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After listening to her mother's words, Qu Qing was also full of black lines, and even had a stomach full of resentment. It's almost reached this limit, and I haven't found someone to entrust. If you think about the problem from the perspective of a parent, it really looks particularly ugly.

At the same time, what the other party said is also very reasonable. Parents may only have so many responsibilities for their children. They will take care of you safely and grow up. At the same time, they will give you enough support to complete your studies. After you graduate, they can give you more. With so much love and care, the only requirement is that you can get married and have children like a normal person. Only after you take off your responsibilities can the other party truly feel at ease.

Even such a small request, I have no way to satisfy the other party, and I always treat it with a very resistant and repulsive attitude. If you think about it carefully, it is indeed my fault, and the parents' worries are also reasonable. As they are getting older and their physical fitness is getting older, they don't want to die without seeing that their daughter can have someone to entrust and a family that can take care of them instead of them.

"Don't talk so much. Anyway, I have cooperated enough with you during this period of time. If you want me to go on a blind date, I will go on a blind date according to your requirements. I will do whatever you want me to do, and even the time will be handed over to you." Let you manage it, and more importantly, I can temporarily put aside my work to cooperate with you, isn't that okay?"

Speaking of this matter, Qu Qing is also full of grievances, obviously he has cooperated enough, but in the eyes of his mother, it is a heinous crime if he has not confirmed it, and it can even be regarded as unfilial. This kind of moral kidnapping The means also made him a little weak and aggrieved.

"I don't want to talk too much with you. Anyway, you are the most reasonable. After all, we are people with simple and traditional thinking. They are already abandoned wives by the times, and we are also a group of old, decayed and old-fashioned. .You just tell me directly whether the person on the blind date today is okay? If not, I will choose another person for you. Anyway, you must solve your personal problems before this year, so that one day I will really die. You can die without any regrets, if you can't make me worry about your personal problems even before I die, and I can't open my eyes with peace of mind, you should take pity on me and take this matter to heart."

After listening to what my mother said, I could only curl my lips helplessly when I got married. At the same time, I carefully recalled all the details of how I got along with the other party today. , Wang Qing's qualifications may not be the best one, and even compared with others, the whole person seems too dull, but it is this kind of person that makes me feel a different kind of appreciation.

It may be because of his previous relationship experience that he is always not interested in people who are unspeakably fickle and seem very frivolous. Today, it seems that Wang Qing's performance may not be so appropriate and decent, but it is this clumsy way that gives him a different perception. This kind of talent who can grasp the other party's psychological dynamics at a glance makes it possible for him to really want to have a heart-to-heart relationship with the other party.

For Qu Qing, the matter of feelings may seem a little more complicated, and he also feels that his ability cannot deal with those old foxes who have experienced many relationships, even if he stands in front of the other party and cannot guess the other party's mind. He is not very interested in this kind of person, and he feels that there will be some defensive psychology subconsciously.

On the contrary, Wang Qing's method seems to be 100% suitable for him, and he doesn't worry about the other party hiding anything from him. My thoughts suddenly changed. Fortunately, I don’t have a suitable dating partner now. It’s better to get along with the other party first. On the one hand, I can temporarily stop the matter of my parents’ continuous blind date. What will happen to the ending of two people at the same time if they have a chance of kindness? Then leave it to time to judge. If it is really suitable, the two people will naturally enter the next stage very smoothly. If the two people may have no relationship, then this experience of getting along will also give them the next relationship. Accumulate more experience.

"Today's interview is okay, I think it's okay, you can ask the other party's opinion first, if the other party thinks there is no problem, then we two get along with each other, and it will save you from urging me all day No, but let me say yes first. I am just in contact with the other party, and you are urging me in a hurry to confirm the relationship as soon as possible, or immediately enter the step of engagement. You must know that marriage is the second time for a woman Choosing the opportunity of life, if the choice is wrong, the impact may still be relatively large, and it may even waste the rest of my life. I still need to be more cautious on this issue. I can’t always say what you say. Always give me some independence."

After thinking about it for a while, Qu Qing decided to settle this matter temporarily, to give himself some breathing space. However, in order to prevent what might happen in the future, he still felt that it would be better to make an agreement with his mother first, and to say all the ugly things first, so that it would be more reasonable for him to refuse at that time.

"Okay, okay, I understand, don't worry, I won't change my mind if I tell you, just wait for a while, I'll ask the matchmaker about the message first, if the other party thinks the same If so, I will give you the contact information to get back, don't add other people's contact information and leave it aside, and fool me casually."

Anyway, after finally getting the possibility of Qu Qingsong's mouth, the mother seemed extraordinarily happy and excited, chatting in a hurry, hung up the phone immediately after finishing one, and called the matchmaker while the time was right. I went to the same inquiry phone, hoping to get a definite reply, so that my daughter can enter the beginning of a new relationship as soon as possible.

Although I don't know whether this relationship can reach the final outcome, but for me, the other party's loose attitude is enough to make me happy. It's much better to have a good start and have the possibility to continue than to keep standing still.

