Lisko’s American Life

"You mean this time, are you serious or just to pass the time? I think it's better for you to be more cautious in this matter. At least no matter what your thoughts are, you shouldn't waste other people's feelings." For the price."

After Qu Qing came back from the blind date, there was no accident, and he was also asked by his best friend Zhang Li, and learned that although the other party didn't like the person of today's blind date, he arranged for no one to reply accordingly. At that time, the whole person also became serious from the original state of joking.

He is very clear about the character of his best friend. He has always been a girl who is more daring to love and hate, and even has a very sincere attitude towards feelings. There is no way to have a deeper understanding, but the whole person still maintains a respectful attitude.

But all of this is based on the original foundation. No one can explain that everyone can understand the existence of another person without reservation, even if the two people are close friends or have a brotherly relationship. .

Moreover, with the passage of time, there may be some deviations in people and their personalities, and there will also be some deviations in their views on certain things and the methods they adopt, so at this moment Zhang Li is indeed very serious to talk to himself The best friend discusses this matter, maybe my best friend has always been resistant to the matter of feelings, hoping to choose the most perfect partner who fully meets the standards according to her own mood.

I can empathize with these choices and insist on the bottom line, and at the same time express my full understanding, but it does not mean that I can use the reason of hurting others as the price in this matter. Everyone's feelings and contributions should be taken seriously, and he doesn't want his best friend to go on the road of playing with other people's feelings or hurting others. Naturally, he needs to give corresponding warnings before the beginning. A real good friend is in you When you do something wrong, you can immediately jump out and correct you without any scruples. Sometimes middle age is harsh to the ear. If you really think about the problem from your standpoint and think about it all for your own good, you may give a lot of suggestions and words, which are not so easy for people to accept.

"What kind of person do you think I am? Is my impression in your heart so bad? Yes, I may not like him that much, but as far as the blind dates I have come into contact with so far, this one is already considered a dwarf. Pick the big one. In comparison, I think this one is still within the scope of my consideration. It can’t be among so many people. I must not make any wrong choices. If any one person does not get in-depth contact and understanding, I will How do I know if two people are so suitable, and I don't have any intention of playing with him, I have already said it very clearly at the beginning, and now I am only in a slightly interested situation, if the other party does not If you mind, you can continue to study further. If it is suitable, it is suitable, and if it is not suitable, it is not suitable. If you can't accept this kind of condition, then there is no problem in rejecting me directly."

Qu Qing looked helpless. He never thought that his random complaints, or his past thoughts, might have given his best friend a bad omen, so when he made a corresponding choice, the other party would subconsciously doubt these things. question. God pity me, although I really don't like this person that much, but I will not take the road of playing with other people's feelings at will, or using the other party as a shield, you must know that these are all actions that violate your conscience.

Maybe it’s because the people I’ve dated before seem to be gentle or good-looking, or the way the other person has been showing all the time, there’s nothing wrong with it. The image that’s too perfect makes me subconsciously maintain it and be vigilant. The other party's long speeches, or the appropriate response, have also become very experienced performances in my own eyes.

On the contrary, Wang Qing's stumbling and not-so-perfect image made me feel very caring involuntarily, and at the same time lost a lot of vigilance, and I didn't imagine the repulsion feeling in my heart for continuing contact with the other party. It’s so strong, anyway, I need to choose a suitable blind date partner. It’s better to choose someone else for temporary contact. At the very least, I can guarantee that in the process of getting along with the other party, I will really devote myself physically and mentally. It's not just messing around.

In other words, two people are currently in a state of unmarried men and women, and both of them are very eager to get rid of this busy state of blind dates, then things are uncertain after that, if two people have a bad temper If you are congenial and feel that your hobbies are a good match, it is natural to walk along the trend and become a couple. At least if you think about it from your current state, you are not so disgusted with the other person's appearance and personality. It's already a very good start.

"Okay, okay, that's my misunderstanding. I was worried that you would do some wrong things. Isn't this also worried about you? Now that you have made up your mind, as a best friend, I must bless you and hope If you can take this kind of emotional life seriously, and decide on your entrusted object early, everything will look perfect."

Zhang Li also knew that his suspicious and warning words just now might sound very unkind, so when his best friend explained clearly, he naturally hugged the other party with a sorry face and immediately apologized. In the state of two people getting along, some people may have done some wrong things unintentionally, and everyone will adopt a very open-minded attitude and apologize immediately, or explain their mistakes to seek the other party's forgiveness, and when this matter passes , the relationship between the two will not be affected in any way, and this may be the main reason why the two have maintained a relatively hot state since graduation.

"Okay, okay, I get it, I think you just think I'm annoying, I don't have a blind date, I'm just a light bulb for you two all day long, after I really have a trust, I don't have to be an eyesore in front of you two, You can show your love and love without any scruples, you know, it's all because I'm too an eyesore, so you can't wait to hope that I will be entrusted as soon as possible."

Seeing that everyone's atmosphere has returned to the previous state, Qu Qing deliberately pretended to be very sad. While squinting his eyes and secretly observing the expression of his best friend, he began to make a very pitiful expression. The look of abandonment.

