When I finished writing the three words of the book, I felt as if a huge weight had been lifted off my shoulders, and I felt a lot more relaxed.
As early as the beginning of the year, I said in the group that I would finish the book during the World Cup.
So it’s not too hasty to end the story here. Although it leaves a lot of regrets and there are still some holes left unfilled, I can only apologize to everyone here.
Due to family changes, writing this book was quite difficult, and I had no time to write it.
So in the end, I was very satisfied that the book was successfully completed without any unfinished work.
Let me report the results to you. The average subscription of this book once reached more than 4,200, and then continued to decline. In October last year, because I had to intervene and accompany Doudou, I could only write at night every day. The time was really limited, so I was forced to reduce the number of updates. , the performance has been declining, and now it has dropped to about 3,300 average bookings.
Fortunately, it didn’t fall below the 3,000 average booking bottom line for premium products, so I could barely keep my pants (laughing and crying)!
To be honest, I didn’t expect such results when I started the book.
I used to write military articles during foreign wars, but because of river crabs, several books were blocked one after another. I couldn't stand it anymore, so I went to Dian Niang to write about sports, so I became a monk halfway.
I am a complete novice when it comes to sports writing, so my mental expectations were not high at the beginning, and I did not expect to achieve such results.
Although compared with the great masters and veteran authors at Qidian, my achievements are nothing at all.
But for me, it is a very satisfactory result.
I would like to thank you all very much for your support and for your help and encouragement during the lowest stage of my life.
Last year when Doudou was diagnosed with autism and my mother was hospitalized for a heart attack, I couldn't hold on anymore and felt like the whole world had collapsed.
At that time, there were many enthusiastic readers who comforted and encouraged me, and some people joined the group to introduce me to experts on autism, and guided me on how to provide effective intervention for my children at home, etc. A series of help.
I would like to bow down and thank you all here. Thank you very much!
Without you, I really don’t know how I would have survived that low period.
Let’s report Doudou’s condition here!
After being diagnosed with autism in June last year, he began to provide intervention in the organization Daimi Xiaomi.
He has four classes every day, two classes of sensory integration training and two classes of comprehensive training.
The sensory integration course mainly trains sports. His muscle tone is very low, he is tired when standing, and he cannot stand for long. He always relies on things like doors, beds, and sofas. He cannot jump, nor can he run fast, and his body balance ability My physical and athletic abilities were very poor, and I didn’t even dare to swing on the swing at first.
After nearly a year of intervention, great progress has been made.
His muscle tone has improved a lot, and he feels more muscles on his body now. When I hold him, he is not as soft as before.
In terms of exercise, he can now jump. Although he can only jump a little and the jumping posture is strange, the strength of his legs can finally support him to jump.
His mother often takes him to play hoop jumping games. He used to step on the hoop every time, but now he can jump into the center of the hoop without stepping on the hoop, which is a lot of progress.
Doudou can climb now. He likes to climb up on the meshed slope outside the community. The last time his mother took him to the playground, he actually dared to climb the rock climbing in the playground. I was really surprised. Me.
In addition, when I took him to the kindergarten spring outing some time ago, I found that he could not catch a Frisbee or play football.
So I took him to play football during this period. From the beginning, he couldn't kick and didn't dare to lift his feet for fear of falling. Now he can lift his feet and stand on one leg to kick the ball out. He has improved a lot.
Doudou likes playing football very much. He pesters me to play football every day. He plays football whenever he has free time. I will intersperse some other sports with him while playing football, such as picking up the ball, throwing it to him, and training. His ability to predict and react.
He couldn't catch the ball at first, but now he is slowly able to catch the ball.
However, his reaction speed and prediction ability are still very poor. If the ball is thrown slightly to the side, he will not be able to catch it. Basically, he will stand and catch the ball without moving his feet.
But compared to before, there is still considerable progress.
In November last year, Doudou started going to kindergarten.
Although he can only attend small classes, this is still a good start.
I just don’t know if he can be promoted to middle class this year. After all, he is almost five years old. The small class is full of children who are over two years old or even less than two years old. He is too big and will make things difficult for the teacher.
But compared with normal children, even two-year-old children, Doudou has obvious gaps in cognition, behavior and emotional management, and language communication.
But compared to him last year, he has improved a lot now.
His mother and I have both recognized the reality. It is impossible for a child to return to a normal state after suffering from this disease.
We don’t expect miracles, we just hope he can learn more and master as many skills as possible.
In this case, he can survive in the future when his mother and I are gone.
I’m not afraid of you laughing when I say this. Although I’m still far away from death, what I’m most worried about during this time is what will happen to Doudou after I die.
Some time ago I watched "Ocean Paradise" starring Jet Li and Wen Zhang, and Xin Cheng made a lot of efforts to help Dafu survive.
For every parent who has an autistic child at home, this state is probably a true reflection of their inner world!
Doudou is very busy now. She has to get up at 7:30 every morning to go to kindergarten and go to an institution for intervention in the afternoon. She is so busy that it makes people feel distressed.
In the afternoon, Doudou often feels sleepy and gets emotional, but there is nothing she can do about it. She has to go to kindergartens and institutions.
Having more contact with other children in kindergarten can help him integrate into the group, and also allow him to imitate the behaviors of other children. These are more effective than us adults teaching at home. Of course, even the bad ones will learn faster (laughing), and there are many children in kindergarten. Now, Doudou has gotten sick more often. She has caught colds countless times since she went to kindergarten...
I seemed to be thinking a little too much, and before I knew it, it was almost two o'clock in the morning.
As for the new book, it should be about football. I plan to use the 2005 World Youth Championship as the background to start the book. I am currently in the process of researching information. If there are no accidents, the book will be released around May 15th. I hope you can read more by then. Thank you in advance for your support!
PS: I don’t rule out using the summer vacation to study military literature in Luzi to earn some extra money. The recent economic pressure has been too great, and I will soon have to pay the intervention fee for the second half of the year. After the 12% discount, it will cost more than 80,000...
The average intervention fee for Doudou is 15,000 yuan a month. Taking into account mortgage, rent, living expenses, transportation expenses and kindergarten tuition fees, the monthly expenditure is more than 25,000 yuan.
I really can't bear it. I burned less than half of the money I saved last year. At this rate, I will have no money next year... (End of Chapter)
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