Live Broadcast: The post-90s generation is raising a child against their will, which is outrageous

Seeing that Tiantian accidentally fell down, and it seemed that she fell quite hard, the second cameraman on the side subconsciously wanted to help Tiantian up.

The viewers in the live broadcast room were also worried.

Everyone saw clearly just now that Tiantian fell very hard, as if she landed on her face!

However, facing Tiantian who was crying loudly, Chen Aijun frowned.

Instead of rushing to pull her daughter up, she sat on the dining chair motionless, just looking at Tiantian with a very speechless look.

"Wuwuwuwu, daddy, daddy, it hurts……"

Tiantian lay on the ground, crying and looking at Chen Aijun.

Chen Aijun remained unmoved.

Still looking at her daughter speechlessly.

This scene stunned the second cameraman, and the viewers in the live broadcast room all stared with their eyes wide open!

No one could figure out what Chen Aijun was doing.

If your child falls and you don’t help him up, why are you still watching indifferently?

"Wuwuwuwu, daddy, it really hurts... Wuwuwuwu……"

Tiantian continued to lie on the ground crying.

My collar was wet from crying, and my big teardrops fell to the ground, soaking wet from crying.

Finally, Chen Aijun reacted to his daughter's cries. However, what everyone expected was that the first words he spoke were not comfort, but full of speechless questions!

"Tiantian, dad asks you, how did you fall?"

"Wuwuwu, just got off the bench, and fell down... all at once!"

Tiantian cried and said

"Right, so you fell down on your own, right?"

"Did anyone push you?"

"Did someone pull you?"

"None!"

Chen Aijun said,

"No one touches you and you fall down!"

"If that's the case, why do you still have the nerve to cry?"

"You fell down yourself, can you blame others?"

"If you want to blame, you can only blame yourself for being useless!"

"How do I usually teach you? I tell you to be careful everywhere and not to be so short-sighted and irritable all the time. Did you listen?"

"As long as you listen to what dad says and pay more attention, you won't fall!"

"……"

Chen Aijun's words suddenly weakened Tiantian's crying a lot.

But the tears still kept flowing down.

Seeing this, Chen Aijun said again,

"Stop lying on the ground and get up quickly!"

"It's a girl's house, not careful at all!"

"As soon as you finish the exercises here, you can't wait to go down. Why are you so anxious? You just want to go down and play!"

"When I usually ask you to study, I have never seen you fall down in a hurry!"

"As long as you are playing, you are more active than anyone else!"

"You deserved it if you fell!"

"Just the thing to make your memory last longer!"

"……"

Chen Aijun's words made Tiantian cry softer, but the grievance on her face became thicker. She climbed up from the ground crying.

He saw that a big red bump had swelled up on her forehead.

Obviously, this was knocked out on the ground just now.

When Chen Aijun saw this, his stern expression showed a hint of distress.

However, in order to ensure that his daughter would have a long memory and not be so careless next time, he still did not show any concern, but continued to sarcastically say,

"Tiantian, does it hurt?"

"Haha, it hurts!"

"This is the price you have to pay for disobeying your father and being careless all day long!"

"If you don't listen to the old man's words, you will suffer the consequences right in front of you. That's what you said!"

"Fortunately, you hit your forehead this time. If you hit your nose, your nose would be broken!"

"From now on, you will have no nose!"

"If you knock it on your teeth, you will have no teeth in the future!"

"Nothing can be eaten!"

"I'm looking at you, do you know to be more careful next time?"

"……"

Chen Aijun's words frightened Tiantian to the core.

She finally didn't dare to cry anymore, choked with sobs, and walked to the sofa to sit down and relax.

When Chen Aijun saw this, he didn't say anything more, got up and went to the kitchen, opened the refrigerator, and took out an ice pack.

"Apply an ice pack to the bump on your forehead yourself!"

Chen Aijun handed the ice pack to Tiantian,

"Apply it for a while!"

"You have to bear with me if it hurts you!"

"It's not that dad doesn't feel sorry for you, but that you are six years old now and you still fall off the bench. I am really speechless for you!"

"In the future, if you accidentally fall down like this again, just keep falling there, I won't care about you!"

"……"

Tiantian was choking and nodding while applying an ice pack to the bump on her forehead.

She also felt that she was so useless.

She was six years old and still fell down.

Moreover,

I made my father angry again...

At the same time, after seeing this scene, the mood of the audience in the live broadcast room became quite complicated!

When a child accidentally fell down,

Chen Aijun's attitude and behavior made many viewers feel angry and speechless at the same time.

You have to say that Chen Aijun doesn't feel sorry for Tiantian.

The key is that he does, and he knows how to get an ice pack and let Tiantian apply it.

Moreover, although the words he said were ugly, they had a good purpose.

He obviously wanted to take this opportunity to educate Tiantian, so that she would have a better memory in the future and pay more attention next time to avoid falling again.

But if you want to say that he feels sorry for Tiantian, but this kind of distress is not much, the way he expresses his distress makes people feel extremely uncomfortable after seeing it, let alone Tiantian, in her When he fell in pain, his father did not come to help him, but instead sarcastically mocked the child from the sidelines...

You can imagine how sad the child was!

So, in general, what Chen Aijun did this time cannot be said to be completely right, but it cannot be said that he is completely wrong either.

