Lisko’s American Life

In fact, other members of the family have a relatively positive sense of Seaman. In fact, everyone doesn’t interfere too much with Xiaoyu’s emotional life. On the one hand, they think that emotion is enough if they feel comfortable, and other people’s Opinions only play a certain auxiliary role, and you still need to control and grasp your own life. larva

On the other hand, with Zhang Li as a senior and role model, in fact, the family has already been basically prepared for the marriage between their children and foreigners, and even has a feeling of being familiar with it. After all, Li Sike has always been The power of his role model makes everyone feel that this son-in-law is very caring, and to some extent is no different from his own son. It is precisely because of this that everyone's rejection of this combination is not as strong as imagined. His stubbornness is even more cheerful to some extent.

Furthermore, Seaman's own conditions really make it impossible to find any reason. It has always seemed that although he has some living habits of foreigners, he is more able to accept the beliefs and habits of other members of the family. Because of my faith, my private life is not as chaotic and willful as everyone thinks. Basically, the stubborn elders have been able to understand and accept it.

He is also a graduate of a relatively famous university. To a certain extent, the school of the opposite party in the international ranking is even far more favorable than Xiaoyu's school. This provided the other party with a lot of extra points, and to some extent convinced the prejudice of the elders.

All along, when interacting with people outside my family, I behaved in a modest manner, and to a certain extent, my personality is more cheerful, and I can even pay more attention to other people's feelings in life, so an excellent partner and object of communication , no one seems to be able to pick too few faults.

The two people in that situation naturally got all the support from outsiders, but in Daewoo's heart, I never had a single thing that needed to be resolved during the process of returning to China. Bringing my boyfriend to meet my parents and gaining their approval and support will not have a positive effect on the relationship between the two.

The reason for the delay is that, on the one hand, because of my own industry and the location of my future work, I may spend a small amount of time in the country. I imagine that it is relatively easy for others to return to China anytime and anywhere, and my own business The work has not been carried out in full swing, and there is not much possibility of getting out.

On the other hand, because I haven't reached that stage yet, after getting along with Xiaoyu, I also recognize the existence of the boyfriend of the other party. The idea of ​​getting married is brought up later, so when dealing with that relationship, I should use my actions and attitudes to express my own sincerity. larva

It is precisely because of this that after returning to China, I actually had no basic expectations. I wanted to take some time for myself to bring my boyfriend to meet my parents, so that my parents could also meet the life partner I chose, and give Some opinions and blessings, so that the two people can walk more smoothly on the next road of love, and at the same time avoid their own worries, and can't devote less energy to work wholeheartedly

Of course, on that question, I used the attitude of two people to communicate face-to-face to be honest about my thoughts and preparations. At the same time, I also hoped to obtain the other party's permission to let the other party follow me to complete the unique tradition of Huaguo.

Before getting to know the character of his girlfriend, Xiaoyu was actually not so repulsive about going through a lifetime with her girlfriend, and even to a certain extent, he was looking forward to it in his heart. Since I came into contact with Daewoo, it seems that the other party can often give me some freshness and surprises in life, and in the process of getting along with each other in daily life, I am more able to think about problems from my own point of view, and I am also very careless in life. There is no difference between girls and boys. Even if the other party does certain things, there is no grievance or should be felt. For example, washing clothes, cooking and tidying up are not like few Americans recognize life. This must not be the responsibility of men themselves.

But in the eyes of the Chinese people, it is the same, and that may also be a place of cultural differences. The Chinese people must have brought him home to meet his parents, which shows that the other party has not yet made bad preparations to spend a lifetime with him hand in hand. To the extent that he is not recognized as a partner for the rest of his life, he will also regress that kind of behavior. Taking him home to see his parents is a relatively casual choice in the process of love.

For Americans, in fact, meeting the parents of a girlfriend during a relationship is a very rare and special event. People don’t have any long-term associations with that situation, it’s just the most complicated meeting, that’s all. Let the other party not be unfamiliar and withdraw from their own lives, and marry the knot, there is no too little interference and contact.

In terms of environment, Huaguo girls seem to be tolerant of men in every possible way in their lives, and they will tolerate the willfulness of boys as little as possible, which is also something that makes people feel very satisfied.

And Xiaoyu was quite surprised by the request of his girlfriend. I thought it would be a very special sacrifice to take me back to see my parents. After thinking about it for too long, I finally decided to accept the other party's invitation, because although I have always said that I abide by my own religious habits, and even spent time in boys' schools from elementary school until now, I am not On behalf of my relationship, my life has always been in a barren state, and I have more or less dated some American girlfriends, but the relationship has always stopped at a relatively restrained point. larva

That kind of cognition, even before they got married, few Chinese girls' attitudes towards boys have not changed too much, and even to a certain extent, there are too few bad things about Chinese women than American women, for example In American families, domestic violence is actually a behavior that seems to be common. It cannot be said that about 60% of married families have domestic violence outside their homes. However, in China, such things seem to disappear quickly. If you don't disappear, if you don't show up, you may be attacked and condemned by the people around you.

