Lisko’s American Life

Regarding how to get along with his wife and how to maintain the harmony of the family, Lisko can only be regarded as having just learned about it, and has just passed the threshold. There are too many things to learn from his old man, and also to learn. Watching the other party use this attitude to maintain the family atmosphere and daily relationship as much as possible.

In fact, many people think that if they want to ensure a stable and harmonious marriage, they only need to find a marriage partner that they love or love themselves, and that is the end of the matter, but you must know that everyone has their own unique personality characteristics before marriage. And the way of marriage is to make two people full of their own corners and stones, and become more and more smooth in the process of getting along and friction, so that each other just becomes the piece that the other lacks, and the two people can fit together perfectly to form a relationship. A complete pattern is the best way to ensure that this relationship lasts for a long time.

Although Li Ke and Zhang Li have not had any major problems in the way they get along in their marriage, Li Ke himself feels that this way of getting along is not suitable for the two of them in their daily lives. The reason why there were no more intense quarrels and some places where the views were weak was because both of them were relatively restrained, and they deliberately maintained the harmony between the two.

However, the way these two people get along with each other cannot be maintained for a long time. It is obvious that relying on everyone's mutual concessions to ensure that the married life of the two people goes smoothly is not a long-term solution, so Li Sko also I urgently hope to find a different way of getting along so that the married life of the two can become more harmonious and harmonious.

And in this process of learning and slowly turning around, any family that can guarantee a long-term marriage is the predecessor he learns from, and almost everyone is his goal, and he can hope to learn some experience from the other party's way of getting along The income, so that I can find a way that is more suitable for me.

In fact, many people think that in the relationship between husband and wife and family, two people become more harmonious is the prerequisite to ensure a long-term marriage, but in fact, in Lisko's view, this may not be the case. I believe that people who have been married I have all had a deep experience. In the family relationship mode, only when the woman feels happy can the relationship between the two become more harmonious. If the woman herself has some thoughts about this marriage or it is not so Happy, maybe the number of conflicts between two people is far more than usual.

Almost every man is looking for a mode of getting along with his wife that is more harmonious. In this mode of getting along, his wife becomes less stubborn on some issues, the wife is in a happy mood, and the life of the whole family becomes better. There is a lot of harmony, but if you make the other party feel unhappy, you can have countless conflicts with the other party whether it is eating, resting, or every part of your daily life at home.

After having this idea, Lisko will try his best to observe the relationship between the father-in-law and the mother-in-law in a quiet manner in the following life. He found that no matter what mistakes the old man made, even if There are many ways to do things that are not as expected by my mother-in-law, but I can always use a very relaxed attitude to make the other party not care about this matter at all.

Men, in life, always appear careless, and not only are not as refined as women, but even appear extraordinarily reckless in some places. This attitude is worthy of reprimand and refutation in the eyes of many girls, but Zhang You can do it No matter what choices and decisions he makes, Li Feng can support him willingly. This attitude and way of getting along really makes the lawyer feel envious.

Moreover, when Zhang You encounters some problems, he will always adopt some extremely humorous methods to dispel the resentment and other emotions in his wife's heart. You must know that when women encounter some problems, most of them will lose their sanity and completely lose their minds. Driving one's actions with anger, this is also the specific source of many conflicts in the relationship between couples.

However, Zhang You adopted this method to temporarily calm down his wife when encountering problems. After the anger in her heart was really cooled, the whole person's rationality was restored to his own mind, and the way of looking at the problem was also changed. Changes will occur. Most conflicts and quarrels are provoked by temporary anger and lack of careful thinking. When the problem is resolved, the number of quarrels that can occur is very small.

The other party's way of dealing with problems has also benefited Liske a lot. In fact, in the relationship between Liske and Zhang Li, there will definitely be some situations where opinions are competing, but both of them restrained their emotions very much. Once such signs appear, they will choose a solution to temporarily cool down the problem. Compared with the solution of two people, it seems that Zhang You's solution is more sophisticated. Not only will it not destroy the impression of each other in the minds of the two people, It is also possible to let the other party understand that each other understands and tolerates each other in this way.

In fact, after this period of getting along, Li Ke also discovered many problems between himself and Zhang Li. It may be because the way of getting along with Zhang Li was relatively safe at the beginning, and many problems burst out in an instant after the marriage. Failure to find a suitable solution to the problem may also make the two people get along very contradictory and awkward.

The biggest problem between the two people may be because of the unequal status. Many times, Zhang Li can't treat Lisko like an ordinary couple. On the one hand, it is because the wealth of the other party's family and the assets he owns It was far beyond what I had expected. On the other hand, it was also because the social status of the two parties was not equal. In the eyes of many people, Lisko was a genius writer who knows how to get enough and also has a superb investment talent.

It is also due to the influence of this inherent label that Zhang Li sometimes, even if he wants to lose his temper with his boyfriend like an ordinary couple, he will consider the other party's identity in this regard, and subconsciously become shrunken a lot of.

Compared with liking and the love between husband and wife, Zhang Li felt that when facing Lisko, most of the time he would feel respected and fearful.

Everyone has their own unique edges and corners and personality, but when Zhang Li faces Lisko, he will try his best to cover up his edges and corners, so that he can become what the other party expects and likes.