Lisco's American Life

If you directly tell your daughter that the other party's grandmother may be away for a long time and will not be able to accompany the other party for the time being, and may not be able to see the other party at home for a period of time, this is definitely not a good idea for the baby.

The news may even cause immediate emotional discomfort to the other party, directly leading to crying.

But if you use other reasons to temporarily excuse the past, as time goes by, the other party will still discover the existence of this matter, and it will also destroy your relatively honest impression in the mind of your daughter. As a parent, in the process of educating your children

You must pay attention to the use of this method, because you are your child's best teacher. If you cannot ensure that you are very honest, it will be difficult to educate your daughter to be such a person.

"Grandma has something to do, so she's not at home for the time being. You finish your meal first, and dad will turn on the TV for you later."

I continued to think about it, and it was still temporary. I used these vague words to explain the other party's dynamics. I hope my daughter can forget this matter as soon as possible, and I also hope that the other party can adapt to life without grandma as soon as possible.

"No, I want grandma, I want grandma to play with me."

Speaking of which, Li Feng actually occupies a relatively important position in the baby's heart. From the time the baby was born, she seemed to have never left the baby's side. Every day, the baby can see that familiar and kind smiling face.

There was even a long period of time when the baby was very dependent on his grandma and slept next to her every day. The relationship with his grandma far exceeded the relationship with his parents.

In addition, Li Feng also dotes on the baby's behavior. Under normal circumstances, if the other party makes a mistake, he will use persuasion and education to avoid being as irritable as his own parents. If his daughter goes through several times,

After the instruction, there was still no change. Li Ke and Zhang Li, who had relatively low patience, were really good at punishing each other's butts mercilessly, using this painful method to make each other afraid of certain things.

"Grandma is not at home now. As long as you are obedient, grandma will come back to accompany the baby soon. But if you are disobedient, grandma will not like disobedient children."

Faced with his daughter's strong emotional opposition, Lisko didn't know what method to use to solve the current situation. Originally, when his mother-in-law left, he felt that coaxing the child would not have much impact on his life.

trouble, and I may be taking over the care of the children these days, and then there will be a maid to help take care of the child. With so many people accompanying me, I can face any situation with ease.

In addition, children are getting older and older. Generally, they don’t need to take care of each other. It is enough to just pay attention to each other and not do any dangerous work or attempts. Today’s babies are basically able to complete the tasks alone.

The fun of playing. Even the way of playing for self-entertainment is much more complicated than that of adults. Even if you just hold a doll and mutter to yourself, you can spend a happy afternoon. So in this case, take care of the children.

It doesn't seem to be an overly difficult task.

It was precisely because of this idea that he still felt that he underestimated his ability in response to the other party's inquiries and doubts before leaving. However, when he faced his daughter who asked her 100,000 reasons over and over again, it was indeed

It also made his head very big.

"No, I just want my grandma. Where is my grandma? I want to find my grandma."

Perhaps because he saw his father's emotions and response were a little intense, the baby subconsciously dodged back, and then sat alone in the corner of the sofa and kept repeating these contents, over and over again, as if he was under a spell.

Being around Lisko's ears even made him feel like he had a splitting head all the time.

I am a quiet person. When I get along with my daughter on weekdays, I don’t notice that the other person’s lifestyle is like gossiping. Maybe when the other person lives with her grandmother, her grandmother can tolerate these shortcomings infinitely, but in this situation

When facing his father, he still unconsciously reveals his original habits and preferences. Seeing that the other person seems to be angry, he seems to be very aggrieved, and his original eyes slowly turn red.

After a while, his big eyes kept streaming down from the corners of his eyes.

"Don't cry. Grandma doesn't like children who like to cry. If you don't cry, grandma will come back in a while. But if you want to cry, grandma won't care about you. You sit on the sofa and dad will get it for you."

Would you like some snacks? Are you a cookie person or a candy person? Do you want to find your toys for you, and daddy will take you out to buy something?"

Although I am suppressed in my heart and have some thoughts of getting angry, I really don’t have many solutions when it comes to children. I can only use temptation as much as possible to calm my daughter’s fluctuating emotions, hoping that the other party can

Get out of this emotion as soon as possible.

But every suggestion he made was rejected by his daughter, who immediately shook his head. No matter if he was holding the biscuits or candies that the other party liked to eat, or even some fruits that he usually liked to eat, he still couldn't attract any of the other party's attention. It seemed that

He must devote himself wholeheartedly to the work of finding grandma. Before he gets the answer he wants, he will not make any changes. He will be like an angry calf, sitting angrily in the corner, crying and calling for grandma.

name.

"Then just cry. Daddy doesn't want to care about you anymore. Daddy is so tired. I want to sit here and watch TV. What's on TV? This cartoon is really nice."

Lisko really didn't have any good solutions to his crying and troublesome daughter. He used almost all the methods he knew, but there was still no change. He had to vent his emotions angrily,

While turning on the TV in front of me, I quickly found the anime my daughter usually likes. While watching it, I still used words to seduce the other person.

I have to say that this trick is indeed somewhat useful. The baby was still immersed in the panic of not being able to find his grandma, but as the familiar music came from the TV, he unconsciously focused his attention and energy on it.

Watching the news on TV, although the circles under his eyes were still red, his crying appearance had gradually been curbed.

By the end of almost 10 minutes, I had completely forgotten the idea of ​​looking for my grandma. I could even crack my mouth along with the plot on TV and smile with my teeth exposed. It seemed that I had temporarily overcome this difficulty.

But when it breaks out again next time, I need to find new ways to face this situation. As an old father, I really feel a little tired.

