Dad's life

As for the shortcomings.

Xu Jianhua and Li Mu have known each other for five or six years, and of course they know it well.

He has a soft personality.

As long as it does not exceed that "degree", he will usually accept it. In fact, in Xu Jianhua's eyes, his shortcomings are not really considered shortcomings.

Xu Jianhua is forty-six this year.

He can also be regarded as an old man running for five years.

His age.

I have long formed a set of ideological systems that apply to myself, and I also have a unique perception of life.

Li Mu remains consistent.

His advantages.

He is a good-looking person and has no bad habits.

In addition, the annual salary is also very high.

If his character were more decisive, this person would be perfect.

Understanding Xu Jianhua’s life over the past forty or fifty years.

Regardless of people or things, once they strive for perfection, problems will easily arise.

This is like a wall with a slight crack, and the wind can slowly pass through it, which helps reduce the pressure on the wall. But once there are no cracks, the wind and the wall are in direct confrontation, and the final result is often not that the wind is forced to stop.

The wall was blown down directly.

So no matter it is people or things, it is best to leave some visible gaps.

Don't be too demanding about perfection.

That state is not a good thing.

There are many such examples.

My father is young and can earn more than 200,000 yuan a year. My mother is good at running the household and gets along well with her daughter-in-law. The family has demolished several houses and has a pair of children.

Logically speaking, such a family should be happy and perfect.

But the reality is.

A man who has no worries about food and drink becomes addicted to drugs because he seeks excitement.

Therefore, no matter people or things, if you leave a little visible gap, it will last a long time. A life that is too perfect will easily collapse.

Even if it doesn’t collapse.

Xu Jianhua would not dare to get along with such a person.

Because another meaning of perfection is almost obsessive extreme, like the lunatic who started the entire World War II. What he admires most about Li Mu is not that he has not become bad even after he is rich, but that he has been facing his uninterrupted problems for several years.

I still refused the invitation very simply.

From the beginning.

Refuse to the end.

This is so commendable.

Because most men have not become bad, not because they are loyal, but because they lack a leader who can teach them to become bad.

How bad is Xu Jianhua!?

No one needs to tell him, he is very self-aware.

Almost lying on the road and being run over by a car is God's fault.

But with a leader like him, Li Mu remained unmoved.

When I get off work every day, I completely ignore his various invitations, and I don’t even look at the surging beauty who says, “When a child grows to ten years old, he doesn’t need to pay a penny for milk powder.”

Think about Li Mu.

Thinking about himself again, Xu Jianhua returned to the office and fell into memories. He remembered his youth.

Looking back on the passing years.

More than 20 years ago, when he was still a young man, he, like Li Mu, insisted on having a bottom line.

Once when he went to the bathroom to take a shower, his friend took him into a small private room with a very ambiguous atmosphere. At first, his friend drank black tea with him in the same private room, and then he was asked by a beautiful woman to get a massage.

Until now.

Xu Jianhua remembers it very clearly.

At that time, he really thought that it was a pure massage, and he was very young and had no pain here or there, so he flatly refused invitations from several fat, thin, and thin women.

Waited for a while.

He didn't see his friend come back.

He even went to ask why the massage took so long!?

After so many years, Xu Jianhua has not forgotten the way they looked at him, with a sense of surprise in their eyes, and a hint of smile in their serious answers.

Until I come back.

His friend came back and told him the truth, and only then did Xu Jianhua react.

Go take a shower again for the second time.

Xu Jianhua was filled with uneasiness, excitement, excitement, and the nervousness of doing bad things. Under the guidance of a beautiful woman, he walked into a clean small room with only one bed.

The third time.

His friend has already resigned.

No one called or took him with him, he just ran away secretly.

Xu Jianhua's story is not long, and the reason for his deterioration is very simple. He is a typical example of being led by his master and relying on his own practice. Except for being arrested once, there is nothing surprising about him.

But even so.

The reason that led him to open the prison of evil was still the presence of a guide.

And now!?

He is a qualified guide.

He was not like his unreliable friend who had forgotten his appearance and just found a bathroom and broke the boy's skills he had practiced for more than ten or twenty years.

As a result, his vast righteousness disappeared.

What kind of women is he looking for for Li Mu!?

Everyone should have a good figure and good looks.

OK.

He didn't like the kind of unclean people, so Xu Jianhua introduced him to some people who felt tired from work and wanted to find a relaxing job.

Don't bother.

Not clingy.

"If you need me, come to me"

"You don't need it, and I won't harass you"

With a leader like him, what else could Li Mu be dissatisfied with!?

If it were Xu Jianhua himself, he would be smiling.

But Li Mu disagreed.

It's useless to say anything. He has to come back from get off work. He won't come out anyway, so he has to stay at home to cook and accompany his son.

Go to his home as a guest.

The wine is open.

Just let him drink it himself.

I probably thought it was impolite, so I occasionally picked up the teacup and touched it with him.

Then, just like drinking wine, drink a sip of Longjing tea with him.

The most powerful ever.

Xu Jianhua has already brought people here. He has a first-class figure and a handsome figure. He would have a 19% turn-around rate if he was thrown on the streets of Ningyang City. As for why we came to this conclusion!? Or Xu Jianhua is fundamentally Chinese.

Data on the ratio of men to women and aging are calculated.

Get rid of all women.

Divide that by infants, toddlers and teenagers under the age of 18 on the street.

This return rate is basically controlled at about 30%, and the 11% that will be eliminated after that are of course men who are not in the same age group.

So this 19% is just objective data, real and valid, and without a trace of moisture.

Tell the truth.

If it hadn't been for him at that time, he would have been dating two girlfriends at the same time.

He really couldn't bear to introduce such a beauty to Li Mu.

But what!?

Li Mu was called to the coffee shop next to the company.

At the first glance, Li Mu said "We are not suitable", then paid and left. His actions were so cool that Xu Jianhua still remembers it fresh.

After coming back.

Xu Jianhua asked him what was inappropriate.

Is it a horoscope discord!?

Or are the eight characters in conflict!?

How did Li Mu answer him!?

It seems to be: "I am just an ordinary person. What I want to find is a woman who is willing to live a simple life of food, rice, oil and salt with me. She is so beautiful, do you think she can cook or take care of the children? Or maybe I have no money, she

Can I still stay!? I never overestimate my abilities and charm. I don’t want to disturb other people’s lives, nor do I want to be disturbed by life. I just want to live a calm life.”

A few words.

Xu Jianhua was speechless.

Later, Xu Jianhua understood one thing.

He has his own understanding of life, and Li Mu also has his own ideas about life.

It's hard to tell who is right and who is wrong.

Like the answer to many questions.

The so-called answers are nothing more than experiences and ideas gradually developed over time by meeting people.

Not fixed.

But that is exactly the answer I need and the answer I understand.

It may not be very good.

But in my own eyes, he is the best.

Now that Li Mu has handed over the answer that belongs to him, Xu Jianhua feels that this answer is not good, and even feels a little regretful, but this answer is what Li Mu wants and what he is pursuing.

"Young man!"

Xu Jianhua unscrewed the water cup and took a sip of wolfberry tea.

He let out a long sigh and said, "I'm only in my early thirties, and I can't think about it anymore."

Shaked his head.

Xu Jianhua instantly raised his head and laughed, saying, "Maybe he's thinking too much."