Lisco's American Life
1169. Differences between parents
"If she files a complaint, she will file a complaint. So what can she do? Even though she is her grandma, she is still my mother's fault. What can she do to me?"
Although he realized that the situation was not good, Zhang Li would not show any expression of begging for mercy on his face, and even pretended to be calm. At least he could not let his husband see any possible signs of cowardice.
Although Li Feng is his mother, Xiao Fulan is also the granddaughter of the other party by blood. In terms of attention, she is much better than her daughter, who is already married.
Even when there was a conflict between the two parties, the mother would definitely stand in Little Fran's perspective and standpoint without hesitation, and it was even as if she was not her biological daughter at all.
Although this kind of thing sometimes makes Zhang Li feel helpless, it is easy to understand from a reasonable point of view. In addition, his daughter is also his own biological child, so there is nothing unreasonable about this kind of thing.
You can't stop your mother from loving her daughter, or you can't stop her daughter from getting close to her grandmother. This is completely nonsense.
As the husband who knows his wife best, Lisko naturally knows that the other party is just pretending in front of him, and it can even be said that it is completely useless. However, as a husband and wife get along with each other in the simplest way, he will definitely not say anything to expose it, because this
It will obviously create harmony in your family life. One of the most important truths in life is that knowing what is appropriate is rarely confusing.
"Of course, you are my daughter, so I will naturally be on your side, and I will definitely be on your side. After all, we are the first to know each other, and in terms of familiarity, we are more familiar with each other than our daughters.
Much more."
After listening to Lisko's words, Zhang Li not only did not feel that he had been comforted, but rolled his eyes helplessly. After all, every example the other party gave was completely contrary to his own knowledge.
Apart from anything else, although she is Li Feng's biological daughter, she spends a lot of time dealing with her children's attitude. Her mother is paranoid and doting and is completely out of her control.
The husband said that he and he would stand on the same front in this matter. They have become husband and wife, and naturally they are very familiar and understanding of each other. Although his husband has not yet become close to his daughter, from the bottom of his heart,
, The other party is still an out-and-out daughter slave.
The other party's performance just now has clearly demonstrated his thoughts. Zhang Li no longer expects that her husband will favor his side between the two options of his daughter and himself.
At this time, Zhang Li's emotions were very complicated. He firmly believed that he had done nothing wrong. After all, from the perspective of justice and fairness, his actions were definitely without any mistakes, and he could even be criticized.
Thumbs up, children need to adjust their education methods in time to make them realize what they can and cannot do.
But my mother doesn’t think so. The identity of mother will inherently bring contradictory feelings to people. If someone is allowed to do a very overestimating thing, the evaluation she will get from her mother’s mouth will definitely be
I don’t know how vast the world is, but the young man’s starting point for considering the problem is a bit too taken for granted. Gu Ying
But if this thing is done by your own child, you will naturally get the best evaluation and encouragement. Even if the final outcome is a failure, it will still be outstanding and outstanding in the eyes of the mother. At least your child has the qualifications.
The qualities of pursuit and courage.
Regarding this attitude, not only Zhang You himself is like this, but all mothers seem to have the same attitude.
When thinking about his impressions of his parents, Zhang Li felt that he still preferred his mother. Although in the past, it seemed that his mother was always smiling, while his father looked a little cold-faced, even very majestic, making everyone feel afraid.
.
But in fact, as the only child in the family, Zhang Li learned very early that he was basically observant of words and emotions, and could clearly know who was the most vulnerable person in the family to break through the defense line. In many places, he could even be the first to attack someone after he got into trouble.
You can find a safe place to protect yourself.
As for the mother, although she looks smiling on weekdays and even looks like a kind mother in front of many outsiders, she often sticks to her own bottom line when it comes to the education of her children.
He makes any compromises and concessions easily, even if the person he is arguing with is his mother or other elders, he can still reject all the words that come to him to plead for mercy.
It is really thanks to my mother's education method that I was able to avoid growing up unscrupulously and arrogantly, whether in my rebellious period or adolescence, and slowly developed into the intellectual and elegant character and temperament I have now.
But these bottom lines that she had always adhered to seemed to have completely lost their effect when she met her only granddaughter. It even made Zhang Li feel that the way she looked at her mother was a little strange, because she was becoming the grandma in her memory.
, no matter how much trouble the child gets into or what mistakes he makes, the first choice he makes is to protect and warm him.
This change in attitude makes Zhang Li and everyone in the family find it difficult to understand and accept. After all, no matter how much you love children, at the very least, you should teach each other clearly about right and wrong in time, because from the starting point, you can see
In other words, it seems that I and these people all have very similar and unified ideas, and they all start from the standpoint of making the baby better and better.
Unknowingly, Li Feng was moving towards the sphere of influence of the type of group he often complained about in the past, and was even slowly becoming a member of the group. The boy with the Dragon Sword would eventually become a villain.
dragon.
Zhang You and Li Feng are two completely different types. Although he looks a bit majestic on the outside, in the eyes of children, he is just a fake, and his heart is the easiest to soften in the entire family, and he is also the weakest.
It is easy to open a breach in the defense line.
Perhaps because Zhang Li is the only child in the family, her father has replaced her fantasy of the best parents in the world for a long time. No matter what her daughter wants to do or ask for, he will be the first to do so.
I will try to find a way to satisfy my daughter. Even if I fail to do so for the time being, I will keep this matter in my heart and wait for the future to continue to study and make progress in order to make my daughter happy and satisfied.
And no matter what the mood was at that time, as long as Zhang Li held his father's arm and shook it twice, his attitude would immediately soften, and he would even step into the sweet trap carefully woven by his daughter with a smile on his face.
Not as shrewd and sharp as in previous jobs.
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