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Chen Aijun's preaching,

Let Tian Tian hang her little head again,

There was some shame on her face,

I didn't expect that there are so many children who are better than me!

Some can calculate addition and subtraction within a hundred......

Some will know a lot of Chinese characters,

Even when his little cousin was as old as himself,

I can already recite a lot of ancient poems......

The more Chen Aijun talks about this,

The lower the sweet little head,

She thinks she's really stupid, so useless,

Every little one,

are much better than themselves,

Dad has already taught himself like this,

But I still don't have to fight and can't catch up with other people's children......

Tian Tian was ashamed and didn't dare to squeak,

I feel very sorry for my father's hard work and dedication.

Even thinking,

It would be nice if other children came to be the daughter of their father!

In that case,

Dad will be very happy every day, and he won't always be so angry.

And at the same time,

In the live broadcast room,

was once again blown up by Chen Aijun's remarks!

Looking at Chen Aijun, who hates iron but not steel,

Looking at the sweetness of shame,

Many viewers are so angry that they have already started to swear words!

"Damn, I'll just say it, Chen Aijun is a big fool, who agrees, who opposes!"

"I agree!"

"I agree!"

"Made, why does this guy make me feel more and more disgusting, the child finally got all the arithmetic problems right once, full of joy, I want to wait for you to praise a few words, you praise her, is it so difficult?!"

"That is, do you have to say anything, your credit is greater than Tiantian?"

"Yes, what you said is right, it's your credit to all the horses, people don't do anything, they all have to praise you!"

"One of the things I hated the most when I was a child was that my parents said, look at who's child and whose child is amazing......"

"Other people's children are powerful, what do you care about? Dragons give birth to dragons, phoenixes give birth to phoenixes, white swans can give birth to ugly ducklings that become white swans, other people's children are powerful, that means that other people's parents also have the ability, and they are also powerful!" 10 "You yourself are not as good as the parents of other people's children, why don't you say it? But you just compare your children with other people's children, evil is not disgusting!"

"Hehe, he said it, he said that the conditions of his family are not as good as other people's, so Tiantian should fight for him!"

"Laughing to death, I can't do it myself, but I let the child fight for you, what kind of fucking logic is this?!"

"Watching Brother Lu play with Tongtong, I can't laugh, watching Chen Aijun take Tiantian, I'm angry and my blood pressure is soaring, I really want to be angry to death!"

“......"

In the live broadcast room, there was constant ridicule and abuse,

are all about this education with Chen Aijun,

showed great disgust.

Tian Tian finally got the topic right, and I wanted my father to praise her for being great.

As a result, Chen Aijun opened his mouth and said, it is normal for you to do everything right, but it is not normal to do it wrong!

Then he began to take other people's children,

Let's compare it to Tiantian......

"Other people's children", these words are simply the childhood shadow in the hearts of countless people, and many viewers who listened to it exploded their mentality.

Not to mention that the audience can't listen to it,

Even here in the studio,

As the host, Su Xue,

At this moment, their faces are already ugly.

She looked at the camera distressedly, dejected and sweet, and really wanted to give her a warm hug to comfort her:

"Kid, you're actually really good!"

Chen Aijun said such things, in fact, it is easy to hurt the child. "

Side

Teacher He, a person who never speaks ill of people, can't help but say at this moment,

"The growth of children needs more encouragement from parents. "

"I can understand what I did wrong and criticize her. "

"But since she's doing a good job, why should parents be stingy with those few compliments?"

"You praise her to make her more confident. "

"Suppressive education will crush children's self-confidence and self-esteem!"

"Especially, comparing other children to ......"

"Every child has their own strengths and advantages, and I personally believe that such comparisons are unfair to children, and will also make children feel inferior and sensitive. "

“......"

Speaking of which,

Teacher He suddenly remembered,

A friend in the circle I know.

That friend, presumably many people also know, is the head of Deyun's class, Lao Guo and Uncle Guo, who are sought after by many people.

He adopted this kind of repressive education for his eldest son Guo Dalin.

He has been in many shows,

I have mentioned it more than once,

His experience in Guo Dalin's education:

"To educate a child, you must hurt his self-esteem!"

"Knock all his pride out of him!"

"He understood!"

"I've bullied him enough, it's far better than letting outsiders bully him after he goes out!"

"If the child doesn't scold, it's not okay!"

"As long as there are other people in the house, then he will always have to stand next to him!"

"You can't even eat!"

"The more I am in front of outsiders, the more I have to say that he is not good, the more people there are, the more ruthless I say, I can't make him feel that you are my son, you can be special!"

"It's the same for eating, you can only eat when others finish eating!"

"If you don't do it well, you have to scold!"

"Well done, I'm going to scold him too!"

"Because people who don't like you, but whether you are good or not, whether you do it right or not, they will scold you, since this is the case, then I will start scolding you like this first!"

"After a long time, you won't be afraid of being scolded by others!"

“......"

Lao Guo can be said to have brought this kind of severe suppressive education to the fullest.

And in life,

And that's exactly what he did.

When I first appeared on stage,

Guo Dalin didn't play well, and a lot of baggage didn't sound.

When you get home,

Lao Guo directly scolded Guo Dalin in the middle of the night, forcing him to stand up and apologize to the audience.

Afterwards

Lao Guo even stepped on Guo Dalin's dignity on the ground in front of tens of millions of netizens!

Lao Guo's repressive education,

Is that really right?

As Guo Dalin grew up, his character traits such as inferiority, sensitivity, sensible distress, and humility in the dust began to expand infinitely in this kind of suppression.

