Lisco's American Life

Before, although I helped Xiaoyu contact the relevant person in charge and solve the problems encountered by the other company, I only provided introduction services and simple communication. During the subsequent training process, I did not have much

Interference is partly because I want to cultivate Xiaoyu's independent habits. I can't just solve everything by myself. Sometimes learning to communicate is also a way to solve problems. It is also a disguised form of helping each other and cultivating one's own.

network of personal connections.

On the one hand, I am not always that proficient in this aspect. After all, I don’t have that much understanding of Internet network technology. I can only help others analyze and make suggestions from a macro perspective. When it comes to truly professional issues, I

You may know that there is no ordinary programmer who is more sophisticated. Lisko's best way is to provide guidance and suggestions as much as possible. It is not a wise choice to really help.

"It has been solved. Our problems have now been completely completed. The construction of the website has also come to an end. The next work that needs to be faced is the company's publicity issue. The next step may be to launch the website.

With the help of the training class, each of us feels that we have improved to a certain extent, and we have gained a lot.”

Faced with his brother-in-law's concern and inquiry, Xiaoyu immediately corrected his attitude, reported his work to the society, and generally began to talk to his brother-in-law about his gains and progress during this period. On the one hand, it was because of his brother-in-law

I am the major shareholder of my company. Although the other party has always been dismissive of these shares, the amount of shares they occupy, and the funds provided, I am not able to treat these issues with the same attitude.

On the other hand, when the other party extended a helping hand, it really solved a more critical situation for me. No matter what the purpose was, I always need to be grateful for this help and put my own

Describing in detail what you have gained and what the other person has helped you to do is also a way for you to express your gratitude and goodwill to the other person.

"That's good, that's good. Now the company is taking a short break, right? This period of time is indeed hard. Sometimes, don't be so impatient when things happen, and try to maintain a sense of stability and honor as much as possible.

Don’t be alarmed. No matter what problem arises, there must be a solution. As the person in charge of the company, your thoughts cannot be the same as before. You must know that the pressure and situation of everyone in the entire company are now on you.

If you lose your footing, it may be a serious blow to the morale of everyone in the company."

Perhaps because he is a father, Lisko feels that he is now much more nagging and verbose than before. When faced with some things, he always takes the trouble to remind him again and again. Although this is also a way of expressing his care, but

Compared with my previous cool and concise narrative method, it does seem a lot bloated.

But fortunately, what makes me feel gratified is that when I explain something to the other party, no matter whether Xiaoyu thinks this method is suitable for his current situation, he will always maintain a respectful and rigorous attitude and listen carefully.

My own teachings, for those who have experienced it, although some things seem simple and the truth is very common, it is not so easy to be consistent in appearance and inside. Only after experiencing some things, can I feel that these short words are the most effective.

These are real words of wisdom. Keeping the other person’s teachings and listening to the other person’s energy and sharing is indeed a way to improve yourself.

However, young people nowadays seem to have lost some patience. They don’t really recognize and like the teachings of their elders and the wise words they draw from life. They always feel that they have the power to change everything, and they are arrogant.

The attitude always makes people feel very disappointed, which is also the source of the generation gap between young people and their elders.

"I understand, brother-in-law, thank you for your help."

When saying these words, Xiaoyu still seemed a little ashamed and embarrassed. After all, men's emotions are always so subtle. If you really let yourself stand in front of others and apologize to them, it would be a very embarrassing thing.

And the closer the relationship, the more subtle this situation appears.

There may be many people who feel the same way. If you are asked to say thank you to a stranger, three simple words of thank you are very easy to say, but if you are asked to use these words to your own father,

Say it in a very solemn way, many people may not be able to open their mouths, and it is always so easy for mothers to express, "I love you" when facing dad, it seems that there is some embarrassment and difficulty in speaking.

It is also a way of expressing restrained emotions among Chinese people. Most men like to express their love and attention with their daily care. For men, straightforward expressions seem to be a very embarrassing thing.

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After Lisko heard the other party's words of thanks, he seemed very surprised and shocked, because in his own eyes and impression, Xiaoyu was not a person who liked to express his gratitude in this way, but he could hear

When the other party said such words, it was also very comforting to me, and I even felt that my efforts were rewarded accordingly.

Everyone always hopes to receive equal feedback when they pour their emotions into others, or show all kinds of care. This is true whether it is father's love or mother's love, although there is also that kind of selfless love, even for children.

I don’t care, and I don’t care that much, but almost everyone is happy to receive the same feedback.

This seems to be a way of behavior engraved in the bones of the Chinese people. When you put in the hard work, bitterness and sweat, the watermelon will reap fruits of the same quality. This has nothing to do with the original intention of the effort, but it is always a surprise to be able to harvest it.

"Okay, we are all a family and saying this is a bit too outsider. Let's go in. Your aunt has prepared a lot of good things for noon today. When I looked at it in the morning, it looked like she was going to make a big meal.

Meal, you kid really picked the day to come back, just in time for the rich and delicious food."

With an expression of relief, Liske simply patted Xiaoyu's shoulder. Compared with when he first met him, the other person's experience during this period did seem to have grown a lot. Not only did he look more mature,

I feel a little more energetic, and even my body shape has become stronger. It seems that I have grown up in an instant and become the kind of man who stands on his feet all day long. Generally, this feeling makes me feel very subtle, and I even feel like my child has just grown up.

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