Lisko’s American Life

Under Li Feng's benevolent gaze, Li Sko rubbed his nose, embarrassingly told all the problems that he and Zhang Li had encountered so far, and at the same time made a look of anticipation, ready to listen to this elder Be able to give your own suggestions and solutions, so that the atmosphere of the whole family can return to the previous state.

After all, both Li Ke and Zhang Li are the first to talk about married life, and some difficulties and ignorance are understandable.

Li Ke once saw a sentence in a work, and felt that it is really applicable to the current married life, that is, each person is like an independent and completely different stone since birth, and each person has different edges and corners Similarly, one side may be convex and the other may be concave, or one side may be concave and the other may be convex, or even the left and right sides may be full of protrusions.

These bumps not only represent the shining points, personality, temper, cognition and world view of each person, but also represent each person's unique personality and characteristics. They are the main differences that distinguish humans from animals.

The process of married life is just a kind of experience stage in which two people polish their edges and corners smoothly during the process of getting along. Where it feels more tormented and struggling, when both of them are polished and smooth, just enough to fit the gap perfectly together, then they can maintain the relationship between husband and wife for a long time.

After listening to Lisko's question, Li Feng's first reaction was that her daughter seemed a little too pretentious. Not only did he not feel cherished and thoughtful about all the life he had now, but he had some small tempers of his own.

It may be because of family planning at the beginning, Li Feng and Zhang You have only one daughter Zhang Li's descendant in this life, so although they treat their daughter harshly in daily life, their love for her daughter comes from the bottom of their hearts.

Unless it involves some serious issues of principle, both of them will cover up some small things, which also represents the parents' pampering and concern for their children.

Now Li Feng felt that there might be something wrong with his teaching method, otherwise how could he develop his daughter's artificial character. It would be fine if he just played Xiaoxiuzi in front of himself and Zhang You, but now Zhang Li's identity has changed from an ignorant little girl to a wife of a family, wife of a family, and mother of a child. And such an immature, even extremely childish idea, is indeed a bit too delicate.

Even though he knew that these things were the reason for his daughter's petty temper, Li Feng couldn't help feeling a little apologetic from the bottom of his heart when facing his son-in-law Li Ke who was about to listen to his opinion.

When Li Ke and Zhang Li had just confirmed their relationship, Li Feng was actually full of worries and worries. There was a saying in the ancients that it was good to call it a good match.

If the disparity in the status and status of the two people is too great, it may be because they have seen different worlds, resulting in some different topics, and it can even be said that there is no place to communicate at all.

Maybe one party is chatting about romance, and the other party is chatting about people in Chin. There may be no estrangement for a while, but these are all the results of curiosity. When the estrangement really comes out, it will cause an incomparably large rift, and even the relationship between the two people will be broken again. There is no way to go back to the previous state.

Gu Liao

In the process of communication between men and women, it seems that most of the hurt and disadvantaged are women. After losing their youth and some emotions, they get feedback all over their bodies.

Men, on the other hand, can quickly regain their spirits after being frustrated at the beginning. In many markets where men and women interact, older men have some advantages.

To use a very simple example, a man in his 30s finds a partner who is 18 years old. Maybe everyone will praise him for his superb skills and his outstanding performance, but there is no place to criticize him too much.

But if the example of this matter is transferred to a woman, a woman in her 30s finds an 18-year-old young man, the first thought in everyone's mind is that this woman must have used unknown means to coerce the other party , It may even be a series of not-so-good words such as deception and abduction to instill in the other party.

This is not only the prejudice and unfair perception of women in the whole society and all groups, but also the real reality of the world and society.

Li Fengsheng is afraid that if the relationship between the two does not go very smoothly, not only will her daughter be hurt in the end, but her youth will even be wasted in vain. After all, there are only a few years when women can gain the advantage of everyone's attention. This is a true story. Questions that really need to be considered.

In addition, the understanding of Risco was not very deep at the beginning, so it could be said that he was completely unfamiliar. He only heard that the other party was engaged in the profession of a writer, and even his wealth could be regarded as a rich man.

In other words, when any parent hears that their daughter is dating this kind of person, the first thought is that they are afraid that their daughter will be hurt by the other party. The word rich has always represented confusion and extravagance, although the standard of living may be very rich. generous. But not everyone who marries into a wealthy family can live such a happy life.

In the eyes of many elderly people, the name of a writer represents a high spirited spirit, but at the same time, it is also mixed with some guesses and evaluations of private life or labels of inherent impressions.

When the two words were instilled into a person, an extremely three-dimensional image immediately appeared in Li Feng's mind, which was not so friendly to Lisko's senses, and even slightly picky.

However, these emotions will not be directly expressed through the face and daily life. After all, Lisko is also a rich man, and his family is just the most ordinary common people. Offending this kind of person may lead to a peaceful life. will be greatly affected.

In the days that followed, Li Feng was always in this state of worry, but during the day, he was always very polite and reserved with Lisko, and it could even be said to be flattering, just hoping that even if the two of them could not be normal They can walk together together, and they can also separate properly and normally, without angering the rich man, and finally taking revenge on his daughter because of love and hatred.

This kind of thinking may seem very funny to others, and it can even be said to be completely ridiculous, but for Li Feng, an old man who has never been abroad in his life, it is really the most real feeling and thought in his mind.