Whenever he and Lao Guo are on the same stage together, or when they appear in front of the camera,

He always looks submissive and timid, (read violent novels, just go to Feilu Novel Network!)

and Lao Guo,

Although they are father and son, they can't even do the most basic communication, and they are polite like two most familiar strangers.

Later, after Guo Dalin had the ability,

I moved out of my home as soon as I could.

Escaping the oppression of his family,

After that, it was even more with the sentence "filial piety in front of the hall",

made countless netizens sigh.

As one of Lao Guo's friends in the circle,

Teacher He didn't know what Lao Guo would feel after hearing his son's sentence "filial piety in front of the hall",

But Mr. He himself,

But I feel that this matter is actually quite sad.

Lao Guo's kind of education method makes the child really bruised and full of holes in his heart in the end......

Teacher He is thinking about this,

suddenly

On the expert bench,

The expert Liu Liwen refuted his words.

"Xiao He, I don't think what you said about repressive education is bad. "

"A child's heart is not as fragile as you think!"

"If he can't even withstand the oppression of his biological parents, then what good can this child do?"

"When I grow up and enter the society, how can I bear more pressure and responsibility?"

Liu Liwen said,

"I think there are also many viewers on the barrage, accusing Chen Aijun, the post-80s father, of not doing ...... wrong way of education"

"What I want to say is that that's because you are laymen and don't know much about education!"

"I have studied children's enlightenment education for so many years, and I know too well how to cultivate a child to become a talent!"

"Chen Aijun is doing the right thing, treat children strictly, how can you do it if you are not strict?"

"Like Xiao He, you just said, praise the child's ......"

"Hehehe, you're too bad a child. "

"If you praise her, you will only make her satisfied with the status quo, complacent for a little achievement, and not enterprising!"

"The more you boast, the more she doesn't know that the sky is high and the earth is thick, and she doesn't know that there are people outside the world, and there are heavens outside the sky!"

Timely criticism can make her calm down and work harder to catch up with others. "

Speaking of which,

Liu Liwen smiled,

"I'll make a very simple analogy, donkey grinding, you've all seen it, right? "

"When the donkey was grinding, you complimented him on the side, saying that you were awesome, that you were pulling so well...... Is it useful to say this?"

"The donkey can't listen to this, if you praise it, it may stop picking in the next second, and lie down to rest!"

"So, what should you do if you want it to keep grinding?"

"It's simple, just whip it!"

"The harder you pump, the faster it pulls!"

"It's like that with donkeys, and it's like it with educating children!"

"The spur of parents is the whip, you can only make progress and become a child if you continue to spur her child!"

Liu Liwen's words,

It was clearly transmitted to the live broadcast room, in the ears of every audience.

After listening,

A lot of viewers just blew up!

"Damn, your child is a donkey, you compare an animal to a child, you are still an expert!"

"This stupid expert, it's really good to forget the pain of the scar, you said that the child's heart is not so fragile, then before the host Xiaoxue, the children who committed suicide every year because of depression, what do you say?!"

"Spur the child, I don't object, but it must be done in moderation, right?"

"Even if it's a donkey, if you smoke it hard, the donkey won't be able to stand it!"

"Hehehe, it's not that I speak badly, just Chen Aijun's education method, Tian Tian got something early, I can only say, I hope that day will not come!"

"Yes, yes, yes, we don't know about education, you understand, you are so cowhide, you cowhide, you go and scold Brother Lu, have a microphone with Brother Lu, you see that Brother Lu scolds you to death and you are finished!"

"What kind of bird truth is this, the child does wrong, you criticize, the child does the right, you also criticize, just to not make the child proud?

"If that's the case, I'd rather my child be not self-motivated at all in the future, and be quite comfortable as an ordinary person!" 530

"So, now many post-90s parents have woken up......"

"Just like Brother Lu, I don't care if the child mixes well in the future, as long as the child is happy, safe, and healthy, it's enough!"

"Now I know that Brother Lu is really too sober, and in the current environment, if you teach children according to the previous education model, it will really drive children crazy!"

“......"

Expert Liu Liwen's remarks,

attracted countless complaints and abuse from the audience,

Looking at the endless barrage,

Liu Liwen's expert face,

It is also the iron blue of anger.

As an old expert in research and education for decades, how dare you question me in my professional field?

It's just so ignorant, so ridiculous!

But

Expert Liu Liwen does not intend to,

To argue and debate with these audiences,

There is a saying,

Arguing with ignorant people will only make you appear to be small and ignorant!

Liu Liwen took a deep breath,

said with a sneer,

"You can have your own views and opinions. "

"It's fair to say that I'm not right. "

In other words, Chen Aijun's education method is wrong. "

"But, there is one thing that you can't change!"

"That is, the children taught by Chen Aijun are indeed more sensible and better than ordinary children of the same age!"

"For example, his children do the exercises every day. "

"Do you dare to guarantee that other children of the same age can do the math problems above?"

"Don't talk about others......"

"Let's just say that many of you like and support Lu Yu, the post-90s father, yes, he is very happy and happy with his children!"

"I admit that his children are indeed more cheerful and lively. "

"But cheerfulness and liveliness come at a terrible price!"

"Can his children be able to do it, like Tian Tian, to calculate those practice questions accurately?!"

"I think, probably, I can't do it!"

"And this, that is, Chen Aijun's education method is better and more worthy of promotion than Lu Yu's education method!"

"Whether parents can bring their babies and whether they can bring happiness to their babies is not the key to judging a set of education methods, whether they are excellent or not!"

"The key is to see if the baby is brought out, whether it is good or not!!"

"If you have the ability, you also let that Lu Yu's child come up with a few of the same arithmetic problems and try it!!"

“......"。