Crazy Psychologist
Chapter 637 Between inferiority complex and control
"That's it. Look at the wound on the leg."
Liu Tiantian pulled out the previous photos, and Muchun was a little surprised that the girl actually kept them carefully.
"This wound really looks like a nail. Is the cat still lame when walking?" Zhang Wenwen felt really distressed when he saw it.
"A little bit." Liu Tiantian said.
"And the legs are shaved."
"um, yes."
"Did Dr. Muchun shave the kitten's hair when he was treating the wound?"
Muchun suppressed the urge to hit Zhang Wenwen and said, "I didn't shave the hair on this leg."
"Nonsense, that's too neat. Didn't you notice that the hair looked like it was shaved with depilatory cream or wax paper?"
When Zhang Wenwen said this, it was Liu Tiantian's turn to be surprised, "How do you know all this?"
"If you don't know, the hair removal movement has been around for almost a hundred years. It is a weird movement that started in the West. It started with armpit and leg hair. It sounds a bit anti-human.
Nowadays, there are many people who advocate that there is no need to demand women in this way. It can be considered a part of women's rights. "
"Wait a minute, we're talking about cats." Liu Tiantian corrected him, fearing that Zhang Wenwen would continue talking like this.
"So, it really doesn't look like the kitten injures itself, but neither the depilatory cream nor the wax paper are used to remove hair from cats. They are all used to remove hair from humans. Who dares to touch the hair on a cat? ?”
Before Muchun finished asking, Zhang Wenwen and Liu Tiantian said in unison: "People who abuse cats can do anything."
After finishing speaking, Zhang Wenwen added: "Don't look at some people who dress up cats beautifully and take pictures. If they fail to turn around, they will knock the cat to death. There is only a difference between 0 and countless times of cat abuse."
"It's too cruel." Liu Tiantian shook his head and couldn't help biting his finger.
Muchun looked at the photo and hesitated to speak, as if he was thinking about something important.
Suddenly, Liu Tiantian said: "Doctor Mu, do you still remember what I told you about my good friend? He was the one who was badly beaten by Yang Xing."
"pua?" Zhang Wenwen made a tsk-tsk sound, "Those who teach such courses online can make a lot of money. Now the world is in decline and people are in panic. Unparalleled good men like Muchun and I are already scarce. "
"It's not scarcity, it's that you don't have the means of the pua group of people. They will first do what they want and care about girls very much, making girls feel that this is the person they are looking for. Then they will become your best friends and let you I think he is the best person to confide in. They seem to have good careers, often start their own business, own a car or go to some art and petty bourgeoisie places. Some of them are very caring.
Those people continue to give girls an impression through social networking sites, that is, they have a certain taste in life, love learning, and are proactive in their careers. "
"Sounds like an ideal date." Muchun closed his eyes and seemed to mutter to himself.
"Yes, that's it. That's how my sister was hurt. She was very cautious at first and never thought that she would meet a caring, handsome and polite boy. Although he was not a graduate of one of those prestigious universities, let alone They are not international students or anything like that, but they have a positive attitude towards life and their daily speech is very heart-warming.
He will appear when girls need him, but he won't pester them all day long. "
"Just the right amount of detachment is especially useful for girls. It will affect their minds and make them keep thinking about what that person is doing and whether he will ignore me. In short, in the end, it will let the girls think about it. Is there something about her that isn’t good enough?”
"That's right. Teacher Muchun seems to be very knowledgeable."
Liu Tiantian wanted to give a thumbs up, but felt that this kind of thing had hurt countless kind and stupid girls, and it was really not worthy of praise.
"Next, that boy will show another side."
Liu Tiantian bit his lip, and Zhang Wenwen listened more and more intently, "On the other side, has the heart of a tiger or a wolf been exposed?"
"Do you really not understand at all? Dr. Zhang?"
Liu Tiantian couldn't believe it. The Dr. Zhang in front of him had absolutely superior conditions. The most valuable thing was that he had a good family background. This was beyond the reach of many PUA men. In the final analysis, it was almost a pain in their hearts, so they liked to look for people with good family backgrounds. A good girl is well-educated and even has a strict upbringing.
