stop scrolling on Weibo. What's the point?"

As she spoke, Liu Hui roared again. When she roared, her neck twisted around, and there were sounds like teeth fighting in her mouth from time to time.

"You can read it slowly when you go back, and I will send it to you. But I can tell you in advance that Liu Hui is still very optimistic, so she is a very lucky girl. She found a job in a few days. Dahai also interviewed the boss of Liu Hui's new company. Then The boss is also a very kind person. He said that Liu Hui is very good and is the employee that their company wants. As for such a small problem, Liu Hui told the boss clearly during the interview and also solved it for the boss. She gave a detailed and clear explanation. The boss thought she was very brave and frank, and she was the employee he wanted.

Although the salary was not high, Liu Hui was very happy and said she would buy a new dress for her mother. She had not bought new clothes for a long time. "

"That's great. Can a movie like this take first place?"

Muchun asked with a smile.

"Not necessarily. This movie is very touching, but many charity films are also very touching. The one I received now is "Children of the Stars" filmed by an [autism] charity organization. It is also very, very touching. I I cried after watching it again, and after crying I wanted to watch it again.”

"Autism?" Muchun asked.

"Yes, autism."

"I saw a child before, but the mother didn't notice the child's problem at all. She just wanted me to give her a medical certificate proving that the child was mentally retarded. Then, I don't know what she wanted to do. ”

Muchun thought of Fang Jia and her daughter. That child looked likely to be an [autistic] child.

"If parents don't pay attention, or use completely unscientific methods to deal with their children's problems, then it will be the children who will suffer, and many of them will last a lifetime."

Mu Xiao's expression was very solemn.

Children's problems have always been a big concern for psychopsychiatrists.

"By the way," Mu Xiao added, "Please help me think of a name. Xiao Lanping said that she and Dahai were about to quarrel, and they couldn't think of a name that both of them thought was suitable, so she wanted to ask me to help think of it. I don’t know what to name it. The name of the documentary is quite important. It is best to let everyone know what the theme of the movie is from the title. In addition, it can also have a positive energy. It must be positive. It’s better to be more beautiful.”

Mu Chun looked at Mu Xiao, raised his fingers, and then said with a smile: "This is really very demanding."

"You can figure it out. I know Muchun is smart."

"In terms of naming, I think our parents are probably more capable, Mu Chun, Mu Xiao, what do you think?"

Muchun made a joke, but he was thinking about finding a suitable name for this movie. This movie is very touching, and it also tells everyone about a disease that few people know about-Tourette's syndrome.

But these young patients with Tourette's syndrome are so energetic. For example, Dahai himself is also a musician, often participating in various music performances, and gradually gaining some fame in the circle.

"Have you thought of it?" Mu Xiao urged.

"When I thought of it, I called it "Proper Happiness."" Mu Chun said.

"Perfect happiness?" Mu Xiao repeated, and then a beautiful smile bloomed on her face. The light and shadow suddenly flowed in her eyes, and there seemed to be tears, but they were tears of joy.

"Good name," she said.

"Then ask Dahai and Xiao Lanping if they like it. Only they know what is most suitable for the documentary they shot. Do I need to think of a backup?" Mu Chun asked again.

"I think this name is enough. Why do you even have a plan B for the name? This is plan C. Mu Chun's true bad habits will not change." Mu Xiao deliberately laughed at him.

"It's really hard to change bad habits. I seem to have some bad memory, so I may have to be more careful in the future and think about everything." Mu Chun rubbed his forehead, thinking of the past few days Ri Hongling said those weird words, but when he thought of those words, Muchun's head felt a little painful.

"What's wrong with you?" Mu Xiao touched Mu Chun's forehead with concern, "You don't have a fever!"