Lisko’s American Life

Although Li Ke's eyes were full of praise for his daughter during this time, Zhang Li wanted to express something other than this, so he immediately changed the topic.

"Do you think I should find a job to do it? At least I live a regular life every day. Now I eat and sleep every day, and I feel like a pig, and there is a job that can make my life Be in a better mood, instead of feeling like a bitch looking for your mistakes every day."

When Zhang Li talked about this topic, he was half teasing and half serious, and he kept observing his husband's face while talking, hoping to be able to detect the most sincere thoughts deep in his heart at the first time.

To be honest, holding back at home every day during this period of time has indeed caused a great burden to Zhang Li. This kind of life feels very comfortable and peaceful at first, but maintaining this state for a long time will make a person's original ambition The aspirations gradually became peaceful, after all, this kind of hermit-like life is not liked by everyone.

Moreover, women like to think wildly. If there is no job to release their energy that has nowhere to rest, she will turn her attention to the inside of the family, looking for her husband's actions that make her feel inappropriate and never before. Don't care about the little details.

This is why those families with dual-careers often have a relatively peaceful living atmosphere, while those with single-career families often have great contradictions and differences.

Women will feel that they are very tired from working and living at home, and even the invisible pressure makes them physically and mentally exhausted. After a day of working outside, what men want most is a quiet environment where they can let themselves go. It's not that the wife is nagging in her ears about her difficulties.

If this kind of life is maintained for a long time, it will naturally cause many differences in marriage, and it will also unconsciously accumulate a lot of resentment, which will cause cracks in the originally peaceful family and marriage, and even love.

Regarding this issue, although Lisko has not personally experienced it, he has also seen similar analysis and profound dissection from books. Naturally, such things will not happen in their family, because the housemaids are completely taken care of by the maids, and Li Feng will also be on the side to tutor the children, and Zhang Li has a lot of freedom, he can do whatever he wants things to do.

But even so, maintaining a regular and unchanged life every day will indeed wear down Zhang Li's expectations for marriage and the sweetness of love in the long run. In fact, Li Sko had similar considerations about this issue long ago. He is a person who likes to stay at home very much, but he cannot require everyone to have the same hobbies and likes as him.

However, his previous expectation for Zhang Li was to take over the family's charity foundation. The work he needs to do every day is to help those people who may have difficulties in different places. This kind of work seems very meaningful and full of sense of mission, but But it is not suitable for Zhang Li now, because she always needs to be by her daughter's side, and she can't just leave the house and go to those poor areas for a week, which will undoubtedly cause great damage to the original state of the family. Influence.

It is for this reason that this proposal has been put on hold for the time being, and similar discussions and discussions will be held after the daughter grows up.

But now that his wife brought up this issue, Lisko felt very keenly that the other party's thinking must have changed, perhaps because of some external influence, which made her want to change this very peaceful life.

"I think it's very good. If there is something you want to do or like to do, then let it go. As long as you don't leave home too far, you can eat and rest at home every day. I think it is possible for our lives. It won't have much of an impact."

Lisko responded to his wife's inquiry with a smile, and at the same time clasped the other's palm with both hands, hoping to give the other party support and a strength of faith in this way.

He is not the old-fashioned kind of person. Whether it is the information bombardment he has encountered in his previous life or his freshmen, he has adapted to life in the new era, and the thoughts in his mind have no overlap with that kind of old-fashioned person.

And as a top rich man, he doesn't think his wife's going out to work is a blow to his face. On the contrary, he thinks that since he loves someone, he should let the other person find something in his life that he can exist and feel meaningful. Instead of putting all your attention on yourself or the family, this is too strict and demanding for your wife.

What's more important is that with the busy work, Zhang Li's smile and happiness should also increase, and even being able to enjoy it every day is a perfect thing.

If it was the former Lisko, he might not have such an idea, but similar things are happening around him realistically. For example, the wife of the rooster will come to the ranch every day to do a part-time job in order not to earn a lot of money. Instead, I can find some familiar and like-minded people every day to pass some time and adjust my emotions.

Another example is Colt's wife, Golly, who is busy with her flower shop every day. Walking on the road, people look at her from a distance and feel that she is a confident woman with a beautiful family and a good job. What’s more, what you do is also what you like very much and makes you feel happy. Going home with a relaxed and happy mood will also make the family atmosphere extremely harmonious.

With so many obvious examples appearing in front of his eyes, Lisko naturally would not have any objections to his wife's desire to work, but was more than happy to give her support and confidence in her beliefs.

"Do you really think so?"

Originally, Zhang Li thought that to convince his husband would require a long verbal confrontation, and he had already organized the words of argument in his mind, but he did not expect that the matter was so easy and simple. It was fully approved by the other party, and even made her feel a little surprised and puzzled when she accepted it.

"Of course! No matter what you want to do, I will stand on your side."

After confirming with Lisko again, Zhang Li even jumped up happily in the whole study room, and the silver bell-like laughter spread throughout the room, which could be heard just from the crisp laughter each other's joy and happiness.

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