If these girls are alone in a strange city or have just graduated and are working in a company, their lives are relatively unstable, and there will be a stage for them to perform.
He said coldly and asked for warmth, yet he seemed to be far away.
After that, he suddenly disappeared. When the girl asked anxiously, he said that he had low self-esteem and felt that he was not worthy of the other party.
"To put it simply, after knowing each other for a while, the boys suddenly start to feel inferior to each other. At this time, they start to exchange hearts and minds. This completely stimulates the girls' sympathy."
"Ah, is there such a thing? I probably don't understand what the boys here are thinking. I have never had such trouble chasing a girl. Does Dr. Muchun have it?"
Muchun closed his eyes and shook his head.
Zhang Wenwen asked in confusion, "Are all boys like this now?"
"Some boys are like this. After such an in-depth conversation, the girls' minds are automatically tied to the boys. Of course, this is what the girls came up with." Liu Tiantian became more and more angry as he talked, and opened the refrigerator and took out a bottle of soda. water.
"Do girls have some Virgin feelings, or natural motherhood? In fact, girls should be more selfish and just take care of themselves. Why should they take care of the thoughts of a man they have known for a short time?"
Zhang Wenwen said it was very confusing.
"It is difficult to distinguish these traps and lies. Otherwise, there would be no bad people who would turn this kind of thing into a science and teach it online, right? Many communities are actually transformations of pua, but they are changed It’s just a piece of skin that’s hard for everyone to notice.”
"For example?"
"For example, the 'Future Elite Exchange Group'."
"Ah? Shouldn't it be something like a 'waste concentration camp'?"
Zhang Wenwen said with a smile.
"I'm not joking with you. What I'm telling you is true. They will also teach each other their experiences. For example, have you met another good prey? Is there any new meat recently?"
"Is it possible to directly buy and sell resources? Introduce them to another boy?"
Zhang Wenwen thought about it for a moment, but unexpectedly he encountered Liu Tiantian's sharp eyes.
"After the inferiority complex is over, the third stage is reached, where the relationship is established, and then further indifference, pushing back and finding fault."
"Critical? How to be picky? Don't the previous scripts all look like dog-licking scripts? Warm men style?"
Zhang Wenwen deliberately stood up and turned on the coffee machine. The roar of the machine woke Muchun up.
"I'm listening. You don't have to make such a loud noise on purpose. Please give me a cup of coffee. Liu Tiantian, please continue."
Liu Tiantian didn't expect that Muchun didn't chase her downstairs, but asked her to continue talking. The encouraged little nurse nodded and continued speaking seriously.
“And then there’s the inferiority complex from hell.”
"An inferiority complex?" Zhang Wenwen started to feel like he was listening to a book from heaven.
"It's all kinds of disgusting looks and words that make girls feel inferior and doubt themselves."
"Is this any good for boys?"
Just as Zhang Wenwen finished asking, Muchun's feeble voice came out, "This will make girls afraid that if they don't do well, the other party will leave her."
"Isn't love just based on likes and dislikes? Oh my god, am I out of touch with society, or am I unable to find a girlfriend because I never demean women?"
"Probably so." Muchun smiled and motioned for Liu Tiantian to continue.
"Doctor Mu, why are you suddenly so interested in this?" Liu Tiantian finally couldn't help asking Mu Chun.
"I'm just thinking about something and I'll tell you when the time is right."
"When?" Liu Tiantian was impatient.
"It's the right time." Muchun said coldly.
Zhang Wenwen saw that Liu Tiantian's face was a little ugly, so he quickly tried to smooth things over, "Doctor Mu just didn't think of what to say, so he said it at the right time." After saying that, Zhang Wenwen walked up to Liu Tiantian with a cup of coffee, leaned over and whispered in her ear. Said a few words softly.
Liu Tiantian suddenly realized, "So that's it."
"Well, you don't have to worry about him. He will talk after he has thought it through."
"Well, that's what happened to my friend. It was only after this kind of low self-esteem became more and more frequent that she came to me and told me that she was dating a boy. I went to see that boy. Yang Xing’s personal page, at that time I felt that my friend had been deceived, and all kinds of persuasion were of no use.”