If you directly tell your daughter that the other party's grandmother may be away for a long time and will not be able to accompany the other party for the time being, and may not be able to see the other party at home for a period of time, this is definitely not a good idea for the baby.

The news may even cause immediate emotional discomfort to the other party, directly leading to crying.

But if you use other reasons to temporarily excuse the past, as time goes by, the other party will still discover the existence of this matter, and it will also destroy your relatively honest impression in the mind of your daughter. As a parent, in the process of educating your children

You must pay attention to the use of this method, because you are your child's best teacher. If you cannot ensure that you are very honest, it will be difficult to educate your daughter to be such a person.

"Grandma has something to do, so she's not at home for the time being. You finish your meal first, and dad will turn on the TV for you later."

I continued to think about it, and it was still temporary. I used these vague words to explain the other party's dynamics. I hope my daughter can forget this matter as soon as possible, and I also hope that the other party can adapt to life without grandma as soon as possible.

"No, I want grandma, I want grandma to play with me."

Speaking of which, Li Feng actually occupies a relatively important position in the baby's heart. From the time the baby was born, she seemed to have never left the baby's side. Every day, the baby can see that familiar and kind smiling face.

There was even a long period of time when the baby was very dependent on his grandma and slept next to her every day. The relationship with his grandma far exceeded the relationship with his parents.

In addition, Li Feng also dotes on the baby's behavior. Under normal circumstances, if the other party makes a mistake, he will use persuasion and education to avoid being as irritable as his own parents. If his daughter goes through several times,

After the instruction, there was still no change. Li Ke and Zhang Li, who had relatively low patience, were really good at punishing each other's butts mercilessly, using this painful method to make each other afraid of certain things.

"Grandma is not at home now. As long as you are obedient, grandma will come back to accompany the baby soon. But if you are disobedient, grandma will not like disobedient children."

Faced with his daughter's strong emotional opposition, Lisko didn't know what method to use to solve the current situation. Originally, when his mother-in-law left, he felt that coaxing the child would not have much impact on his life.

trouble, and I may be taking over the care of the children these days, and then there will be a maid to help take care of the child. With so many people accompanying me, I can face any situation with ease.

In addition, children are getting older and older. Generally, they don’t need to take care of each other. It is enough to just pay attention to each other and not do any dangerous work or attempts. Today’s babies are basically able to complete the tasks alone.

The fun of playing. Even the way of playing for self-entertainment is much more complicated than that of adults. Even if you just hold a doll and mutter to yourself, you can spend a happy afternoon. So in this case, take care of the children.

It doesn't seem to be an overly difficult task.

It was precisely because of this idea that he still felt that he underestimated his ability in response to the other party's inquiries and doubts before leaving. However, when he faced his daughter who asked her 100,000 reasons over and over again, it was indeed

It also made his head very big.

"No, I just want my grandma. Where is my grandma? I want to find my grandma."

Perhaps because he saw his father's emotions and response were a little intense, the baby subconsciously dodged back, and then sat alone in the corner of the sofa and kept repeating these contents, over and over again, as if he was under a spell.

Being around Lisko's ears even made him feel like he had a splitting head all the time.

I am a quiet person. When I get along with my daughter on weekdays, I don’t notice that the other person’s lifestyle is like gossiping. Maybe when the other person lives with her grandmother, her grandmother can tolerate these shortcomings infinitely, but in this situation

When facing his father, he still unconsciously reveals his original habits and preferences. Seeing that the other person seems to be angry, he seems to be very aggrieved, and his original eyes slowly turn red.

After a while, his big eyes kept streaming down from the corners of his eyes.

"Don't cry. Grandma doesn't like children who like to cry. If you don't cry, grandma will come back in a while. But if you want to cry, grandma won't care about you. You sit on the sofa and dad will get it for you."

Would you like some snacks? Are you a cookie person or a candy person? Do you want to find your toys for you, and daddy will take you out to buy something?"

Although I am suppressed in my heart and have some thoughts of getting angry, I really don’t have many solutions when it comes to children. I can only use temptation as much as possible to calm my daughter’s fluctuating emotions, hoping that the other party can

Get out of this emotion as soon as possible.

But every suggestion he made was rejected by his daughter, who immediately shook his head. No matter if he was holding the biscuits or candies that the other party liked to eat, or even some fruits that he usually liked to eat, he still couldn't attract any of the other party's attention. It seemed that

He must devote himself wholeheartedly to the work of finding grandma. Before he gets the answer he wants, he will not make any changes. He will be like an angry calf, sitting angrily in the corner, crying and calling for grandma.

name.

"Then just cry. Daddy doesn't want to care about you anymore. Daddy is so tired. I want to sit here and watch TV. What's on TV? This cartoon is really nice."

Lisko really didn't have any good solutions to his crying and troublesome daughter. He used almost all the methods he knew, but there was still no change. He had to vent his emotions angrily,

While turning on the TV in front of me, I quickly found the anime my daughter usually likes. While watching it, I still used words to seduce the other person.

I have to say that this trick is indeed somewhat useful. The baby was still immersed in the panic of not being able to find his grandma, but as the familiar music came from the TV, he unconsciously focused his attention and energy on it.

Watching the news on TV, although the circles under his eyes were still red, his crying appearance had gradually been curbed.

By the end of almost 10 minutes, I had completely forgotten the idea of ​​looking for my grandma. I could even crack my mouth along with the plot on TV and smile with my teeth exposed. It seemed that I had temporarily overcome this difficulty.

But when it breaks out again next time, I need to find new ways to face this situation. As an old father, I really feel a little tired.