"You mean this time, are you serious or just to pass the time? I think it's better for you to be more cautious in this matter. At least no matter what your thoughts are, you shouldn't waste other people's feelings." For the price."

After Qu Qing came back from the blind date, there was no accident, and he was also asked by his best friend Zhang Li, and learned that although the other party didn't like the person of today's blind date, he arranged for no one to reply accordingly. At that time, the whole person also became serious from the original state of joking.

He is very clear about the character of his best friend. He has always been a girl who is more daring to love and hate, and even has a very sincere attitude towards feelings. There is no way to have a deeper understanding, but the whole person still maintains a respectful attitude.

But all of this is based on the original foundation. No one can explain that everyone can understand the existence of another person without reservation, even if the two people are close friends or have a brotherly relationship. .

Moreover, with the passage of time, there may be some deviations in people and their personalities, and there will also be some deviations in their views on certain things and the methods they adopt, so at this moment Zhang Li is indeed very serious to talk to himself The best friend discusses this matter, maybe my best friend has always been resistant to the matter of feelings, hoping to choose the most perfect partner who fully meets the standards according to her own mood.

I can empathize with these choices and insist on the bottom line, and at the same time express my full understanding, but it does not mean that I can use the reason of hurting others as the price in this matter. Everyone's feelings and contributions should be taken seriously, and he doesn't want his best friend to go on the road of playing with other people's feelings or hurting others. Naturally, he needs to give corresponding warnings before the beginning. A real good friend is in you When you do something wrong, you can immediately jump out and correct you without any scruples. Sometimes middle age is harsh to the ear. If you really think about the problem from your standpoint and think about it all for your own good, you may give a lot of suggestions and words, which are not so easy for people to accept.

"What kind of person do you think I am? Is my impression in your heart so bad? Yes, I may not like him that much, but as far as the blind dates I have come into contact with so far, this one is already considered a dwarf. Pick the big one. In comparison, I think this one is still within the scope of my consideration. It can’t be among so many people. I must not make any wrong choices. If any one person does not get in-depth contact and understanding, I will How do I know if two people are so suitable, and I don't have any intention of playing with him, I have already said it very clearly at the beginning, and now I am only in a slightly interested situation, if the other party does not If you mind, you can continue to study further. If it is suitable, it is suitable, and if it is not suitable, it is not suitable. If you can't accept this kind of condition, then there is no problem in rejecting me directly."

Qu Qing looked helpless. He never thought that his random complaints, or his past thoughts, might have given his best friend a bad omen, so when he made a corresponding choice, the other party would subconsciously doubt these things. question. God pity me, although I really don't like this person that much, but I will not take the road of playing with other people's feelings at will, or using the other party as a shield, you must know that these are all actions that violate your conscience.

Maybe it’s because the people I’ve dated before seem to be gentle or good-looking, or the way the other person has been showing all the time, there’s nothing wrong with it. The image that’s too perfect makes me subconsciously maintain it and be vigilant. The other party's long speeches, or the appropriate response, have also become very experienced performances in my own eyes.

On the contrary, Wang Qing's stumbling and not-so-perfect image made me feel very caring involuntarily, and at the same time lost a lot of vigilance, and I didn't imagine the repulsion feeling in my heart for continuing contact with the other party. It’s so strong, anyway, I need to choose a suitable blind date partner. It’s better to choose someone else for temporary contact. At the very least, I can guarantee that in the process of getting along with the other party, I will really devote myself physically and mentally. It's not just messing around.

In other words, two people are currently in a state of unmarried men and women, and both of them are very eager to get rid of this busy state of blind dates, then things are uncertain after that, if two people have a bad temper If you are congenial and feel that your hobbies are a good match, it is natural to walk along the trend and become a couple. At least if you think about it from your current state, you are not so disgusted with the other person's appearance and personality. It's already a very good start.

"Okay, okay, that's my misunderstanding. I was worried that you would do some wrong things. Isn't this also worried about you? Now that you have made up your mind, as a best friend, I must bless you and hope If you can take this kind of emotional life seriously, and decide on your entrusted object early, everything will look perfect."

Zhang Li also knew that his suspicious and warning words just now might sound very unkind, so when his best friend explained clearly, he naturally hugged the other party with a sorry face and immediately apologized. In the state of two people getting along, some people may have done some wrong things unintentionally, and everyone will adopt a very open-minded attitude and apologize immediately, or explain their mistakes to seek the other party's forgiveness, and when this matter passes , the relationship between the two will not be affected in any way, and this may be the main reason why the two have maintained a relatively hot state since graduation.

"Okay, okay, I get it, I think you just think I'm annoying, I don't have a blind date, I'm just a light bulb for you two all day long, after I really have a trust, I don't have to be an eyesore in front of you two, You can show your love and love without any scruples, you know, it's all because I'm too an eyesore, so you can't wait to hope that I will be entrusted as soon as possible."

Seeing that everyone's atmosphere has returned to the previous state, Qu Qing deliberately pretended to be very sad. While squinting his eyes and secretly observing the expression of his best friend, he began to make a very pitiful expression. The look of abandonment.