How to Thrive in the ’60s

In this age when the relationship between the sexes is repressed and twisted to cruelty, whether it is a widow or a divorced woman, life is not easy.

Once a family is without a man, people will stare at the hostess of the family with all kinds of colored eyes, secretly guessing whether she can keep her waistband and keep the dead man innocent.

If you live a little better, people will think that a woman is disrespectful. Otherwise, if she is a woman, how can she live a better life than a man with a man.

If a woman talks to a man more than once, all kinds of women's indecent words will spread, and in the days to come, they will be repeatedly mentioned, and spontaneity will become her pronoun.

And those divorced women are even more alien in people's eyes. People will imagine various reasons for divorce and pour dirty water on women to prove that being divorced is an unforgivable mistake made by women.

Otherwise, how to explain her being kicked out by a man?

Zhang Chunni has experienced these things more or less.

It's just that the timing of her divorce was more subtle, in which year she just settled down.

It was only during that time that divorce was not uncommon, and the number of women who were divorced was by no means rare, and most of them were divorced for the same reason.

Basically, men excuse their marriages to be arranged marriages, their wives are too rotten, they don’t know how to make progress, and they already have like-minded revolutionary partners around them, so they want to get divorced.

Zhang Chunni is one of these divorced women.

Everyone knows the reason for the divorce.

But even so, Zhang Chunni has been gossiped over the years, and her three children have been suspected countless times that they are not Gu Huaiqing's kind...

Zhang Chunni is very clear and transparent about the reasons for divorce and has been criticized. How much slander will those divorced women who do not know the reason suffer?

This is also the main reason why many women in this era are willing to be sparred with their in-laws rather than divorced.

In Lin Dani's situation, she could be regarded as a widow and a divorced woman. It is conceivable how many people would point at her in the factory.

In particular, there is a large courtyard behind her, and there are all kinds of men with careful thoughts approaching deliberately, which makes Lin Dani a target for everyone to attack and destroy.

Regarding Lin Dani's situation, Gu Shinian really couldn't think of a good solution.

No one can control other people's thoughts, let alone control other people's mouths.

In such a case, unless Lin Dani is strong enough to not be afraid of people's words, or if she changes her job and brings Dacheng to a new environment, she will never be able to get rid of other people's strange eyes. Reminds me over and over again...

Dacheng turned over and said in a dull voice, "Brother Shi Nian, I don't want to stay in the provincial capital, but my aunt said she had to keep my job in the shoe factory... I know my aunt doesn't want to work in the shoe factory, she I wanted to go to university before, and I saw her sneaking around the gate of the night school."

Gu Shinian's heart moved, he turned around and asked, "When is it going to happen?"

"Twice, I went once after I was discharged from the hospital, and I went again a few years ago when I was crying because of the popularity of the factory. Brother Shi Nian, it would be great if my aunt was a college student, then those people would not dare to gossip about her. "

Gu Shinian wanted to tell Dacheng that even if Lin Dani is a college student, even if she sits in the shoe factory office after graduating from college, even if she becomes a leader, she still can't control other people's mouths.

It's just that the environment is different. When the door of the clean office is closed, the gossip is locked out, and I can't hear it.

Hearing Dacheng's heavy voice like a falling stone, Gu Shinian couldn't bear to tell the truth, but followed his words, "If your aunt can go to college, after graduation, she can enter the office as a cadre, and she can manage the workshop workers. , those female workers naturally dare not gossip about your aunt."

in the dark,

Dacheng's eyes lit up for a moment, he turned over and sat up, and asked Gu Shinian, "Brother Shinian, what do you think my aunt went to the night school to take the university entrance examination? My aunt got good grades when she was in school, and came first in the exam!"

"Yes, if you want to go to university, let your aunt go to night school this time, preferably this year." You can graduate before the university is closed.

Gu Shinian also thinks that Lin Dani going to college is a good way. When she graduates from college, whether she is changing jobs or staying in the same unit, she will be able to get a small cadre. At least she can leave the noisy workshop and avoid the crowd. The female worker chatted idle.

After asking for a good idea, Dacheng fell asleep satisfied, secretly deciding in his heart that when he returned, he must find a way to coax Lin Dani to go to night school!

………………

The next morning, Lin Dani got up early and helped Gu Pangui make breakfast. After Zhang Chunni came back from get off work, she unpacked and took out the gifts she brought from the provincial capital.

This is a New Year's gift, Zhang Chunni did not refuse, accepted it generously, and returned a very high-profile return gift.

Gu Shinian went to the Public Security Bureau first and told about Meng Hu's situation. After returning, he took Dacheng and Lin Dani to the big mule cart to town.

When he got to the town, Gu Shinian didn't choose to send a few people to the village by handlebars, but took the two of them on a dirt road full of potholes.

It was the first time for Dacheng to come to the country, and he was so excited that he even had to look at the withered trees by the roadside.

Happy like a calf.

Avoiding Dacheng who was running in front, Gu Shinian said to Lin Dani, "Aunt Lin, I want to ask you to help me with something."

Lin Dani retracted her gaze from Dacheng and looked at Gu Shinian curiously, "What are you doing for you?"

"I want to buy a suite for Ah Chang in the county and move her household registration to the city. It's just that I'm not too old. If I really buy a house for Ah Chang, it's hard to explain where the money for the house came from.

Also, you also know Ah Chang's life experience. I'm worried that Grandpa Yun, Grandma Yun, is reluctant to move out of Ah Chang's account. I want you to come forward and talk to Grandpa Yun as Auntie Yun to make them think they are buying a house. The money is yours..."

Lin Dani touched her face that looked like Yun Chang, and she was in a trance for a moment, then nodded in agreement.

Gu Shinian was relieved, and quickly explained the situation of Lao Yun's family, Lin Dani had a general idea.

After thinking about it for a while, he said, "This should be possible, we just let Yunshang eat the food supplied by the urban residents, not take Yunshang away from Lao Yun's house, they should not object. As long as we don't let people know about buying a house The money is yours, right?"

Gu Shinian nodded helplessly. If it wasn't for his young age, he couldn't explain the source of the large sum of money he had, and he wouldn't have delayed the purchase of a house for so long.

Fortunately, Lin Dani came here, and she could use Lin Dani's face to get Yunshang to buy a house smoothly.

As for Yun Shuilian's hukou, I will find other excuses to come up with it later.