Lisko’s American Life

If you tell your daughter directly that the grandmother of the other party may have to leave for a long time, she will not be able to accompany her for the time being, and she may not be able to see her figure at home for a while, which is definitely not a good thing for the baby. The news may even immediately cause the other party's emotional discomfort, which directly leads to crying.

But if you use other reasons to temporarily prevaricate, but as time goes by, the other party will still find out the existence of this matter, and it will also destroy her honest impression in her daughter's mind. As a parent, you must pay attention to the use of this method in the process of educating your children, because you yourself are the best teacher for your children. If you can't guarantee that you are very honest, it will be difficult to educate your daughter like this people.

"Grandma has something to do, so she's not at home for the time being. You finish your meal first, and Dad will turn on the TV for you later."

Continue to think about it, it is still temporary, use these vague words to explain the dynamics of the other party, I hope my daughter can forget about this matter as soon as possible, and I also hope that the other party can adapt to the life without grandma as soon as possible

"No, I want grandma, I want grandma to play with me."

Speaking of it, Li Feng's position and position in the baby's heart are actually quite important. It seems that the other party has never left the baby's side since the baby was born. Every day the baby can see that familiar and kind smiling face, even for quite a long time, the baby is very dependent on his grandma, and sleeps with grandma every day, the relationship with grandma has far surpassed that with his parents The emotion of being together.

In addition, Li Feng is also very fond of the baby's actions. Generally, if the other party makes a mistake, he will use persuasion and education, unlike his parents who are irritable. There was still no change after the teaching. Lisko and Zhang Li, who were relatively low in patience, really knew how to do it, punishing each other's little butts mercilessly, and using this painful way to make the other party fear certain things.

"Grandma is not at home now, as long as you are obedient, grandma will come back to accompany the baby soon, but if you are disobedient, grandma will not like disobedient children."

Faced with his daughter's strong emotional opposition, Lisko didn't know what method to use to solve the current situation. Originally, when his mother-in-law left, he felt that coaxing the child would not cause too much harm to his life. I am troubled, and these days I may take over the babysitting work by myself, and there will be maids to help take pictures later. With so many people accompanying me, I can handle any situation with ease.

In addition, children are getting older and older, and generally they don’t need to take care of them. They just need to pay attention to each other, and it is enough not to do some dangerous work and attempts. Now the baby can basically complete the work alone. People play for fun. Even the way of self-entertainment games is far more complicated than that of adults. Even if you hold a doll and mutter to yourself, you can spend a happy afternoon. So taking care of children in this situation does not seem to be too difficult a task.

It is precisely because of this kind of thinking that he still feels that some of the other party's inquiries and doubts before leaving are too low on his ability, but when he faces his daughter over and over again, it seems that there are 100,000 whys. It also made his head very big.

"No, I just want grandma. Where has my grandma gone? I want to find grandma."

It may be that the father’s emotions and ways of responding became a little more violent, the baby dodged back subconsciously, and then sat alone in the corner of the sofa and kept repeating these contents, over and over again, like a curse Surrounding Lisko's ears, he even felt that his head was about to burst.

I myself have a rather quiet personality. When I get along with my daughter on weekdays, I don’t find her. She lives like a broken mouth. Maybe when the other party lives with her grandma, grandma can tolerate these shortcomings infinitely, but in When facing his father, he will still unconsciously reveal his original habits and preferences. Seeing that the other party seems to be angry, he seems to be very wronged, and his original eye sockets gradually become rosy. After a while, Dou Da's eyeballs could not stop streaming from the corners of his eyes.

"Don't cry, grandma doesn't like children who like to cry. If you don't cry, grandma will come back in a while, but if you want to cry, grandma won't care about you. You sit on the sofa and daddy will bring you How about some snacks? Are you a biscuit eater or a candy eater? Shall I find out your toys for you, so Dad can take you out shopping?"

Although I feel depressed in my heart and have some thoughts of wanting to get angry, there are really not many solutions to children. I can only try to calm my daughter's fluctuating emotions through temptation as much as possible, hoping that the other party can Get out of this emotion as soon as possible.

But every suggestion I made was immediately rejected by my daughter shaking her head. Whether it was holding the biscuits or candies that the other party liked to eat, or even some fruits that the other party liked to eat on weekdays, they still could not attract any attention from the other party. He must devote himself wholeheartedly to the work of finding his grandmother. He will not make any changes until he gets the answer he wants. Like an angry calf, he sits in the corner angrily, crying and calling for his grandmother name.

"Then you can cry. Dad doesn't want to care about you anymore. Dad is so tired. I want to sit here and watch TV. What's on the TV? This cartoon is so beautiful."

Lisko really didn't have a good solution to his crying and troublesome daughter. He almost used all the methods he could know, but still nothing changed, so he had to vent his emotions angrily. While turning on the TV in front of her, she quickly found the anime that her daughter usually likes, and while watching it, she still used words to seduce her.

I have to say that this trick is really useful. The baby was still immersed in the panic of not being able to find his grandma, but as the familiar music came from the TV, he would unconsciously divert part of his attention and energy Watching the dynamics of the TV, although the eye circles are still red, the original crying has been slowly contained.

At the end of about 10 minutes, I had completely forgotten the idea of ​​looking for my grandma, and could even crack along with the plot on TV, showing my teeth and smiling. It seemed that I had overcome this difficulty temporarily. But the next time it erupts again, I need to find a new way to face this situation. As an old father, I really feel a little tired.

