Dad's life

Haruki Murakami said that there is a very reasonable sentence in "Norwegian Wood".

"At the end of a relationship, it is often the person who loves the most who lets go first. It's not that we don't love anymore, but the more we fall in love, the more painful it becomes. There is really no choice but to try again."

This is the case for Xiao Zhengyang.

He chose to divorce because he didn’t love Yu Hui.

But there is nothing we can do.

With a salary of more than 10,000 yuan a month, I only keep less than 1,000 yuan.

Even with just a thousand dollars, Yu Hui was often exploited in various ways.

Valentine's Day comes twice a year.

It's May 20th, and there's Yu Hui's birthday in the middle.

You need to spend money to buy things to make her happy.

If.

Yu Hui knows how to be satisfied, has a better attitude towards Xiao Zhengyang, complains less and is more considerate in life.

As a man, it didn't matter if Xiao Zhengyang worked harder, but Yu Hui didn't understand this at all at that time. She just asked for it without considering Xiao Zhengyang's feelings at all, let alone the hard work of a man who was burdened with a mortgage.

Yu Hui can rely on him.

Xiao Zhengyang can't rely on anyone.

There were many nights when he couldn't stand being scolded by Yu Hui. He squatted on the green belt of the community and called Li Mu to talk to Li Mu. What he said the most was "Where did I go wrong? Why did she treat me like this!?"

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Finally.

He filed for divorce.

Yu Hui went all over the world to celebrate her return to being single as if she had won the first prize.

But Xiao Zhengyang left the city like an old dog that had lost its habitat, dragging his body full of fatigue and his heart riddled with wounds.

Now.

Turn back time.

The situation is reversed.

Yu Hui knew she was wrong, she wanted Xiao Zhengyang back.

So Xiao Zhengyang is coming back!?

Actually.

Until now, Li Mu still can't understand Xiao Zhengyang's mentality at that time.

What kind of thoughts did he have that made him choose to leave the house and transfer 20,000 yuan to Yu Hui even though he had nothing?

Love?

That's too humble.

But at least it shows that Xiao Zhengyang really loves Yu Hui, and even if they are divorced, he still hopes that she will live happily.

This is probably love to the depths.

I even forgot about myself when I got divorced.

Such a man is very stupid and naive, and has probably reached the highest level of dog-licking:

"Even if she no longer belongs to me, I am willing to give everything for her."

If it were replaced by Li Mu.

Even though his character is relatively soft, once his bottom line is touched.

Li Mu will still fight back.

Not to mention cleaning up and leaving the house, Li Mu could still replace the various gold jewelry that Qin Muxue took with her when she left with fake ones.

Let her float into the water as soon as she is thrown into the water.

Therefore, regardless of men or women, the most important step in life is to choose a good spouse. If you choose the wrong spouse in this step, then every step of the way for the rest of your life will become extremely difficult. Similar to how many men now choose the first choice after becoming successful.

Divorce cannot put all the blame on men, because before many men succeed, the first blow they suffer does not come from the outside world, but from their partner.

As for why we didn’t get divorced before success.

This just proves that all men understand the truth:

"A small impatience will ruin a big plan."

Before you succeed, swallow your anger. Once you succeed, take revenge immediately.

Just like the saying that has been very popular in recent years; "Today you look down on me, but tomorrow I will be beyond your reach."

So everyone and everything you encounter in life.

They are all silently carrying out a cycle of cause and effect.

No one can escape.

It's just sooner or later.

Seeing Li Mu get up and leave, Yu Hui couldn't help but feel overwhelmed.

"You are not qualified to help him make choices, you are just his friend"

She stood where she was and screamed

"But I didn't live up to the word friend, but you lived up to the word wife"

Li Mu suddenly turned around and replied.

He didn't want to see Yu Hui before.

Just now in the mobile phone store, my attitude towards her improved slightly, but now it has returned to the previous state.

Extremely disgusted.

After Li Mu left, Yu Hui lay on the coffee shop table and cried loudly.

She doesn’t understand!?

Why she has realized that she was wrong.

But I still haven’t been forgiven.

She put down her dignity and begged Li Mu to do her a small favor, but Li Mu still refused.

Don’t those who make mistakes have no chance to change their past?

She has obviously changed a lot now. She has never worked, but she still goes out to look for a job. She stands from morning to night every day, which makes her calves sore. There are countless times that she wants to give up, but in order to express herself, she breaks with the past.

Despite her determination, she persisted.

She did things she had never done before.

I walked into the kitchen that I rarely entered before.

I learned how to work and how to live.

She looked forward to Xiao Zhengyang's surprised expression when he came back to see her, and she also looked forward to the two of them returning to the past.

Yu Hui believes that she is ready to be a good wife.

It is also ready, after Xiao Zhengyang comes back, there will be a new baby in the family.

Everything is changing quietly, like the crushed sunlight illuminating every floor and every corner of the home.

Just.

Li Mu's behavior undoubtedly dragged her from fantasy back to reality.

He doesn't help her.

Where could she find Xiao Zhengyang’s number!?

Missed this time.

How long will she have to wait next?!

Is there really no future between her and Xiao Zhengyang?

Thought of this.

Yu Hui felt terrible pain in her heart.

"It won't be like this, definitely not"

Yu Hui said to herself, "Xiao Zhengyang loves me. As long as I find his number and take the initiative to call him, he will definitely come back. Li Mu knows that Xiao Zhengyang still loves me, so he refuses, yes, yes,

That’s it”

Her voice is very small.

Like gibbering.

As if inspired by her own words, Yu Hui wiped away her tears, then took a deep breath and squeezed out a smile.

When she walked out of the coffee shop.

The lights on the street were already on, and there was an endless stream of people coming and going. Following the crowd, when Yu Hui crossed the intersection and passed the milk tea shop, she stopped and bought a cup of milk tea for twelve yuan.

She didn't buy it for herself.

I bought it for a colleague.

Ask for help.

Of course I need to thank you.

The things are not expensive, but they can repay a favor. If something happens in the future, others will be willing to help her for a while.

She learned these things slowly after going to work.

And she also knew that after hearing his wife's advice, Li Mu still bought such an expensive mobile phone from her, undoubtedly because he wanted her to get more commission.

She understands many things.

I also understand what it means to be human and worldly.

So when Li Mu rejected her request, although she complained a little about Li Mu, she didn't blame her.

After all.

The whole process leading to this result was all caused by her.

Li Mu is not qualified to help Xiao Zhengyang make choices.

And what qualifications does she have to ask Li Mu to help her!?

For many things, as long as you think about it from another person's perspective, you will come to the corresponding conclusion. It is understandable, but she still will not give up easily. If Li Mu doesn't help her, she will think of other ways. Yu Hui doesn't believe that Xiao Zhengyang is such a big person.

How can people still disappear without a trace?

There must be.

It’s just that she hasn’t discovered it yet.