Dad's life

"Have your father and that uncle of yours also been transformed!?"

Xu Jianhua asked with a smile.

"Yeah"

Han Hui nodded and said, "But both of them have some personality problems. They like to keep things in their hearts without saying anything. As time goes by, they will naturally collapse."

“It’s weird that this person has a bad personality!?”

Xu Jianhua smiled and said, "As a daughter, you will help your mother to excuse it. Let me ask you! With your mother's temperament of getting into trouble whenever she disagrees, how can your father and uncle tell her something if they don't keep it to themselves?"

Well! You may not get any comfort if you tell her, and you might get a more severe beating. Even if a woman can't help her husband, she shouldn't crush his dignity as a man."

"My mother is not unreasonable"

Han Hui retorted, "If you have to talk to her, it's not like she won't listen."

"What do you mean by saying it well!?"

Xu Jianhua asked, "The sound does not exceed 29 decibels, and the arm swing cannot produce a breeze!?"

"..."

Han Hui was dumbfounded and said, "Uncle Xu, you are exaggerating."

"Don't talk about your mother, talk to Uncle Xu about yourself. Did you fall in love at school?"

Xu Jianhua chatted with Han Hui while driving.

Ever since he brought Ziyun and Ziyun home to raise him, his mentality has undergone earth-shaking changes. He views these young girls with more concern than he had before, but he does not have the bad thoughts before.

Just like this moment.

In the past, there was a girl of seventeen or eighteen years old sitting in his passenger seat.

He will definitely turn into a weird uncle who is full of dirty things. Chatting with a girl will definitely be to test what she likes, and then... look at the ID card.

"No"

Han Hui shook her head.

"That's good"

Xu Jianhua laughed and said, "Girls must learn to protect themselves. This protection does not mean meeting bad people, but not being cheated by the three melons and two dates given by boys, because the boy who will marry you in the future may not have appeared yet.

In your life, my Ziyun and Ziyun are still young, and there are things I can’t say to them, but you are different. You have reached the age where you are curious about love and the opposite sex. What Uncle Xu wants to tell you is that girls should keep themselves clean.

It may not be a virtue in modern society, and it is even an issue criticized by some feminists, but you might as well think about it. If the boy who marries you in the future will not only have to chase you for a long time, but he will even sacrifice two members of his family in order to marry you.

All the savings saved by three generations have been wiped out. I need you without a past. Is this too much to ask for? It’s not too much at all."

Facing Han Hui.

Xu Jianhua couldn't help but say a few more words, saying, "In life, you must first distinguish who is the person who really pays for you, and you must also distinguish between a momentary touch and a lifelong treasure. Many times, liking is a wrong feeling.

This feeling cannot withstand the scrutiny of time, nor can it withstand any rain or wind. When you get old and go to get your marriage certificate, you will find that true love is actually the process of going to the Civil Affairs Bureau together. I

I didn’t understand this before, so I let down many people. Of course, many of them met me with purpose. Now that I think about it, I can’t say I regret it, nor can I say I don’t regret it. In the final analysis, we are just because

At a certain time, at a certain place, you meet someone, and then you end up like this. Nothing is destined by God, everything is your own choice."

"Uncle Xu, have you ever been hurt!?"

Han Hui listened to what Xu Jianhua said.

She understood some of them, but she really didn't understand some of them, so she asked out of curiosity.

"Of course"

Xu Jianhua did not hide anything, and said with a smile, "A boy's growth happens when he knows how to work hard. A boy's maturity often starts when he still doesn't get what he wants after working hard. Therefore, apart from age, a man's life is divided into several categories.

Beyond the stages, the level of thoughts will also be divided into different levels due to one experience after another. When you are young and careless, you don’t understand what loss is, and you naively think that you can save everything by just crying, and your parents will put your own desires in front of you...

”

It's very quiet in the car.

Han Hui listened quietly to Xu Jianhua's chatter.

Xu Jianhua was very different from when she was at her home. He didn't have the shameless air, nor was he frivolous or impetuous.

On the contrary, he has the maturity and stability that he should have at his age. When he speaks, his tone is neither serious nor serious, and even the emotions on his face are kept on a horizontal line. Many things seem to become insignificant in his mouth. Han Hui does not

Interrupting him made him listen with interest.

Because her father and Uncle Qian had never spoken to her in this way.

"Only when I become an adult do I realize that my power is limited and my efforts have limitations. When I get injured, I can only find a quiet corner to recover slowly. When I reach middle age, I suddenly realize that for a man without money or power, even crying is a waste of time.

Sin, I also understand that in this city, I am as insignificant as dust. Let alone the world, even if Ningyang City is without me, it will not be any different. I am accustomed to being humble, accustomed to being small, accustomed to living as a dispensable plankton in this city...

…”

Speaking of which.

Xu Jianhua stepped on the brake and said, "Xiaohui, my stomach hurts, please wait for me in the car."

Push the door and get off the car.

Xu Jianhua covered his stomach with one hand and trotted on his feet.

However, he did not go to the toilet, but went around to a house with a fortune-telling and fortune-telling banner, scanned the QR code and paid a few hundred yuan, and then returned to the car with a brisk expression.

"As you get older, your stomach and intestines get worse"

Xu Jianhua said with a smile, and then drove Han Hui to the master's house. After getting off the car, Xu Jianhua pointed to the banner of the master's house that said "A stylus divides the world, three pieces of money determines good or bad luck" and said, "Did you see this?

It’s that master who is known as the fortune teller in the surrounding area. He is the one who comes to do everything from fortune telling to fortune telling. It is said that he was blinded in one eye just because he went out to explore the secrets of heaven."

Han Hui, who was wearing a woven sportswear, glanced at Xu Jianhua.

But she still couldn't tell whether Xu Jianhua was joking with her or stating the facts.

Go into the house.

Han Hui was startled. Regardless of the strength of the master Xu Uncle found, the meaning expressed by the couplet on the wall was too touching.

"An iron pen can predict misfortunes and blessings in the world, and several volumes of scriptures can select wizards for the country." This one-eyed fortune teller is also worried about the country.

"Master, here we come"

Xu Jianhua shouted.

Next.

There was a sound of bamboo poles hitting the ground from the back hall, and within a moment, an old man with white hair and beard wearing sunglasses came out.

As he walked.

The bamboo poles collided forward, as if they were trying to find an obstacle-free path for themselves.

"Didn't you say he was only blind in one eye!?"

Han Hui asked.

"The other one may have just gone blind"

Xu Jianhua replied awkwardly.