Lisco's American Life

1610. The mode of getting along between husband and wife

Regarding how to get along with his wife and how to maintain family harmony, Liske can only be regarded as having just understood it and has just entered the threshold. There are too many things to learn from his father-in-law and also learn from him.

Let the other person use this attitude to maintain the family atmosphere and daily relationship as much as possible.

In fact, many people think that if they want to ensure the stability and harmony of their marriage, they only need to find a marriage partner who they love or loves themselves, and that's it. But you must know that everyone has their own unique personality characteristics before getting married.

The way of marriage is to make two people full of their own edges and corners, and become more and more smooth in the process of constant friction with each other, so that each other can become the piece that the other person lacks, and the two people can perfectly fit together to form a marriage.

A complete pattern is the best way to ensure that this relationship will last forever.

Although there have never been any major problems in the relationship between Li Ke and Zhang Li in their current marriage, during their unknowing relationship, Li Ke himself felt that this mode of relationship was not suitable for the two of them in their daily lives.

The reason why no fierce quarrels or disagreements broke out was because both of them were relatively restrained and deliberately maintained the harmony between them.

However, the relationship between these two people cannot be maintained for a long time. It is obvious that relying solely on mutual concessions to ensure that the marriage life of two people goes smoothly is not a long-term solution, so Lisko also

I desperately hope to find a different way of getting along so that the couple's life as a couple can become more harmonious and harmonious.

In this process of learning and slowly changing, any family that can guarantee a long-term marriage is the senior he has learned from. Almost everyone is his target, and everyone can hope to learn some experience from the other party's way of getting along with each other.

With the income, you can find a method that is more suitable for you.

In fact, many people believe that in the relationship between husband and wife and family, the two people becoming more harmonious is the prerequisite to ensure that the marriage can last long, but in fact, in Lisko's view, this may not be the case. I believe that people who have been married

We all have a deep understanding that in the family relationship mode, only when the woman feels happy can the two people get along more harmoniously. If the woman herself has some ideas about the marriage or is not so

Happily, conflicts between two people may occur far more often than usual.

Almost every man is looking for a more harmonious mode of getting along with his wife. In this mode of getting along, his wife will become less stubborn on some issues, the wife will be in a happy mood, and the life of the entire family will also become more peaceful.

There is a lot of harmony, but if you make the other party feel unhappy, you may have countless conflicts with the other party, whether it is eating, resting, or every aspect of daily life at home.

After having this idea, Lisko would try his best to observe the relationship between the father-in-law and the mother-in-law in a quiet manner in the rest of his life. He found that no matter what mistakes the old man made, even if

There are many ways to do things that are not as expected by my mother-in-law, but she can always use a very relaxed attitude to make the other party not care about the matter at all.

Men always seem careless in life, and not only are they not as refined as women, they even appear to be extraordinarily reckless in some places. Such an attitude is worthy of reprimand and refutation in the eyes of many girls, but Zhang You can do it

No matter what choices and decisions he makes, Li Feng is willing to support him. This attitude and way of getting along really makes the lawyer envious.

Moreover, when Zhang You encounters some problems, he will always adopt some extremely humorous methods to dispel the resentment and other emotions in his wife's heart. You must know that when women encounter some problems, most of them will lose their reason and completely

Using anger to drive one's actions is also the specific source of conflicts in many couples' relationship patterns.

But Zhang You's approach can temporarily calm down his wife when she encounters a problem. After the anger in his heart has truly cooled down, his rationality has returned to his own mind, and his way of looking at the problem has also changed.

Changes will occur. Most conflicts and quarrels are caused by temporary anger and lack of careful thinking. After the problem is resolved, the number of quarrels that can occur will be very few.

Li Sk also gained a lot from the other party's way of dealing with the problem. In fact, in the way Li Sk and Zhang Li get along, they will definitely encounter some situations where their opinions conflict with each other, but both of them are extremely restrained in their emotions.

Once such a sign occurs, they will choose a solution to the temporary cooling problem. Compared with the solution of two people, it seems that Zhang You's solution is more advanced. Not only will it not destroy the impression of the two people on each other,

In this way, the other party can also understand that they understand and tolerate each other.

In fact, after getting along with each other for this period of time, Li Sike also discovered many problems between himself and Zhang Li. Perhaps because the relationship was always relatively stable at the beginning, many problems burst out in an instant after the marriage. If these

The inability to find a suitable solution to the problem may also make the relationship between the two people very contradictory and awkward.

The biggest source of problems between the two people may be because of the unequal status. Many times, Zhang Li is unable to treat Li Sike like an ordinary couple. On the one hand, it is because of the wealth of the other party's family and the assets he owns.

It far exceeded the standards he expected. On the other hand, it was also because the social status of the two parties was not equal. In the eyes of many people, Liske was a talented writer who was not satisfied with what he wanted and also had a superb investment talent.

It is precisely the influence of this inherent label that makes Zhang Li sometimes, even if he wants to lose his temper with his boyfriend like an ordinary couple, he will consider the identity of the other person and shrink subconsciously.

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Compared with the love between husband and wife, Zhang Li felt that when facing Li Sike, most of the time he would feel respected and timid.

Everyone has their own unique edges and personalities, but when Zhang Li faces Li Sco, he will try his best to cover up his edges and make himself what the other party expects and likes.

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