Crazy Psychologist

Life is not easy for anyone. Even when you are eighty or ninety years old, you still feel intimidated and fearful, and you still feel unable to feel at ease.

When you are young, you are under pressure from your parents. When you are old, you have to think about what your children will think of you.

Fundamentally, there is no easy time in this life.

Shen Zifeng said that Grandma Liu's first reaction when she woke up was fear. She was worried that her son and daughter-in-law would find out about her condition, and that she would be embarrassed to live with them.

The old man becomes a burden to his own existence because of his sensibleness.

Grandma Liu's illness will not have any obvious impact at first. If she can get effective psychological relief from the beginning, the pain will not accumulate until it is life-threatening.

It wasn't until he was at the door of the emergency ward that Ajin finally had the patience to listen to Muchun's explanation. The latter's explanation was concise and concise, without any circumlocution, as if he had already said this to Ajin and Xiaole.

Of course, Muchun had never met Ah Jin or Xiao Le. He just said it very clearly and was very acceptable.

Ah Jin cried. Feeling helpless about part of his marriage and feeling guilty about his lack of attention to his mother, Ah Jin could only shed tears and cry to comfort himself for the damage he had caused.

Xiao Le did not cry, her expression was melancholy at sunset. People left the park. The stones on the rockery and the benches with lingering warmth watched the tourists leaving, feeling lonely and unspeakable.

A kind of pain with nowhere to talk about, coldness and anxiety intertwined together, Xiao Le secretly looked at her husband A Jin, who shook his head helplessly.

The couple usually feel that they can live a good life, their small business is well organized, they have made a lot of money in the past few years, and their lives are getting better and better.

My mother, Grandma Liu, could have enjoyed her old age and lived a comfortable life with a high retirement salary, eating and buying whatever she wanted.

As long as you don't want to buy a house today or buy a big car tomorrow, an ordinary good life is certainly not a problem.

In A Jin's words, it was long past the time when she needed to save her life. How could her mother still encounter such a thing and suffer from such a disease that she had never heard of?

"Hoarding disorder" doesn't sound like it has anything to do with life-threatening conditions.

Ah Jin squatted in the corner and cried, Xiao Le secretly wiped his tears, and suddenly felt that this matter could not end like this just by a doctor's one-sided words.

She walked up to Muchun and rubbed her eyes to make sure nothing would lower her voice when she spoke. Then she spoke and said in a hesitant tone: "You, I mean, you said this and Is it okay, Grandma Wu?"

"It doesn't matter." Muchun replied.

"Then why does Aunt Wu happen to be at our house every time something happens to my mother-in-law? It can't be such a coincidence."

"It's just a coincidence, a coincidence that should be appreciated. If there hadn't been another person present, it might have been delayed longer. The elderly are most afraid of falling. Falls are already an important cause of injury or even death for the elderly. Grandma Liu is also heavier. Large, a fall is likely to cause a variety of injuries, such as a broken rib that punctures a lung or heart."

When Xiao Le heard this, he staggered back and muttered, "I, we didn't abuse her, and we didn't abuse the elderly. Husband, please speak up, we didn't abuse my mother, right?"

"Of course, abusive mother, how is this possible?" Ajin was also anxious, looking at the gray floor, tears suddenly welled up in his eyes, and he pursed his lips and was speechless.

After a long silence, Muchun folded his arms and leaned against the wall without speaking.

Xiao Le wanted to say something to Ah Jin several times. Just when he was about to open his mouth, he closed it tightly again. Both of them felt uncomfortable.

It was Ah Jin who spoke first, "Doctor, what kind of hoarding disorder are you talking about? Can it be cured?"

"It's a kind of obsessive-compulsive behavior disorder. Of course it can be treated, but it depends on..."

Ah Jin was waiting for Muchun. He didn't understand why the doctor hesitated to speak. He was clearly thinking clearly and expressing himself fluently just now, but why he was speechless now.

"What does it depend on? We can't let my mother be in danger again. The doctor should tell the truth about what he knows. We can also pay more attention."

"Depending on how much insight she has, the corresponding treatment options are also different. People with intact insight understand that their hoarding behavior is excessive and will cause problems; people with impaired insight will understand that their hoarding behavior is excessive and will cause problems; people with impaired insight will understand that their hoarding behavior is excessive and will cause problems. In conclusive cases, most of the time, people still think that there is nothing wrong with their behavior; people who have lost their awareness or have delusional beliefs will very firmly believe that there is nothing wrong with their behavior. It is too early to discuss these now, and we have to wait and see. I’ll do an evaluation after grandma recovers.”

"What...what's going on with this disease? I didn't even notice anything?"

"For example, were there any elderly people in the family who really didn't like throwing things away or liked to pick things up? They were reluctant to throw things away and were hesitant when throwing things away, for fear that something would go wrong or that they would have to buy new ones if they were no longer needed."

Ah Jin frowned, "My grandpa is in line with what the doctor said. He just doesn't want to throw anything away. I remember when I was a child, I was writing, and there was only a little pencil left. He said he couldn't throw it away. When the eraser was broken, he said he could replace it with a new one. But I can't throw it away, and the pencil case is hidden in the storage room like a treasure. I still remember all this. Because of the times, it is understandable that my grandpa is frugal. He doesn't like throwing things away because of lack of resources. But my mother she……"

"She also hoards stuff, probably big stuff."

Ajin shook his head and thought, "I haven't... noticed it."

"Didn't mom never let us in her own room? There is also the working balcony behind the kitchen. I haven't seen it in a few years. The hoarding disorder the doctor said must be about hiding things."

After Xiao Le finished speaking, Ah Jin grabbed her arm uneasily and shook his head at her, as if he wanted to stop her from continuing to say something.

"Maybe I'm just used to frugality, and then I like to collect some scraps. Does the doctor think it's possible?" Ah Jin looked at Muchun expectantly.

"Continuing to collect certain things or unnecessary things even when there is no space to store them. If these habits are banned, it will cause pain. What if Grandma Liu just doesn't want you to see it? But she can't get rid of it. With this habit of collecting, she becomes very distressed and hides injuries, which is why the last time I saw her I saw multiple fractures on her arms."

"This is impossible. A broken bone is very painful. How can you bear it?" Xiao Le's expression was distorted. She couldn't imagine how anyone could endure the pain of a broken bone and still pretend to be nonchalant.

"What if she doesn't want to be found out that she has a hoarding disorder and she feels ashamed about it? Compared to that, the pain becomes bearable."

Mu Chun's words made his whole body hurt, and Ah Jin's head was buzzing.