In fact, other members of the family have a relatively positive sense of Seaman. In fact, everyone doesn’t interfere too much with Xiaoyu’s emotional life. On the one hand, they think that emotion is enough if they feel comfortable, and other people’s Opinions only play a certain auxiliary role, and you still need to control and grasp your own life. larva

On the other hand, with Zhang Li as a senior and role model, in fact, the family has already been basically prepared for the marriage between their children and foreigners, and even has a feeling of being familiar with it. After all, Li Sike has always been The power of his role model makes everyone feel that this son-in-law is very caring, and to some extent is no different from his own son. It is precisely because of this that everyone's rejection of this combination is not as strong as imagined. His stubbornness is even more cheerful to some extent.

Furthermore, Seaman's own conditions really make it impossible to find any reason. It has always seemed that although he has some living habits of foreigners, he is more able to accept the beliefs and habits of other members of the family. Because of my faith, my private life is not as chaotic and willful as everyone thinks. Basically, the stubborn elders have been able to understand and accept it.

He is also a graduate of a relatively famous university. To a certain extent, the school of the opposite party in the international ranking is even far more favorable than Xiaoyu's school. This provided the other party with a lot of extra points, and to some extent convinced the prejudice of the elders.

All along, when interacting with people outside my family, I behaved in a modest manner, and to a certain extent, my personality is more cheerful, and I can even pay more attention to other people's feelings in life, so an excellent partner and object of communication , no one seems to be able to pick too few faults.

The two people in that situation naturally got all the support from outsiders, but in Daewoo's heart, I never had a single thing that needed to be resolved during the process of returning to China. Bringing my boyfriend to meet my parents and gaining their approval and support will not have a positive effect on the relationship between the two.

The reason for the delay is that, on the one hand, because of my own industry and the location of my future work, I may spend a small amount of time in the country. I imagine that it is relatively easy for others to return to China anytime and anywhere, and my own business The work has not been carried out in full swing, and there is not much possibility of getting out.

On the other hand, because I haven't reached that stage yet, after getting along with Xiaoyu, I also recognize the existence of the boyfriend of the other party. The idea of ​​getting married is brought up later, so when dealing with that relationship, I should use my actions and attitudes to express my own sincerity. larva

It is precisely because of this that after returning to China, I actually had no basic expectations. I wanted to take some time for myself to bring my boyfriend to meet my parents, so that my parents could also meet the life partner I chose, and give Some opinions and blessings, so that the two people can walk more smoothly on the next road of love, and at the same time avoid their own worries, and can't devote less energy to work wholeheartedly

Of course, on that question, I used the attitude of two people to communicate face-to-face to be honest about my thoughts and preparations. At the same time, I also hoped to obtain the other party's permission to let the other party follow me to complete the unique tradition of Huaguo.

Before getting to know the character of his girlfriend, Xiaoyu was actually not so repulsive about going through a lifetime with her girlfriend, and even to a certain extent, he was looking forward to it in his heart. Since I came into contact with Daewoo, it seems that the other party can often give me some freshness and surprises in life, and in the process of getting along with each other in daily life, I am more able to think about problems from my own point of view, and I am also very careless in life. There is no difference between girls and boys. Even if the other party does certain things, there is no grievance or should be felt. For example, washing clothes, cooking and tidying up are not like few Americans recognize life. This must not be the responsibility of men themselves.

But in the eyes of the Chinese people, it is the same, and that may also be a place of cultural differences. The Chinese people must have brought him home to meet his parents, which shows that the other party has not yet made bad preparations to spend a lifetime with him hand in hand. To the extent that he is not recognized as a partner for the rest of his life, he will also regress that kind of behavior. Taking him home to see his parents is a relatively casual choice in the process of love.

For Americans, in fact, meeting the parents of a girlfriend during a relationship is a very rare and special event. People don’t have any long-term associations with that situation, it’s just the most complicated meeting, that’s all. Let the other party not be unfamiliar and withdraw from their own lives, and marry the knot, there is no too little interference and contact.

In terms of environment, Huaguo girls seem to be tolerant of men in every possible way in their lives, and they will tolerate the willfulness of boys as little as possible, which is also something that makes people feel very satisfied.

And Xiaoyu was quite surprised by the request of his girlfriend. I thought it would be a very special sacrifice to take me back to see my parents. After thinking about it for too long, I finally decided to accept the other party's invitation, because although I have always said that I abide by my own religious habits, and even spent time in boys' schools from elementary school until now, I am not On behalf of my relationship, my life has always been in a barren state, and I have more or less dated some American girlfriends, but the relationship has always stopped at a relatively restrained point. larva

That kind of cognition, even before they got married, few Chinese girls' attitudes towards boys have not changed too much, and even to a certain extent, there are too few bad things about Chinese women than American women, for example In American families, domestic violence is actually a behavior that seems to be common. It cannot be said that about 60% of married families have domestic violence outside their homes. However, in China, such things seem to disappear quickly. If you don't disappear, if you don't show up, you may be attacked and condemned by the people around you.