Lisko’s American Life

1761. Xiaoyu's defect

Although he had an easier way to complete the plan in his heart, Lisko did not intend to speak out to point Xiaoyu to proceed according to his plan.

There are two reasons for this. The first reason is that each person’s plan is only suitable for their own implementation. If others follow your plan, the result of the channel is likely to be completely different. After all, everyone has a vision, The means of dealing with things and the corresponding network resources are all different. It is good that Li Ke is able to complete this project with a score of 10, but if you leave it to Xiaoyu to do these things, the results may not be so good Satisfying.

Furthermore, although Xiaoyu has proved that he has the ability to do business and management through the operation of the online store, the ability and experience acquired by the other party are not suitable for operating such a large project. It is suitable for small troubles. If you want to stand at the same height and do it yourself, this plan still needs some tempering.

Instead of letting Xiaoyu screw up this plan, it is better to keep this plan in his mind. One day, if someone is very clever and thinks the same way as himself, he will make a plan. The result that made me feel very surprised, Lisko felt that this was also a very good coincidence and expectation.

There is another reason for the more important thing. Although Xiaoyu didn't make it very clear, and maybe he didn't even realize that he had exposed these thoughts, but it can be seen that the success of the store management also made him Xiaoyu has more self-confidence in himself, but when this self-confidence is too strong, the original word of self-confidence becomes a conceited evaluation.

Of course, the reason for this kind of emotion is very simple. It is because Xiaoyu has been going smoothly all the way, and has not suffered any setbacks at all. In addition, compared with his peers on weekdays, the other party is still in a kind of part-time job. In this state, I have already been able to earn about US$100,000 a month in an industry. Converted into the currency I am most familiar with, I can earn hundreds of thousands of dollars a month. Compared with adults, it is indeed excellent and somewhat beyond everyone's expectations.

When chatting with those friends who I knew and were familiar with before going to school, I exposed all the flattery and recognition in the other party's words that I now have, and it also made Xiaoyu slowly become a little swaying. No matter what, in his bones As a young man who has not experienced too many setbacks and encounters, it is understandable to have these thoughts after his life is suddenly recognized.

If Lisko hadn't suffered too many setbacks and frequent stages because of his experience in two lifetimes, he might have been more exaggerated and excessive than Xiaoyu. When he saw the other party's mentality, Lisko Ke didn't feel that there was anything wrong with this, and he didn't even complain to Xiaoyu in his heart. After all, no matter what the other party's mentality was, at least he still had extraordinary respect for his brother-in-law. his help.

Everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages, and no one in this world can be an exception. Even if the person who behaves perfectly has been with each other for a long time in private, he can still find those things that are not acceptable to him from the other person, and communicate with each other. The process of being a friend is to choose someone who allows you to tolerate the shortcomings of the other person, and at the same time, the other person can also tolerate your personality flaws well, so that a good friendship can be achieved.

In Lisko's view, almost everyone has traces of the shortcomings shown by Xiaoyu, but some people can adjust their mentality very well, or after suffering some blows , quickly restore yourself to the previous state, some people may continue with this mentality, or even intensify, and become the object of disgust, but no matter how you start from the essence, Xiaoyu is still a person recognized by Lisko The impression of a good person and a good child will not affect one's attitude and perception of each other.

Of course, although I don't have too many thoughts about the other party's performance, but through this incident, I have further understood that Xiaoyu's working ability can be arranged for the other party to do some simple and easy, or even not many important things. If you take the heavy responsibility rashly, you have too many burdens on your body, which may overwhelm this young child, and even pay attention to the psychological state of the other party during the development process.

If Xiaoyu was Lisko's younger brother, he might bluntly point out any flaws in the other party's character, because he has a majesty in the face of the other party, so as a brother, point out that his brother is The lack of growth in the process is also a natural responsibility.

But even though I and Xiaoyu are already very close, the relationship between the two of them still belongs to the relationship between brother-in-law and brother-in-law. It always feels like there is a layer of separation between them and they cannot be reprimanded mercilessly like their own brother. And Lisko also needs to pay attention to his own education methods, don't do bad things with good intentions, because his words and instructions make the other party feel that he is not optimistic about everything he has done, and even complains about himself in his heart, then it is a bit thankless .

So he planned to tell his wife about Xiaoyu's mentality, and let the other party decide how to point out these defects of the other party, correct them as much as possible, and prevent them from causing bigger and more problems in the future because of these defects. It is too late to discuss the consequences until it is too late for regret.

After learning about the mentality of the other party, he was able to tell him immediately that in Lisko's view, he had already fulfilled enough responsibilities. If it was someone else who didn't care much about this family relationship, he might not meddle in other people's business at all. After all, how other people are has nothing to do with me, and people are jealous of each other. When I see other people's lives are not good, the life I live will be happier and more meaningful.

Li Ke was thinking about the solutions to these things in his heart and mind, but he didn't reveal any inappropriateness on the surface. Instead, he stood still and watched Xiaoyu standing in the middle of the warehouse, constantly explaining himself to his brother-in-law. The future plans and plans are full of encouragement and expectations in his eyes.

Although he thinks that Xiaoyu may need to suffer a little setback in order to grow more perfect, but he does not want this setback to be brought to the other party by himself. After all, it is always difficult to be a bad person in this world, and the definition of a bad person is also very difficult. He didn't want him to be a villain in the eyes of others because he started out with good intentions, which would make him feel inappropriate.

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