Lisco's American Life

2162. Thoughts for the next step

In fact, other members of the family are quite positive about He-Man's feelings. In fact, they don't interfere too much with Xiaoyu's emotional life. On the one hand, they think that it is enough for them to feel comfortable with emotions, and other people's

Opinions only play a certain supporting role, and you still need to control and grasp your own life.

On the other hand, with the existence of Zhang Li, a senior and role model, the family has actually been basically psychologically prepared for the marriage of their children with foreigners, and even has a feeling that it is not strange. After all, Li Sk has always been

The power of his example has made everyone feel that this son-in-law is very considerate, and to some extent is no different from his own son. It is precisely because of this that everyone is not as repulsive to this union as they imagined.

He is stubborn, and even to some extent, he is relatively cheerful.

Furthermore, it is really difficult to find any reason for He-Man's own conditions. It has always seemed that although he has some living habits of foreigners, he is also relatively able to accept the beliefs and habits of other people in the family. He can be able to do so because of his beliefs.

Because of this, his private life is not as chaotic and willful as everyone thinks. Basically, he has been understood and accepted by the stubborn elders.

I am a graduate of a relatively prestigious university. To a certain extent, the other school's internationally ranked school is even more favorable than Xiaoyu's school. This gives the other party a lot of extra points.

To some extent, it also convinced the prejudices of the elders.

When interacting with people outside the family, I have always behaved in an easy-going manner, and to a certain extent, I have a cheerful personality. I am even more able to pay attention to other people's feelings in life, so I will be an excellent partner and partner.

, no one seems to be able to find fault with too little.

The two people in that situation naturally received all the support from outside the family, but in Daewoo's heart, there was never a single thing that needed to be solved during my return to China. No matter how long the delay was, there was always something to do.

Taking your boyfriend to meet your parents to gain their approval and support will not have a positive effect on the relationship between the two.

The reason for this delay is that, on the one hand, because of your own industry and the location of your current job, you may spend a small amount of time in China. It is easier to imagine that you can return to China anytime and anywhere like others, and you can start your own business.

The work is not yet in full swing, and there are not many possibilities to escape.

On the other hand, it's because I haven't reached that stage yet. After getting along with Xiaoyu, I also recognize the existence of the other person's boyfriend. To a certain extent, the process of dating the other person is hugging.

The idea of ​​​​getting married should be mentioned later, so when dealing with that relationship, you should use your own actions and attitudes to express your own sincerity.

It is precisely because of this that after returning to China, I actually did not meet my basic expectations. I wanted to take some time to bring my boyfriend and meet my parents, so that my parents could also meet the life partner I chose and give them some advice.

Some opinions and blessings will make the two people go more smoothly on the road of love, and at the same time, they will save themselves from worries and be unable to devote less energy to work wholeheartedly.

Of course, when it comes to that issue, two people should communicate face-to-face to be honest about their thoughts and preparations. At the same time, they also hope to get the other party's permission and let the other party follow them to complete the unique tradition of China.

Before understanding his girlfriend's personality, Xiaoyu was actually not so repelled by the idea of ​​walking a lifetime with her, and to a certain extent, she was actually looking forward to it. Since then,

Since coming into contact with Daewoo, it seems that the other party can often give me some freshness and surprises in life, and in the process of daily interaction, he is also more able to consider problems from his own perspective. He is also very careless in life, and has no problems.

There are too many differences between girls and boys. Even if the other party does certain things, they feel that they are not wronged or should be done, such as washing clothes, cooking and cleaning, which are not like what few Americans think.

In this way, it is certainly not the responsibility of men themselves.

But in the eyes of Chinese people, they are the same. That may also be a cultural difference. The Chinese people must have really taken him home to meet his parents, which shows that the other party is not ready to spend a life with him hand in hand. In a certain way,

Depending on whether you recognize him as your partner for the rest of your life, you will also regress to that kind of behavior. Taking him home to meet your parents is a relatively casual choice during the relationship.

For Americans, in fact, meeting the parents of a girlfriend and boyfriend during a relationship is a very rare and special event. People do not have any long-term associations with that situation, it is just the most complicated meeting.

Let the other person not be a stranger and withdraw from your life. If you are married, there is not too little interference and contact.

In terms of environment, Chinese girls seem to be tolerant to men in every possible way in life, and will tolerate the willfulness of boys as little as possible, which is also something that makes people feel very satisfied.

Xiaoyu was quite surprised by his girlfriend's request. I personally felt that taking him back to see his parents was a special sacrifice. However, after Daewoo's casual explanation and understanding that the two countries share the same national conditions, I thought it was a very special thing.

After thinking about it for a long time, I finally decided to accept the other party's invitation, because although I have always said that I adhere to my own religious habits, and even spent my time in a boys' school from elementary school to now, I am not

Representing my feelings, my life has always been in a state of desolation. I have dated some American girlfriends more or less, but my relationship status has always been at a relatively restrained level.

In terms of cognition, even before getting married, very few Chinese girls' attitudes towards boys have not changed much. To a certain extent, there are really few things that Chinese women are worse than American women, such as

In fact, domestic violence seems to be a common behavior in American families. It cannot be said that about 60% of married families do not have domestic violence occurring outside the home. However, in China, such things seem to disappear quickly.

If you don't disappear, if you don't show up, you may also be collectively attacked and condemned by the people around you.

