Lisko’s American Life

1802. Xiaoyu's Stubbornness

"My uncle seems to be very busy. What is he busy with every day? It seems that he hasn't seen him for a long time."

Xiaoyu happily swallowed the food that was also stuffed in his mouth, while adjusting his breathing. I didn't feel this way when I lived in the castle before, and I even kept turning a blind eye to the convenience of daily life, but after I moved out of this house suddenly, living alone has given me a lot of autonomy, but Speaking of which, there is really no way to compare the level of comfort with that at home.

When I lived in the castle before, I didn’t need to worry about anything, from the toilet paper at home, down to the general toiletries, and even what to eat at meal time every day, it seems that everything has been clearly arranged, Although this kind of life seems regular and without any autonomy, being dominated also saves me a lot of thinking time, and takes care of my life to the greatest extent.

After I actually moved out, I realized that I seemed to have to worry about everything. Sometimes the toilet paper at home ran out and I needed to purchase it in time. Toiletries also need to be stored and replenished in advance. The consumption of daily necessities at home is much faster than I imagined. It is not as I expected before. The toilet paper can be used for nearly two or three months. Or after purchasing toiletries once, you can save two or three months of reserves.

In addition, although these things seem insignificant, but when they really accumulate, you need to have a comprehensive heart, and you have to worry about everything. At the beginning, Xiaoyu himself felt in a hurry, and often missed some purchases that should have been made. Things, back and forth and repeat the itinerary from home to the store.

Although with the passage of time, I have become more comfortable with these things, but it has also brought a lot of unnecessary troubles to my life. It is far less worry-free than living in a castle. It seems that I am living in a castle. In general hotels, even the cleaning of clothes has special people to take care of them and provide services. After drying, they will be folded by professional maids and placed in their closets for their own choice and use.

Looking back, I never seemed to have cared about the difficulty of these things before. I have always experienced this level of service with peace of mind. After I really got out of these services, I realized how happy I was living before.

For Xiaoyu, although these problems seemed a little troublesome in his life, they were not the real source of his troubles. The only reason why he felt extremely troubled was that after going out, what should he eat every day became a problem. To solve the most difficult choice problem, at the beginning, the surrounding restaurants were used to solve their own dining problems, but after tasting all the surrounding restaurants, what to eat became the first difficult choice in the mind.

Xiaoyu's own cooking skills are only at the most basic level, and he doesn't have much interest in cooking. Once he enters the working state, he will spend more time on work arrangements Eating has become a luxury, not to mention cooking by yourself.

Most of them still use the way of buying to solve their own problems, but they are used to it, and these outside meals will fall into a state of entanglement in choosing, not knowing what to eat after they arrive at the meal time, and they are more interested. The important thing is that there are usually only a few types of American fast food that you can choose back and forth. For Xiaoyu, a child who has experienced food bombing from Huaguo, this kind of food can only be regarded as dessert after a meal. What sandwich hamburger is regarded as the staple food to solve one's own meal problem seems not so appropriate.

In addition to rice, the staple food in Xiaoyu's cognition may be all kinds of pasta. If you just use these shaggy bread as the main meal choice, it will really make you feel that you have not gained anything specific. Energy supplement.

So it is precisely because of this that Xiaoyu misses the food in the castle so much that he often returns to the castle to live for a few days so that he can taste the delicious food of his hometown and the supplement of nutritional energy. As if like a starving ghost, it looks extra greedy and satisfied.

Of course, the other members of the family felt very distressed seeing the other party like this, and they always mentioned more than once that the other party should move back to live again. But for Xiaoyu, what young people want most is self-esteem and face. When he moved out of the castle At the time, he acted swearingly, and with a mature attitude, he returned home in less than half a year and dismissed his initial words. This was a choice that made him feel very ashamed.

He wanted to persevere as much as possible, and would only succumb to the helplessness of reality when he really couldn't bear it anymore. Unless necessary, he really didn't want to make this choice, and he didn't want to make himself a joke in everyone's mouth.

So every time my family members proposed to let me move back, although I was very moved in my heart, and even seemed a little impatient, for Xiaoyu, he still had to stick to his bottom line and dignity. The excuse to refute one by one is that I am too busy with work. If I waste too much time on the journey, it may be a luxury for myself. It is better to use this way of going home several times a week. Maintain opportunities to meet with family members frequently.

Li Feng has already made the most basic psychological preparations for this child's stubbornness. Since the other party's attitude is very firm, and she is already living well outside, she does not always maintain an attitude towards this child like she did at the beginning. The problem is that children will grow better after experiencing external trials. Only after experiencing enough tests will they become more mature. This is especially true for boys. If you always protect the other party in your own defense Under the circumstances, it is also a harm to the other party.

As an elder, I should support the other party's ideas on this matter. The only exception is that every time Xiaoyu comes back, Li Feng will choose some delicious food for cooking in different ways, and supplement the other party's nutrition as much as possible. , so I can comfort the other party who looks tired every time and is in the state of starting a business.

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