Farming Space Makes Me Rich
Chapter 936 Patriarchal Thought 2 (Five)
An Xiaohui laughed at herself and said with a wry smile, "My parents are so cruel to me, but I can't ignore them. Does it sound a little filial?"
There will be such a scene in many news on the Internet or on TV. Many native families are just like her birth. Therefore, when those people grow up, have the ability and can make money, they will break away from the native family and cut off the relationship. There was no news for 20 years, until the parents wanted to see them for the last time, they asked someone to help them find it, and then there was a lot of noise on the Internet.
It's really ruthless that someone scolds this. No matter how bad the family of origin treats you, they are your parents, your closest relatives, and the ones who raised you since childhood. Oh, now that he has something promising, he just blames his parents or something. He's really a white-eyed wolf.
Others say, don't persuade others to be kind without suffering others.
In short, there is nothing to say.
A situation like An Xiaohui was actually the result of backward rural feudal ideology. But An Xiaohui's parents have only one daughter, and they didn't like her since childhood, but at least they didn't beat or scold her, and at least let her eat and wear warm clothes, so that she could go to school like everyone else.
Although they prevented her from taking the university entrance exam, her parents still paid her tuition after she was admitted to the university. In addition to living expenses, she borrowed it herself or found a way to earn it.
It's just that An Xiaohui's parents got angry with An Xiaohui's daughter, and even beat and scolded her when they encountered An Yang!
Therefore, it is impossible for An Xiaohui to be heartless to her parents and sever the relationship.
Xiao Lingyu shook his head and said, "Oh, I don't think you are a filial person. After all, they are your biological parents and raised you. Although emotionally, they are partial and even unfair, but they also At least you have done some of the things your parents should do, and fulfilled your support obligations. When they get old, you will naturally have to fulfill your support obligations."
"Besides, what is filial piety? Foolish filial piety means being considerate to parents, doing everything possible to please them, and never rejecting any request from parents. But you are not. You are very clear that when you are filial to your parents, you will be filial. But when it comes to your parents' demands, you should also refuse them clearly when you should. In fact, you have to say that you are filial to your parents, not filial to your parents!" Xiao Lingyu said.
When An Xiaohui heard Xiao Lingyu say this, she felt a little better.
Actually it is.
Her current salary is two million a year, but she does not give all of this money to her parents. She pays her parents for living expenses on a monthly basis, 3,000 yuan a month, and then during the season, she also pays some festival allowances, 2,000 yuan.
His parents have a house in the county town, and they don't have to repay the loan, and there is no other arrears. The living expenses of 3,000 yuan are enough for them.
Of course, the family doesn't know how much her salary is.
They only know that she works in a famous big company with a monthly salary of tens of thousands.
Just because of this tens of thousands of wages, the parents' living expenses of 3,000 yuan were not enough, and under the instigation of some people, the parents kept asking her for money and making various excuses.
But the most common excuse is the excuse of being sick. It costs 2,000 yuan for a cold today, and 3,000 yuan for filming with back pain and leg pain tomorrow. In short, she has to get all her salary of 10,000 yuan.
An Xiaohui could not confirm whether her parents were sick, and An Xiaohui could not refuse to ask for money under the pretext of being sick. But An Xiaohui knew very well in her heart that her parents' illness was fake, and the money was real, and after getting the money, she would definitely give it to An Yang.
Otherwise, An Yang has not worked for the past two years, playing games and sleeping at home all day, where will the money come from.
An Xiaohui knew this, but she had no choice.
Because it has been like this since childhood, everything in her hands or in their hands will be in An Yang's hands the next day.
Xiao Lingyu said, "Xiaohui, haven't you thought about hiring a nanny to take care of your parents? In this way, firstly, you can take care of your parents' health, and secondly, you can know their situation at any time. It's not a big deal. They don't know that your annual salary is two million yuan. If they do, they will definitely find a way to squeeze all the money out of your hands. "
For having such a pair of parents, Xiao Lingyu was very distressed for An Xiaohui as the next person. However, when a person is born, they cannot choose their own parents.
Even if the parents are no longer, but they have the kindness of life and nourishment to themselves, the filial piety that should be respected as children should still be respected.
But this kind of filial piety must not be allowed to ask them endlessly.
An Xiaohui smiled bitterly and said, "I thought about it too, but they refused. They felt that instead of spending money on a nanny, they might as well save the money and give it to An Yang directly."
Xiao Lingyu was suddenly speechless.
An Xiaohui's parents treat An Yang so wholeheartedly. To An Yang, it must be very happy, but to An Xiaohui, it is a huge harm.
Xiao Lingyu thought for a while and said, "Xiaohui, your parents have always regretted that no one will inherit the lineage. Following the incense, they are more worried that they will not fall into the pot after death. Haven't you considered solving the problem from the root?"
After An Xiaohui heard this, she asked with a look of doubt and surprise, "Sister Ling Yu, what do you mean by that?"
"Didn't you talk to your parents, if after you get married, the first boy's surname is An, as their grandson, they will have grandsons to throw pots for them in the future?" Xiao Lingyu said speechlessly.
"Huh?" An Xiaohui was a little stunned.
They really hadn't talked about it before, and since she knew that her parents couldn't give birth, her grandparents directly took the decision, and later let the second uncle's son throw the pot for his parents.
In the consciousness of An's father and An's mother, it was determined that An Yang would be the one who threw the pot in the future.
Therefore, asking An Xiaohui to find a man to be her son-in-law was not considered.
As for An Xiaohui, who was deeply influenced by her family since she was a child, she never thought about it.
Seeing An Xiaohui's expression, Xiao Lingyu was immediately sure that they had never thought about it or talked about it.
Xiao Lingyu sighed lightly, clapped her hand, and said, "Xiaohui, maybe you can talk to your parents about this matter. After all, it's better to have your own grandson than a nephew."
An Xiaohui's expression was obviously unimaginable, she asked, "Sister Ling Yu, is this okay?"
Xiao Lingyu said, "Is it possible or not, we have to talk about it first, right?"
An Xiaohui's parents have always been the ones who didn't inherit the lineage, and who didn't throw the pot after their death.
Perhaps only by solving this crux, An Xiaohui's life can return to peace.
But An Xiaohui was still a little hesitant, "But Sister Ling Yu, let my child be named An, doesn't that make me a son-in-law?"
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