Lisko’s American Life

"If she complains, she will sue. What can she do? Although she is her grandma, it is my mother's fault anyway. What can she do to me?"

Although he has already realized that the situation is not good, Zhang Li will not show any begging expression on his face, and even pretends to be calm, at least not to let his husband see any possible timidity.

Although Li Feng is his mother, but Xiao Fulan is also the granddaughter of the other party's blood, and the degree of attention is much higher than that of her married daughter.

Even when there was a conflict between the two parties, the mother definitely did not hesitate to stand on the perspective and position of little Fran, even as if she was not her biological daughter at all.

Although this kind of thing sometimes makes Zhang Li a little helpless, it can be easily understood from a reasonable point of view. In addition, his daughter is also his own, so there is no reason for this kind of thing.

You can't stop your mother from loving her daughter, or stop her daughter from getting close to her grandmother. This is completely nonsense.

As the husband who knows his wife best, Liske is naturally very clear that the other party is just pretending in front of him, and it can even be said that he has done completely useless work, but as the simplest way for couples to get along, he will definitely not speak out, because this Obviously, it will lead to harmony in one's family life. One of the most important truths in life is to know what is appropriate and what is rare to be confused.

"Of course, you are my own daughter, so naturally I will be on your side, and I will definitely be on your side. After all, we are the first to know each other, and we are more familiar with each other than daughters." too much."

After listening to Lisko's words, not only did Zhang Li not feel that he had been comforted, but he rolled his eyes helplessly. After all, every example given by the other party was completely different from his own cognition.

Among other things, although she is Li Feng's biological daughter, she spends a lot of time on the attitude towards the child, and the mother's paranoid and doting are completely out of her control.

And the husband said that he would stand on the same front with himself in this matter, and they have become husband and wife, so they are naturally very familiar with each other. , The other party is still an out-and-out daughter slave.

Just now, the other party's performance has shown his thoughts to the fullest. Zhang Li no longer expects to choose between his daughter and himself, and his husband will favor his side.

At this time, Zhang Li's emotions were very complicated. He firmly believed that there was nothing wrong with him. After all, from the standpoint of fairness and fairness, there must be nothing wrong with what he did, and he could even be raised by others. Thumbs up, children need to adjust their education methods in time to make them realize what they can do and what they can't do.

But my mother doesn't think so. The identity of mother will bring conflicting feelings to people. If you let others do something that is very self-defeating, then the evaluation you will get from your mother must be I don't know the heights of the sky and the earth, the starting point of the young man's consideration of the problem is a bit too taken for granted. valley

But if this thing is done by your own children, then you will naturally get the best evaluation and encouragement. Even if the final outcome is a failure, it is equally outstanding and excellent in the eyes of the mother. At least your children have The quality of pursuit and bravery.

In this attitude, not only Zhang You himself is like this, but even all mothers seem to have an extremely unified attitude.

Taking up the impression of his parents, Zhang Li felt that he was still partial to his mother, although in the past it seemed that his mother always smiled and laughed, while his father looked a little cold-faced, even very majestic, which made everyone feel afraid .

But in fact, as the only child in the family, Zhang Li understood at a very early stage that he basically reads words and looks, and can clearly know who is the most vulnerable person in the family to be breached. You will find a place of safety where you can protect yourself.

As for my mother, although she looks smiling on weekdays, and even looks like a kind mother in front of many outsiders, she always sticks to her bottom line when it comes to the education of her children, and will not Those who easily make any compromises and concessions, even if they are arguing with their own mother or other elders, can still reject all the words of intercession in a reasonable manner.

It is really thanks to my mother's education method that I was able to prevent myself from growing unscrupulously arrogant no matter whether it was rebellious period or adolescence, and slowly emerged from the current picture of intellectual and elegant personality and temperament,

However, these bottom lines that had always been adhered to, seemed to have completely lost their effect when they met this only granddaughter, and even made Zhang Li feel that he looked at his mother a little strangely, because she was becoming the grandmother in her memory. , no matter how much disaster the child has caused or what mistakes he has made, the first choice he makes is to cover up and be warm.

This change of attitude made Zhang Li and everyone in the family feel that it is not easy to understand and accept. After all, no matter how much you love children, the most basic right and wrong should be taught to the other party in time to identify clearly, because from the starting point we can see In other words, it seems that I and these people have very similar and unified ideas, and they all start with the standpoint of making the baby better and better.

Unknowingly, Li Feng is moving towards the sphere of influence of the type of group that he often complained about in the past, and he is even slowly becoming a member of the other party. dragon.

On the other hand, Zhang You and Li Feng are two completely different types. Although he looks a little majestic on the outside, in the eyes of the children, he is all a fake, and his heart is the most easily softened existence in the whole family, and the most It is easy to open the breakthrough of the defense line.

It may be because Zhang Li is the only child in the family, so her father has replaced her fantasies about the best parents in the world for a long time. No matter what the daughter wants to do or ask for, the other party will immediately Find a way to satisfy my daughter, even if I fail to do it for a while, I will keep this matter in my heart, and I will continue to study and develop in order to make my daughter happy and satisfied later.

And no matter what the mood was at the time, as long as Zhang Li hugged his father's arm and shook it a few times, his attitude would immediately become soft, and he would even step into the sweet trap carefully woven by his daughter with a smile on his face. Not as shrewd and astute as in previous jobs.

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