Dark Savages Come To the United States

Going to the grave to worship the ancestors does not need to delay much time.

But I can't help but have a lot of relatives...

What makes people even more uncomfortable is that relatives are not very reliable...

The customs on my side are actually not complicated, just a very common ancestor worship process.

It was agreed to leave at half past nine in the morning.

It will be half past ten when everyone is ready...wasting an hour.

Then the two uncles and grandfathers are a bit outrageous...

These two go to my aunt's place first every year when they go to the grave to worship their ancestors, and that is the large burial area on my side, so there is bound to be a traffic jam.

(That's right, they have to take the whole family to other people's ancestral graves first... I don't understand.)

By the time they finally arrived at their ancestral grave, it was already after noon...

That's outrageous enough.

After all, according to the custom, going to the grave to worship the ancestors should end before twelve o'clock at noon...

It's not the most outrageous...

Then the outrageous start.

When the whole family goes to the grave to worship the ancestors, my family needs to prepare food and money for the ancestors.

(Originally, this has nothing to do with my family, it should be their own tribute, but they will choose to "take" part of it.

For the sake of face and friendship among relatives, my family will simply prepare more, which may also contribute to this evil trend. )

Then go to another cemetery. (This is the ancestral grave of a more distant relative)

It's not that they have good intentions, but that this relative's family, who is so far away that I don't know how to talk about it, is rich...

It's still the extraordinarily rich type. They are not in their hometown and can't come back.

I gave it to my two uncles and grandpas. (It’s okay if we don’t see any benefits from others.

But it is too much for our family to pay for the money and tributes needed for worship. Of course, the method is still taken without warning.

It's somewhat ugly to say it's stealing, so let's use "take". )

After the round of worship is over, it will be after four o'clock when I return home...

I am from the Northwest, my family is not a big city, and the cemetery is on the deserted desert of Gobi.

The wind is strong and the sun is strong, and it takes a whole day to eat wind and sand.

There is also a cement factory next to my ancestral grave... Every time I go to the grave, I have to go around a long way. (Of course it was the cement factory that came after my ancestral grave)

Hmm... the road over there is a bit similar to climbing mountains and mountains.

Anyway, I have to climb the kind of sand dunes with the objects used for worship... I always get hurt when I go to the grave to worship the ancestors, and there are reasons for this.

My family has been ruthlessly coerced by them, and every time I feel bad.

This experience happens four times a year...

It is also necessary to realize the truth many times every year that "the poor are in the busy city and no one asks, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains".

Worshiping ancestors is just a matter of mourning.

As a result, one by one of them became dutiful sons and grandsons of other people's families.

The problem is that it is true that the distant relatives have money, but can they spend it if they have money?

Furthermore, can they still make that rich relative feel grateful by worshiping other people's ancestral graves?

Do you want someone's ancestors to give someone a dream and say, "Oh, look at how many times they come to worship every year. You have to give them money."

It doesn't make sense.

No matter how you say it, it’s still a matter of seniority, orderly relatives and closeness. What’s the point of being a filial son and grandson for someone else’s family without following the customs?

Of course, it is their business that they have an agreement with that relative or that they can get the money.

What makes me sad is not that they took any benefits without our family's share.

Our family has never begged to go to them.

Why bother our family with this kind of thing! ?

Isn't it good to prepare what others need by yourself? Isn't it good to go to someone's ancestral grave by yourself?

If you don't prepare tribute yourself, you will take it from us without warning. Is this dissatisfaction with your ancestors?

Emotionally, I really can't accept this kind of thing.

"You are young and not a grandson, but you are long and have nothing to say, ___________!"

It was exhausting.