In fact, other members of the family are quite positive about He-Man's feelings. In fact, they don't interfere too much with Xiaoyu's emotional life. On the one hand, they think that it is enough for them to feel comfortable with emotions, and other people's

Opinions only play a certain supporting role, and you still need to control and grasp your own life.

On the other hand, with the existence of Zhang Li, a senior and role model, the family has actually been basically psychologically prepared for the marriage of their children with foreigners, and even has a feeling that it is not strange. After all, Li Sk has always been

The power of his example has made everyone feel that this son-in-law is very considerate, and to some extent is no different from his own son. It is precisely because of this that everyone is not as repulsive to this union as they imagined.

He is stubborn, and even to some extent, he is relatively cheerful.

Furthermore, it is really difficult to find any reason for He-Man's own conditions. It has always seemed that although he has some living habits of foreigners, he is also relatively able to accept the beliefs and habits of other people in the family. He can be able to do so because of his beliefs.

Because of this, his private life is not as chaotic and willful as everyone thinks. Basically, he has been understood and accepted by the stubborn elders.

I am a graduate of a relatively prestigious university. To a certain extent, the other school's internationally ranked school is even more favorable than Xiaoyu's school. This gives the other party a lot of extra points.

To some extent, it also convinced the prejudices of the elders.

When interacting with people outside the family, I have always behaved in an easy-going manner, and to a certain extent, I have a cheerful personality. I am even more able to pay attention to other people's feelings in life, so I will be an excellent partner and partner.

, no one seems to be able to find fault with too little.

The two people in that situation naturally received all the support from outside the family, but in Daewoo's heart, there was never a single thing that needed to be solved during my return to China. No matter how long the delay was, there was always something to do.

Taking your boyfriend to meet your parents to gain their approval and support will not have a positive effect on the relationship between the two.

The reason for this delay is that, on the one hand, because of your own industry and the location of your current job, you may spend a small amount of time in China. It is easier to imagine that you can return to China anytime and anywhere like others, and you can start your own business.

The work is not yet in full swing, and there are not many possibilities to escape.

On the other hand, it's because I haven't reached that stage yet. After getting along with Xiaoyu, I also recognize the existence of the other person's boyfriend. To a certain extent, the process of dating the other person is hugging.

The idea of ​​​​getting married should be mentioned later, so when dealing with that relationship, you should use your own actions and attitudes to express your own sincerity.

It is precisely because of this that after returning to China, I actually did not meet my basic expectations. I wanted to take some time to bring my boyfriend and meet my parents, so that my parents could also meet the life partner I chose and give them some advice.

Some opinions and blessings will make the two people go more smoothly on the road of love, and at the same time, they will save themselves from worries and be unable to devote less energy to work wholeheartedly.

Of course, when it comes to that issue, two people should communicate face-to-face to be honest about their thoughts and preparations. At the same time, they also hope to get the other party's permission and let the other party follow them to complete the unique tradition of China.

Before understanding his girlfriend's personality, Xiaoyu was actually not so repelled by the idea of ​​walking a lifetime with her, and to a certain extent, she was actually looking forward to it. Since then,

Since coming into contact with Daewoo, it seems that the other party can often give me some freshness and surprises in life, and in the process of daily interaction, he is also more able to consider problems from his own perspective. He is also very careless in life, and has no problems.

There are too many differences between girls and boys. Even if the other party does certain things, they feel that they are not wronged or should be done, such as washing clothes, cooking and cleaning, which are not like what few Americans think.

In this way, it is certainly not the responsibility of men themselves.

But in the eyes of Chinese people, they are the same. That may also be a cultural difference. The Chinese people must have really taken him home to meet his parents, which shows that the other party is not ready to spend a life with him hand in hand. In a certain way,

Depending on whether you recognize him as your partner for the rest of your life, you will also regress to that kind of behavior. Taking him home to meet your parents is a relatively casual choice during the relationship.

For Americans, in fact, meeting the parents of a girlfriend and boyfriend during a relationship is a very rare and special event. People do not have any long-term associations with that situation, it is just the most complicated meeting.

Let the other person not be a stranger and withdraw from your life. If you are married, there is not too little interference and contact.

In terms of environment, Chinese girls seem to be tolerant to men in every possible way in life, and will tolerate the willfulness of boys as little as possible, which is also something that makes people feel very satisfied.

Xiaoyu was quite surprised by his girlfriend's request. I personally felt that taking him back to see his parents was a special sacrifice. However, after Daewoo's casual explanation and understanding that the two countries share the same national conditions, I thought it was a very special thing.

After thinking about it for a long time, I finally decided to accept the other party's invitation, because although I have always said that I adhere to my own religious habits, and even spent my time in a boys' school from elementary school to now, I am not

Representing my feelings, my life has always been in a state of desolation. I have dated some American girlfriends more or less, but my relationship status has always been at a relatively restrained level.

In terms of cognition, even before getting married, very few Chinese girls' attitudes towards boys have not changed much. To a certain extent, there are really few things that Chinese women are worse than American women, such as

In fact, domestic violence seems to be a common behavior in American families. It cannot be said that about 60% of married families do not have domestic violence occurring outside the home. However, in China, such things seem to disappear quickly.

If you don't disappear, if you don't show up, you may also be collectively attacked and condemned by the people around you.

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