If you tell your daughter directly that the grandmother of the other party may have to leave for a long time, she will not be able to accompany her for the time being, and she may not be able to see her figure at home for a while, which is definitely not a good thing for the baby. The news may even immediately cause the other party's emotional discomfort, which directly leads to crying.

But if you use other reasons to temporarily prevaricate, but as time goes by, the other party will still find out the existence of this matter, and it will also destroy her honest impression in her daughter's mind. As a parent, you must pay attention to the use of this method in the process of educating your children, because you yourself are the best teacher for your children. If you can't guarantee that you are very honest, it will be difficult to educate your daughter like this people.

"Grandma has something to do, so she's not at home for the time being. You finish your meal first, and Dad will turn on the TV for you later."

Continue to think about it, it is still temporary, use these vague words to explain the dynamics of the other party, I hope my daughter can forget about this matter as soon as possible, and I also hope that the other party can adapt to the life without grandma as soon as possible

"No, I want grandma, I want grandma to play with me."

Speaking of it, Li Feng's position and position in the baby's heart are actually quite important. It seems that the other party has never left the baby's side since the baby was born. Every day the baby can see that familiar and kind smiling face, even for quite a long time, the baby is very dependent on his grandma, and sleeps with grandma every day, the relationship with grandma has far surpassed that with his parents The emotion of being together.

In addition, Li Feng is also very fond of the baby's actions. Generally, if the other party makes a mistake, he will use persuasion and education, unlike his parents who are irritable. There was still no change after the teaching. Lisko and Zhang Li, who were relatively low in patience, really knew how to do it, punishing each other's little butts mercilessly, and using this painful way to make the other party fear certain things.

"Grandma is not at home now, as long as you are obedient, grandma will come back to accompany the baby soon, but if you are disobedient, grandma will not like disobedient children."

Faced with his daughter's strong emotional opposition, Lisko didn't know what method to use to solve the current situation. Originally, when his mother-in-law left, he felt that coaxing the child would not cause too much harm to his life. I am troubled, and these days I may take over the babysitting work by myself, and there will be maids to help take pictures later. With so many people accompanying me, I can handle any situation with ease.

In addition, children are getting older and older, and generally they don’t need to take care of them. They just need to pay attention to each other, and it is enough not to do some dangerous work and attempts. Now the baby can basically complete the work alone. People play for fun. Even the way of self-entertainment games is far more complicated than that of adults. Even if you hold a doll and mutter to yourself, you can spend a happy afternoon. So taking care of children in this situation does not seem to be too difficult a task.

It is precisely because of this kind of thinking that he still feels that some of the other party's inquiries and doubts before leaving are too low on his ability, but when he faces his daughter over and over again, it seems that there are 100,000 whys. It also made his head very big.

"No, I just want grandma. Where has my grandma gone? I want to find grandma."

It may be that the father’s emotions and ways of responding became a little more violent, the baby dodged back subconsciously, and then sat alone in the corner of the sofa and kept repeating these contents, over and over again, like a curse Surrounding Lisko's ears, he even felt that his head was about to burst.

I myself have a rather quiet personality. When I get along with my daughter on weekdays, I don’t find her. She lives like a broken mouth. Maybe when the other party lives with her grandma, grandma can tolerate these shortcomings infinitely, but in When facing his father, he will still unconsciously reveal his original habits and preferences. Seeing that the other party seems to be angry, he seems to be very wronged, and his original eye sockets gradually become rosy. After a while, Dou Da's eyeballs could not stop streaming from the corners of his eyes.

"Don't cry, grandma doesn't like children who like to cry. If you don't cry, grandma will come back in a while, but if you want to cry, grandma won't care about you. You sit on the sofa and daddy will bring you How about some snacks? Are you a biscuit eater or a candy eater? Shall I find out your toys for you, so Dad can take you out shopping?"

Although I feel depressed in my heart and have some thoughts of wanting to get angry, there are really not many solutions to children. I can only try to calm my daughter's fluctuating emotions through temptation as much as possible, hoping that the other party can Get out of this emotion as soon as possible.

But every suggestion I made was immediately rejected by my daughter shaking her head. Whether it was holding the biscuits or candies that the other party liked to eat, or even some fruits that the other party liked to eat on weekdays, they still could not attract any attention from the other party. He must devote himself wholeheartedly to the work of finding his grandmother. He will not make any changes until he gets the answer he wants. Like an angry calf, he sits in the corner angrily, crying and calling for his grandmother name.

"Then you can cry. Dad doesn't want to care about you anymore. Dad is so tired. I want to sit here and watch TV. What's on the TV? This cartoon is so beautiful."

Lisko really didn't have a good solution to his crying and troublesome daughter. He almost used all the methods he could know, but still nothing changed, so he had to vent his emotions angrily. While turning on the TV in front of her, she quickly found the anime that her daughter usually likes, and while watching it, she still used words to seduce her.

I have to say that this trick is really useful. The baby was still immersed in the panic of not being able to find his grandma, but as the familiar music came from the TV, he would unconsciously divert part of his attention and energy Watching the dynamics of the TV, although the eye circles are still red, the original crying has been slowly contained.

At the end of about 10 minutes, I had completely forgotten the idea of ​​looking for my grandma, and could even crack along with the plot on TV, showing my teeth and smiling. It seemed that I had overcome this difficulty temporarily. But the next time it erupts again, I need to find a new way to face this situation. As an old father, I really feel a little tired.