Lisko’s American Life

"When did it happen? Why haven't you heard of it?"

Lisko frowned in surprise, and turned his eyes to Zhang Li, carefully recalling the memories in his mind. Qu Qing hadn't come to the castle to meet his best friend for more than a month. Originally, Lisko thought that It's because I just settled down in another place and there are too many things to deal with, so I'm a little bit at a loss. I didn't expect that the iron tree blossomed and fell in love.

"Just told me a week ago, we were still in Berlin at the time, and we had a brief chat when we sent me a celebratory text message. We made an appointment at that time, and I would tell her as soon as I got back to the castle. I forgot about it in a hurry, but I have sent her a notification message just now, if there is no accident, I will definitely come to the door tomorrow during the day."

While talking, Zhang Li stood up and lowered the heating level in the room. To be honest, the room was too hot. Even wearing a thin sweater, she felt slightly sweaty.

"The two of them seem to have met when they shared a table in a restaurant. Originally, they just left a phone number for each other out of politeness. Unexpectedly, they began to communicate with each other later. Slowly, the conversation became more and more speculative. The news that was confirmed not long ago .”

"That's good. If everything goes well, she will definitely stay in this city and you will be able to communicate frequently. The profession of a lawyer is still very good. Although it may be a bit hard in the early stage, if you make it If you don’t, it’s still a very stable job in this country.”

Li Ke touched his chin, and shared his views with Zhang Li. The two of them are like an ordinary couple in an ordinary family. At night, they share the latest news from their circle of friends. and anecdotes.

"By the way, she is still preparing to buy a ranch. It just so happens that our ranch needs to expand recently, and we plan to buy a few nearby ranches. By the way, let her see if there is any suitable one."

Lisko seemed to think of something suddenly. To be honest, when Qu Qing first asked him to help find some pastures, Lisko was also very concerned, but later because the other party's vision was too picky, he offered her A few good choices were picked out with a lot of flaws. Later, they simply entrusted this matter to David to deal with, and he seldom talked about it.

After all, the other party is one of the few best friends of his wife. To be honest, Zhang Li and himself live in this foreign country, because there are relatively few people to associate with, and they are still relatively lonely on weekdays. If Qu Qing succeeds in this place Once they settle down, Zhang Li will have someone to go shopping and chat with every day.

"I didn't ask her about this, anyway, won't she come tomorrow? Then you can ask her directly."

Lisko thought about it again, and it was indeed this reason that he simply changed the subject and stopped talking about the other party's affairs.

In the following time, the husband and wife began to completely open up the chatterbox. Anyway, there is nothing to do left and right, so they have to spend this long night with their daughter, chatting to pass the time, and still feel happy be quick.

To be honest, since they got married, the two of them seem to seldom have this kind of communication. Everyday life is either this trivial matter at home or another trivial matter, and most of the topics they talk about are focused on children, such as It is said that the baby has learned to speak, the baby will call mom and dad, what did the baby do today, or various other trivial things.

It seems that the only bond that maintains the relationship between the husband and wife is their own daughter. They even feel that they have lost the passion and warmth when they were in love, but after the exchange tonight, they can't help but return to the sweet atmosphere before.

Perhaps because of the emotion, Zhang Li also vomited bitterness to her husband, telling him the discomfort in his life and the habits that need to be corrected in the married life.

And Lisko is also listening to the other party's sharing very carefully, intending to keep these things that he didn't notice on weekdays in his heart, and start to make changes and adjustments in the next few days, so that the two people can get along more harmoniously. comfortable.

After talking to each other, everyone feels extremely comfortable and happy in their hearts. Husband and wife should have this kind of dialogue from time to time. After all, for individual human beings, everyone has their own habits and personality traits. Just like no two identical leaves can ever be found in the world, each person is like a stone with edges and corners. When combined with another stone, one end may coincide with another end without edges and corners.

Then in the following life, with the continuous rotation of the stone, there will definitely be a situation where edges and corners meet edges and corners. If there is no accident, quarrels and boredom will occur. Many couples end up in divorce, and most of them are For this reason.

But if you are willing to adjust and change for each other, and keep rounding your edges and corners, two people will be able to fit together perfectly, and go all the way to the end of life together. This is the ordinary life that everyone dreams of having. .

And through the channel of calm conversation, you can clearly understand yourself, the image in the eyes of the other half and the places that need to be corrected, and constantly adjust your behavior, which will have a very significant role in promoting the relationship between two people and their married life.

The most important thing in interpersonal communication is communication and exchange. You think he will understand some words, but in fact, no one is a roundworm in someone's stomach. How can you know another person well and completely grasp the other person's mind? Woolen cloth?

Only by pouring out the backlog of words in your heart, so that the other party can hear your demands and ideas, will the other half realize what needs to be changed.

Moreover, through this kind of confidant communication, the depression accumulated in the heart can also be swayed, and the occurrence of depression can be avoided. Only after you have really communicated do you know that you have so many inappropriate actions in your life.

For example, some boys are always careless in life, like to roll up their clothes and throw them into the closet, but this kind of behavior is very annoying to the wife, a few reminders, but you still don’t care, There will definitely be a backlog of flames in the heart, and finally a quarrel that cannot be extricated will be brewed.

There are many similar things. For example, I don’t like to cover the cup when I drink water, or I don’t put the used things in the original place and throw them away at will, or I like to watch videos or watch dramas with the voice on before going to bed, etc. wait wait wait.