After listening to her mother's words, Qu Qing was also full of black lines, and even had a stomach full of resentment. It's almost reached this limit, and I haven't found someone to entrust. If you think about the problem from the perspective of a parent, it really looks particularly ugly.

At the same time, what the other party said is also very reasonable. Parents may only have so many responsibilities for their children. They will take care of you safely and grow up. At the same time, they will give you enough support to complete your studies. After you graduate, they can give you more. With so much love and care, the only requirement is that you can get married and have children like a normal person. Only after you take off your responsibilities can the other party truly feel at ease.

Even such a small request, I have no way to satisfy the other party, and I always treat it with a very resistant and repulsive attitude. If you think about it carefully, it is indeed my fault, and the parents' worries are also reasonable. As they are getting older and their physical fitness is getting older, they don't want to die without seeing that their daughter can have someone to entrust and a family that can take care of them instead of them.

"Don't talk so much. Anyway, I have cooperated enough with you during this period of time. If you want me to go on a blind date, I will go on a blind date according to your requirements. I will do whatever you want me to do, and even the time will be handed over to you." Let you manage it, and more importantly, I can temporarily put aside my work to cooperate with you, isn't that okay?"

Speaking of this matter, Qu Qing is also full of grievances, obviously he has cooperated enough, but in the eyes of his mother, it is a heinous crime if he has not confirmed it, and it can even be regarded as unfilial. This kind of moral kidnapping The means also made him a little weak and aggrieved.

"I don't want to talk too much with you. Anyway, you are the most reasonable. After all, we are people with simple and traditional thinking. They are already abandoned wives by the times, and we are also a group of old, decayed and old-fashioned. .You just tell me directly whether the person on the blind date today is okay? If not, I will choose another person for you. Anyway, you must solve your personal problems before this year, so that one day I will really die. You can die without any regrets, if you can't make me worry about your personal problems even before I die, and I can't open my eyes with peace of mind, you should take pity on me and take this matter to heart."

After listening to what my mother said, I could only curl my lips helplessly when I got married. At the same time, I carefully recalled all the details of how I got along with the other party today. , Wang Qing's qualifications may not be the best one, and even compared with others, the whole person seems too dull, but it is this kind of person that makes me feel a different kind of appreciation.

It may be because of his previous relationship experience that he is always not interested in people who are unspeakably fickle and seem very frivolous. Today, it seems that Wang Qing's performance may not be so appropriate and decent, but it is this clumsy way that makes him have a different perception. This kind of talent who can grasp the other party's psychological dynamics at a glance makes it possible for him to really want to have a heart-to-heart relationship with the other party.

For Qu Qing, the matter of feelings may seem a little more complicated, and he also feels that his ability cannot deal with those old foxes who have experienced many relationships, even if he stands in front of the other party and cannot guess the other party's mind. He is not very interested in this kind of person, and he feels that there will be some defensive psychology subconsciously.

On the contrary, Wang Qing's method seems to be 100% suitable for him, and he doesn't worry about the other party hiding anything from him. My thoughts suddenly changed. Fortunately, I don’t have a suitable dating partner now. It’s better to get along with each other first. On the one hand, I can temporarily stop the fact that my parents are constantly forcing me to go on a blind date. What will happen to the ending of two people at the same time if they have a chance of kindness? Then leave it to time to judge. If it is really suitable, the two people will naturally enter the next stage very smoothly. If the two people may have nothing to do with each other, then this experience of getting along will also give them the next relationship. Accumulate more experience.

"Today's interview is okay, I think it's okay, you can ask the other party's opinion first, if the other party thinks there is no problem, then we two get along with each other, and it will save you from urging me all day No, but let me say yes first. I am just in contact with the other party, and you are urging me in a hurry to confirm the relationship as soon as possible, or immediately enter the step of engagement. You must know that marriage is the second time for a woman Choosing the opportunity of life, if the choice is wrong, the impact may still be relatively large, and it may even waste the rest of my life. I still need to be more cautious on this issue. I can’t always say what you say. Always give me some independence."

After thinking about it for a while, Qu Qing decided to settle this matter temporarily, to give himself some breathing room. However, in order to prevent what might happen in the future, he still felt that it would be better to make an agreement with his mother first, and to say all the ugly things first, so that it would be more reasonable for him to refuse at that time.

"Okay, okay, I understand, don't worry, I won't change my mind if I tell you, just wait for a while, I'll ask the matchmaker about the message first, if the other party thinks the same If so, I will give you the contact information to get back, don't add other people's contact information and leave it aside, and fool me casually."

Anyway, after finally getting the possibility of Qu Qingsong's mouth, the mother seemed extraordinarily happy and excited, chatting in a hurry, hung up the phone immediately after finishing one, and called the matchmaker while the time was right. I went to the same inquiry phone, hoping to get a definite reply, so that my daughter can enter the beginning of a new relationship as soon as possible.

Although I don't know whether this relationship can reach the final outcome, but for me, the other party's loose attitude is enough to make me happy. It's much better to have a good start and have the possibility to continue than to keep standing still.