"Are all women in love blind and deaf?" Zhang Wenwen was a little angry, but also afraid of any misunderstandings, so he changed his words: "Is it just a normal unhappiness between lovers, and there is no such thing as a deliberate attack on self-esteem?"
"Do you mean that girls think too much? I don't think so. I think that when a boy starts to say good things about a girl, after the relationship is confirmed, that is to say, after the girl falls in love with him and sees the other person as a dating partner. , boys start to dislike her in various ways, which means there is something wrong, either they don’t love her anymore, or there are other reasons.”
"Liu Tiantian, have you ever been in love?" Zhang Wenwen gossiped.
"I fell in love in college, but not after that, but this does not affect my analysis of men. Don't forget that I am also motivated to become a psychosomatic doctor like Teacher Muchun. Analyzing a person's thoughts and behaviors is also one of my daily homework.
Even in the past, I liked to analyze this kind of emotional issues. After listening too much, I can judge people very accurately. "
Liu Tiantian is still very confident in himself.
"This kind of hellish low self-esteem attack is really very useful. It's simply irritating. My friend was originally a very cheerful girl, but ended up being depressed all day long. When this boy gave her news, she became happy and couldn't wait for hours. After hearing the news about her boyfriend, the girl becomes distraught, always feels that the whole world is dark, and becomes super low self-esteem."
"Mu Chun, why is this happening?"
"Well, it has to do with many reasons. Basically, most girls have relatively strong self-esteem. These boys have studied the situation of their dating partners at the beginning. They tend to choose girls with better family backgrounds or better education. , these girls may have been required to be outstanding in all aspects since they were young. The pressure from their families has always existed. Such girls will also pay more attention to their own performance when interacting with others, for fear of not doing well, for fear of making mistakes. It will ruin a relationship. They are more afraid, and if they are more afraid, they will get nervous easily and be easily..."
"Being pua is too much, killing people without blood."
Liu Tiantian was very angry.
"Usually not only that, there may be some financial interactions between them. For example, women will mostly help men because men will say that they are encountering some difficulties, such as debt or want to help their families. In this case, The girl will most likely offer how she can help.”
"Are you just taking the initiative to give money to boys? Why should such a good girl let her down?" Zhang Wenwen sighed with emotion.
"No, it's a kind of control. Once there is a financial relationship between two people, the person who paid the money will be more willing to control the relationship and will feel that she controls the relationship. In fact, this is not the case. At this time, the man is Showing gratitude while showing disdain from time to time, or saying, 'Look at this girl who is so awesome, she is so good.' This will make the other girl feel very uncomfortable, and she will want to do more to please the other girl, but sometimes it may not be possible. It’s to please the other person, she just wants to control the relationship, the more the person gives, the more he cares about losing.”
"If we don't love each other, won't it be over?" Zhang Wenwen still believes that the relationship between the two should be based entirely on love.
"Of course not. Once a girl pays a lot of money, it will change. She just feels that she loves the other person very much and loves her to death. I don't know what my friend loves at all. The man is busy for a while. She was so pestering that she almost became a psychopath."
"Love is very simple, but it is also very complicated. People may not be able to tell what love feels like. Especially when they fall into a relationship that is always risky, people will be afraid of losing. The more they fear losing, the more they feel. The stronger you are, the more you give. If you pay without logic, and then get no reward, you will enter extreme inferiority and madness. This is the scariest thing about PUA."
"Yes, my friend committed suicide once because of this scumbag Yang Xing."
When Liu Tiantian said this, Zhang Wenwen finally understood why she was so serious when talking about this matter.
I also roughly understood why Muchun asked Liu Tiantian to continue talking. Maybe Liu Tiantian didn't say it, which was also a heartache for her.
"Mu Chun, who would summarize this kind of thing into a course and teach it everywhere? This kind of thing is too much."
"The person involved may not think so. First of all, it can bring money. In this era, money is something that can blind the soul, and no one can get rid of it. Secondly, the most terrifying thing is that when brainwashing others, you must first brainwash yourself. These boys may not think that they are Do something wrong.”
"Yes, people will feel a little uncomfortable if they feel that they have done something bad, but some boys don't have such thoughts at all."
"Those who deceive others first deceive themselves." Muchun concluded.
"Then girls won't resist?" Zhang Wenwen said angrily.
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