Lisco's American Life

Zhang's mother here is still busy in the kitchen, but Zhang Kui on the other side seems a little embarrassed sitting in the living room. On the one hand, she also wants to communicate with her son and ask him about his experience and knowledge abroad.

But on the other hand, I don’t know how to get along with my son. This may be a common problem of many Chinese fathers. They are relatively reserved and believe in the kind of silent fatherly love.

"Isn't your uncle's family very nice? Does he take good care of you outside? I called Xiaowei yesterday and said that he is still painting recently and may come back next month. Do you plan to leave in a few days?

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After looking at each other for a while on the sofa, the two men started chatting awkwardly, and the original atmosphere was gradually relieved during the communication process, and even gradually became more harmonious. In the process, Xi

Man had already changed into some clothes in the bedroom that were more suitable for the current weather and temperature. The clothes he wore back from Kyoto were already stained and greasy after the long journey.

"My uncle's family is very nice. When I left, I said I might come back next month to stay for a while. They also take good care of us outside. Whether it's Xiaowei or I, they take care of our lives in order every time. My sister is so kind.

I have been helping to take care of my sister for a while. I originally planned to come back with me, but something delayed me later, so I will come back with my uncle and his family next month. I still have a company in the United States, and I may be busy in a few days.

I can't stay at home all the time. I'll come back when I have time."

Xiaoyu also knew that this was a way for his father to care about him. Although he felt that that kind of communication was not a bit embarrassing, it was also because of the long separation. After a few words, he felt unfamiliar, and he would return to the intimacy after that.

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In fact, since before I became an adult, maybe because of my growth, my thoughts have quickly become independent, and I have communicated with my father more and more often. In addition, because the concepts and cognitions of the next two generations are the same, in fact,

There are some gaps, the views on some things are too similar, and the number of communications is increasing, it is difficult to return to the feeling of dependence and pampering that we had when we were growing up.

Yes, that is the price of growing up. In addition, his father always maintains such a majestic appearance, which makes people feel that he is not difficult to approach. Even so, he can still see his father from some things.

I still love myself more, but compared to mother's love, father's love seems a bit silent and loud, and he always expresses his emotions in some convenient places.

For example, when I first arrived in the United States, I was more worried about how I would adapt to life outside. I would also talk to my brother on the phone in private and accidentally about myself.

When starting a business, I always paid attention to my own progress and kept in touch with my sister. I was able to learn about my business plan and progress from the other party's sharing.

Some people even say that they are not yet ready to start their own business. After all, society is not as complicated as young people imagine. They are also worried that before young people succeed in starting their own business, they will not be able to succeed.

I have a feeling of excitement, and I am not ready yet. Funds will give me immediate support before I win, fill the vacancy, and at the same time give me the motivation to start a business plan. Those things are all what I have been told privately by people such as Dawei and others.

Because of his understanding of those things, he may have always known that his father was so concerned about his affairs behind his back.

"That's bad. They have grown up now, and you have helped with very few things. But don't put too much pressure on yourself. You have to dare to venture when you are young. It doesn't matter if you are a person. Our family has no property yet.

Yes, come back as soon as possible and give up your seat to him. The catering industry is still relatively prosperous, and he won't be able to take over if things get bad."

"This is bad, this is bad."

In fact, when it came to starting a business, did Daewoo have such stubbornness and importance as he imagined? It was originally because of his age, and he simply wanted to provide his life with fewer options that he could not choose.

"You know, Dad, starting a business is still relatively gloomy now. The later work is relatively smooth, and my brother-in-law also gave me a little help. Anyway, let's give it a try. If you succeed, it will be a big deal, and you will have a small amount of capital.

, just think of it as accumulating experience.”

It was just an attempt to take steps towards one's ideal. Success is certainly worthy of joy, but if you really win, you will suffer a small blow. Simply because you can bear the consequences of victory. , when I first started my business, my brother-in-law had not given me a guarantee, so I decided to go back to the construction company where I had just finished working and continue to get off work and gain experience. And I didn’t have an online store that I couldn’t trust. At the end of the day, the online store business is still in full swing. It can provide me with a fixed income of nearly tens of thousands of dollars every month, and I can also relax my living conditions without any disturbance because of starting a business. Being cowardly and trying is an important guarantee and confidence for a possible life.

But since the other party seems to be very unprepared for that matter now, and even breaks down before he is ready, he is sure how to deal with the consequences before he wins, which makes him look too stupid. It can be seen that Daewoo's

The answer still makes Zhang Kui feel very gratified. I have been paying attention to that kind of thing since before my son started his own business. I don’t pay too much attention to the funds that may be consumed by starting a business.

Too poor, but it would also appear to be too stingy in that matter. I am also going through that stage of my youth. I am sure if I had the courage to try to start a business at the beginning, it may not be as good as my life now, which is even more outstanding.

Step by step, I raise my children with human wages.

Because of this, I can actually understand my son's choice. But the only thing that worries me is not that young people may have experienced too little of the simplicity of society. In addition, my son, because since before he was born,

In fact, the living conditions outside home are not as difficult as one might imagine. The living conditions have always been smooth from childhood to childhood, and I have experienced too few setbacks. I am afraid of starting a business and encountering any difficulties.

When crossing the gap, you will receive a relatively small blow, which will affect the other party's previous abnormal life.

Because young people have more experience, their thoughts are actually relatively simple. When they encounter problems, their thinking methods are also more complicated. They are afraid that they will get into some corners and sidestep themselves. The person before them faced abnormalities.

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