Lisco's American Life

The news of Zhang You's 60th birthday has been well known to the whole family, and almost everyone treats this issue with a very serious and rigorous attitude. After all, for the elderly, 60 is almost a milestone in life, and 60 is almost a milestone in life.

Dashou even showed how much people valued him through his title.

It seems that everyone in the family is quietly busy during this time, preparing gifts for each other's 60th birthday. Everyone has their own ideas and concepts, and hopes to give gifts that express their own feelings and blessings to their elders.

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Adults are more capable of changing their way of thinking, but children have encountered their own problems on these issues. In the face of everyone, everyone has begun to prepare gifts and wait for the sunrise, and it can be seen from everyone's smiling faces.

, almost everyone's gift should be prepared with 10% novelty. When it was Xiaowei's turn, the other party had a hard time with this issue because he didn't know what kind of gift he should prepare, let alone

Know what range you should choose for gift giving.

Although he had some funds at his disposal, he did not have any channels to purchase some precious items. The things available on the market seemed a bit too vulgar. He did not know what kind of gift he should use to show off his wealth.

I have my own characteristics, so I approached my brother-in-law Lisko for help with this question, hoping to get some advice and guidance from him.

Since they met, whether it is Xiaoyu or Xiaowei, the two brothers and sisters are still relatively dependent on Lisko. They truly regard each other as their elder brothers and treat each other with great respect in life.

Be able to remember all the things the other person has done for you.

Therefore, when encountering difficulties, they will always subconsciously seek the blessing and help of the other party. This means in their hearts that they have regarded themselves as a complete family with Lisko. When you ask your family for help

When I asked for help, I didn't think it was a problem at all.

In fact, Lisko didn't have much idea about what kind of gift Xiaowei came to give. After thinking carefully for a while, he still gave his own pointers and guidance, because he felt that if he started from this direction, he should be able to

The other party is satisfied and can be so unique that no one else can give such a gift except him.

"Because you are still in school, in fact, there are not many requirements for elders of your age. It is enough for you to choose a gift that represents your own feelings. Don't think about it. Our choice must be expensive to reflect our specific thoughts.

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Indeed, Xiaowei fully accepted her brother-in-law's statement, because in the eyes of many people, she was just an out-and-out child who was in the stage of studying. So if she spent too much money to buy some expensive

Gifts are inherently putting the cart before the horse, and may even not be completely what you want when it comes to gift giving.

"You should think about this issue from a different angle. You need to know what your uncle wants most. At his age, in addition to hoping that everyone in the family will be healthy, everyone should have their own achievements and careers.

Besides, I just hope to see future generations perform better and better, and also have their own goals and ideals to pursue."

Because Zhang You is a relatively traditional patriarch. In his early years, because his father passed away very early, he has already shouldered the responsibility of the eldest brother as a father. He also used his own efforts to pull his brothers to slowly start a family and start a career. Although the brothers

His career has surpassed his own, but he does not have any jealousy. Instead, he is very happy and puts himself completely in his father's perspective to consider the problem.

For their age and the times they have gone through, sometimes they regard the concept of a family and the collective as very important, and even regard the two families that have been separated as part of each other.

When anyone in this family is in need of help, everyone can contribute their own strength to provide assistance. This is also the concept of the family, and it is also the way of survival that they have long engraved in their minds.

In that era, if a family could not unite, faced with complex social conditions, it would be easy to be bullied, or even suffer all kinds of oppression. When people with the same surname or blood, subconsciously gathered together

Working together to fight through the power of unity is a commonplace social rule.

It may be difficult for modern people to understand that in their time, if someone in a village was bullied, no matter whether the person was a married woman or a native of the same village, all people with the same surname in the same village would hold weapons to support the other person.

Fights between one village and another are common, and sometimes weapons are even used. This is the Chinese people's traditional rural consciousness and fellow villagers' friendship, which has been engraved in their bones for thousands of years.

"My thoughts are still like this, don't you know how to draw? You can draw a family portrait of our whole family through drawing, which can not only show your achievements in painting, but also satisfy the life of the whole family.

It is a very happy concept. This is a great idea. This gift does not cost much money and can represent your feelings. It should make the other party very satisfied."

There is a basis for Lisko's suggestion, because as early as a few years ago, Zhang You had thought of gathering the whole family together to take a family photo as a souvenir, because as the family expanded, the number of

There are more and more people, and even the third generation has been born. It is also very meaningful to have such a photo to show the strength of the family.

But because the whole family is always divided into several places, and everyone's time cannot be unified, this matter has been temporarily shelved, but I can feel that this is the regret of the other party.

Satisfying each other's wishes through painting should be a more meaningful thing. Compared with the scenes captured by the camera, this kind of painting should be more worthy of preservation.

After having this pointer and guidance, Xiaowei suddenly felt brighter, because for him, expressing his feelings in this way was indeed a very good idea. He immediately started to work towards everyone at home.

I personally asked for a photo, and then carefully laid out the canvas in the room, spending almost all my spare time on this matter. Although this kind of portrait painting experience is simply an entry-level difficulty for me.

, but he was more serious than any other work he made, and even devoted all his concentration to it.