Lisco's American Life

Suddenly hearing Xiaoyu's invitation, Heman covered his cheeks with excitement. For himself, although he had been looking forward to this kind of scene, he was limited by the short contact time between the two.

Because of this, I may not have allowed my feelings to reach this level yet.

For He-Man, the invitation sent by the other party is very important. Although it may be just an ordinary invitation in Xiaoyu's eyes, he hopes to go to a fixed place with his girlfriend to play. Through this kind of trip,

The way to deepen the relationship and understanding between two people is to live together with those young people after falling in love. The mutual adjustment actually has the same effect.

But this is not the case in the eyes of Americans. The fact that the other party can invite you to travel to his hometown or country means that he has thoroughly taken you into consideration in his future life plans. It also means that the other party wants to

I must have the mentality to keep going with you, because you will have your presence and role in the vision of the future.

In fact, Americans often have a relatively negligent attitude towards relationships. Both parties maintain a relatively smooth process. When they go out for the first date, it is the stage where both parties get to know each other. They explore each other's interests and hobbies to see if they are interested in each other.

If you match yourself, you can get closer on the second date, and you will also have a deeper understanding of each other. If you feel that the other person is not suitable for you, you will regretfully mention it at the end of the first date.

Say goodbye.

The stage of staying overnight can be reached on the third date. This allows Americans to maintain enthusiasm, romance and fast feelings, but it is also full of a lot of uncertainty. When many people fall in love,

The whole person is relatively blind, and sometimes he may turn a blind eye to the other person's flaws, or he may feel that he has the ability and confidence to change the other person's bad habit.

But the result may not be what you want. After the passion and love recede, you will fall into all kinds of troubles and daily necessities in life. All relationships will become vulnerable after this stage of experience, and

The emotions of Americans come as fast as the wind and leave like rain, which makes people miserable. They even have no mentality and preparation to accept this kind of parting.

But in the eyes of Americans, this more important request will only be made when you have truly made plans to spend a lifetime with the other person in your future vision, which means that you hope that the other person can better understand you.

I have a relatively thorough grasp of your past, your living environment, your overall personality and some habits. If nothing else happens, the next step after this trip will almost be the time to propose.

During this trip, if two people have similar temperaments and matching personalities, the proposal will naturally be a matter of course, which means that they can truly enter the marriage hall together with a more serious attitude.

Xiaoyu, however, does not have such an understanding of these things. On the one hand, it is because he has been in the United States for a relatively short time. On the other hand, he may not have anyone to learn from in his life. When it comes to his brother-in-law, the other party and

The speed at which my sisters got married is simply astonishing. It seems that these stages have been omitted directly. Even so, the emotional life of the two has always been relatively stable. They may have a good habit of being humble to each other and have a lot of good habits.

It's a big relationship, and both parties are currently living a very happy life. It's completely unnecessary to learn from the other party some of the characteristics and opinions that normal people need to experience in relationships.

The marriage life and relationship status of the other party cannot be replicated. While maintaining its uniqueness, it is also full of coincidences and fate. If my sister had not passed by my brother-in-law on a motorcycle that day, the two of them might have

The subsequent story would not have happened. If my sister had not decided to learn from the United States after returning to China, the two of them would not have had further contact, let alone enter the stage of love and walk at the same time.

into the rhythm of the next marriage.

It is precisely because he does not understand this aspect so thoroughly that Xiaoyu does not know how important and experienced his invitation is to his girlfriend. But for Xiaoyu, even if he understands

Maybe not too much

He cares too much, and he is quite serious about relationships. Although He-Man can be regarded as his first love, apart from those ignorant and ignorant youthful secret love complexes in his youth, the other party is indeed his first girlfriend.

Moreover, in terms of personality, appearance, knowledge, and family, there is absolutely nothing to find fault with in each other.

If you really give yourself some time to think about it, Xiaoyu feels that it is not so unacceptable to combine with the other person or even enter the palace of marriage. She even has some expectations and excitement in her heart.

For myself who has received traditional education, being able to meet, get to know, and fall in love with someone is a longing and dreaming thing. I have never had anything to talk about, fall in love with, or play with.

The time has not reached a certain level, and I don’t really want to be bound by marriage.

For many traditional Chinese men, starting a family and starting a career seems to be something that is engraved in their bones. Only after starting a family, their mentality will become extraordinarily stable, and at the same time, they will shoulder the responsibilities of husband and raising a family.

You will enter a mature state. Before getting married, your mentality always yearns for freedom. However, when you truly shoulder these responsibilities, these pressures and environments will unconsciously push a person directly to the mature stage.

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Xiaoyu has no dissatisfaction with himself for entering this stage as soon as possible. He also hopes that he can stabilize as soon as possible and have more energy and mentality to treat his career itself and himself with a more serious and responsible attitude.

There is no desire, no idea of ​​what level to achieve. Being a little rich and having a job that supports one's independent life is enough. The vision for the future and the idea of ​​changing the world, in one's real life

After entering society, it has been almost wiped out.

There are countless people who have the ability to change the world. I am so insignificant that I feel that I don’t have the talent or ability in this area. There may be a saying that is quite good. The sign of a person’s maturity may be that he feels that he is not able to change.

When the world begins, accepting the reality of one's own mediocrity is also a sign of maturity.