Lisco's American Life

You must know that since childhood, because the first child was a daughter, and the family planning environment at that time was very severe, Li Feng and Zhang were almost ruined. Two people wanted to have another child. At the same time, the elder one

In the minds of the more traditional people of the generation, if a family does not have a son to carry on the inheritance, it will be a failure. It is precisely because of this idea that the entire society, in fact, is very fierce in opposing and resisting family planning. People do not

They succumbed to the policies and environment of the time, and instead hoped to live in compliance with their own wishes as much as possible.

In this environment, there are only two options before Zhang You and Li Feng. Either the two of them immediately put down their current positions and break away from the queue of civil servants with good benefits and practical benefits and become ordinary people.

I used my identity to resist family planning and have another child, hoping to have a son.

Either give in to the current situation and follow the government's policies and leadership even if you only have one child. Compared with what was gained and lost, the situation at that time did not have so many choices. After careful consideration and entanglement,

After that, the two decided that even if they only have one daughter, they can take good care of each other. At the same time, the government's care for these government personnel after retirement is very complete, so they don't have to worry about too many twists and turns in their retirement life.

After all, the position of civil servant has always been a carrot and a pitfall, and the companies where the two of them work are relatively easy and have a lot of income and status. It is not a good idea to suddenly give up the benefits that you really get now for an unknown future.

A better choice.

It is precisely because of this that although the couple dotes on and cares for their daughter, they also try their best to guide their daughter on the correct education path and devote everything they have to making her daughter's life easier, and also

They are fighting for their daughter's future, but the fact that they have no son has always been a knot in their minds.

At this time, Zhang You's younger brother suddenly gave birth to a son. Seeing the little carrot head with small hands and feet in front of him, all the longing and love for his son in his heart were transferred to him in an instant. Considering that he really didn't have any

No matter what chance they had of having another child, while maintaining attention to their daughter, the couple also cared about Xiaoyu almost as if they were their own sons. In addition, Xiaoyu's parents were in the early stages of starting their business at that time.

He is in an extremely busy state all day long. While he is busy, he will naturally neglect the education and attention of his children. Most of the time, Xiaoyu's education and life can only be preserved by relying on Li Feng's care.

Because of this prerequisite and environment, in the minds of the couple, the three children in the family are not much different from their own biological children. Even these three children are the only ones in this generation. Since they cannot give themselves

If the daughter provides some younger brothers and sisters to accompany her, then the mutual support of other cousins ​​in the family becomes a relationship that needs to be maintained.

Although sometimes interests can surpass all care, but it really comes down to certain situations where the environment and choices are similar. This kind of blood connection, which is close to family affection, can still transcend many other emotions. This is also why many rural families would rather

There are more family members at home, and I don’t care that my life will become more and more poor with this situation. Sometimes it is very difficult to rely on your own ability to work hard in the entire society, and

With the help of relatives, the situation becomes much easier.

Xiaoyu encountered difficulties and difficulties some time ago. Although Liske did not talk too much and had an in-depth chat with the two elders of the family, his wife certainly would not hide it. The couple chatted alone.

When they are together, they will more or less communicate and understand some issues in this area. Although Li Sike himself will not be so talkative about conveying this situation to his elders, when his wife is chatting with the two elders, or

Some clues will be exposed more or less intentionally or unintentionally, which makes the two elders actually worried about Xiaoyu's situation.

Children who are away from home usually choose to endure any problems by themselves silently, and try their best to report good news to family members rather than bad news. On the one hand, they do not want the elders at home to worry too much about them, and on the other hand, they do not want to worry about their current predicament.

, the elders really don’t have many ways to help or give advice.

Xiaoyu also had this similar idea and had no intention of sharing his plight with his elders. However, he couldn't bear it. After learning about the news through other channels, he suddenly became concerned about Xiaoyu's situation.

I'm still worried. The two of them don't care too much about the loss of money. On the one hand, my son-in-law doesn't know the amount of wealth he currently has, but it's okay for his brother to help him casually.

It's a very simple thing. If you don't mind, the young couple also have some savings. It is reasonable to temporarily use it to help their nephew tide over the difficulties. Although Xiaoyu's parents are not special,

He is rich and powerful, but in the whole city, the loss of assets is a small asset, so naturally it is not something that makes people worry too much.

The only thing the two elders are worried about is that Xiaoyu has just become a newbie and has a young and energetic mentality. He never feels that he is inferior to anyone else. Everyone has passed this stage.

, he can naturally empathize and understand this situation. It is precisely because of this that he is worried that this setback will have a certain impact and blow on Xiaoyu's own confidence. If the other party's mentality is not as strong as imagined,

This blow may completely plunge the other party into a shadow. From then on, he will not be able to muster the courage to try any more in life. It can even be said that the spine of his manhood is suddenly broken before he wants to stand up again.

It's a very difficult thing.

It is precisely because of this concern that although the two of them did not ask about Xiaoyu's specific situation by phone, they would more or less subconsciously think of Xiaoyu's current situation on weekdays, and on the one hand, they would help each other.

Worrying, on the other hand, I also pray that the other person can be as strong as possible to face the setbacks in life, and use a more full attitude to deal with all the obstacles in life.