In the final analysis, he loves sweetness.

It is this kind of love and the way he expresses it makes people speechless.

"To be honest, I can understand the purpose of Chen Aijun's words. He just wanted Tiantian to remember it for a long time. However, after reading it, I really felt extremely uncomfortable!"

"Yes, the purpose is good, but I think the method is inappropriate. You can criticize her for being careless, but you can talk about it another time. If you should be concerned, you still need to care in time."

"Otherwise, in the future, if the children suffer any grievances outside, they will really not dare to tell their parents."

"No, no, no, there are still people cleaning up the ground for Chen Aijun? You must be the sailors he hired with money. Let's do it together if we have bad money!"

"It’s not about washing, but many parents are like this. They feel sorry for their children, but they are also angry that their children are careless. Their ways of expressing love are all kinds of strange. To put it simply, I feel sorry for you, but I don’t say it, but instead criticize. You, please pay attention next time!"

"What you said above is correct. My mother is like this. When I was a child, I was beaten by an older child in the village. I went home and told my mother about it in grievance.……"

"In the end, she gave me a severe lesson, saying that I must have offended someone somewhere before they would hit me. Otherwise, why wouldn't I hit others?"

"I was really wronged at the time, but what I didn’t expect was that after scolding me, my mother went directly to the eldest children’s homes to settle accounts with them.……"

"I love you, but I don’t say it. I feel sorry for you, but I don’t say it either... In the past, the older generation of parents educated their children like this. In the final analysis, the traditional concepts are too heavy, and they are no longer the children of today.…"

"Look at Brother Lu taking care of Tongtong, love is love, I love you and I will say it loudly to let you know that daddy loves you and will never hide his love!"

"Hahaha, you guys can pull it off. Even if Chen Aijun feels sorry for his child, he can't say that. Tongtong feels so sad!"

"Tongtong is so sad. The girl who fell down is Tiantian, but Tongtong didn’t fall down! (face covering pg)"

"……"

Regarding Chen Aijun's approach, the audience in the live broadcast room started a heated discussion.

Although everyone hates Chen Aijun now, one thing is that in reality, there are really too many parents like Chen Aijun.

It can be said that the vast majority of Chinese-style parents are like this. (To read exciting novels, go to Feilu Novel Network!)

When their children encounter danger or are wronged, their first reaction is not to care and Feeling distressed is instead criticizing.

After scolding you in the face,

I will silently feel sorry for you and care about you.

Just like there is a word called deep loveFull of responsibility.

The more I love you, the more I will blame you and make you remember!

There are also such examples in many film and television works,

《Guan Zu in"New Police Story" grew up under the love of his father, so when he grew up, he hated his father and went to extremes.

But can you say that he doesn't love his father? cannot! [ ]

When facing arrest, he unloaded the last bullet and aimed an empty gun at his father.

If there really wasn't any love, he wouldn't need to do this.

Likewise, can you say that his father doesn't love him? also can not!

After all, when Guan Zu was shot and fell to the ground, the one who cried the most sadly was his father.

Therefore,

Chen Aijun's way of expressing love is really too common.

In the past, few people would criticize this approach.

However, as today's young people become more and more broad-minded and open- minded, they naturally become more and more disgusted with this kind of deep love from their parents.

On the contrary,

I prefer Lu Yu's kind.

If you love her, just say it out loud and express it directly to the child, so that the child can truly feel your care and let her feel her position in the heart of the parents..

Just like that, amidst the discussion of the audience, Tiantian finally stopped choking in the picture , and the big bump on her head gradually became less swollen under the ice pack. Chen Aijun was watching, looking distressed and angry. He even brought iodophor and put it on Tiantian's head.

"You fell so hard this time, you know you have a long memory!"

"Don’t do this again in the future!"

"Be careful in everything and don't be irritable all the time!" Chen Aijun kept talking while applying iodophor on Tiantian's forehead. Tiantian kept nodding and saying apologies. After applying iodophor, Chen Aijun took a look at the time and found that It was already nine forty. Usually at this time, Tiantian had already washed up and was lying on the bed ready to go to bed. It was obviously a bit late today. So, as soon as he put down the iodophor, Chen Aijun started urging Tiantian to go He quickly washed up. After washing up, Chen Aijun hurriedly took Tiantian into the bedroom to prepare for bed. A few minutes later, Tiantian lay on the bed. The big bump on his head still hurt a little, but She didn't dare to say it because she had fallen on her own. If she dared to say it hurt again, her father would be angry again.

"Dad, can you tell me a bedtime story? Tiantian asked cautiously

"It’s too late today, so I won’t tell you anything!"

Faced with his daughter's request,

Chen Aijun refused without hesitation.

"Go to bed quickly, you have to go to school tomorrow!"

"If you don’t get a good rest at night, you will be lack of energy and energy the next day, and you will not be able to study well!"

"So, go to sleep!"

"oh……"

After being rejected, Tiantian looked a little disappointed.

But she still closed her eyes obediently and started to sleep.

After a few minutes,

Tiantian fell asleep, snoring evenly from her mouth.

I played outside for a long time during the day and cried countless times. After I came back, I still wrote calligraphy and did exercises. In addition, I cried a lot just now...

Therefore,

Tiantian has actually lost her energy for a long time. Today Naturally, I fell asleep very quickly.

Looking at his sleeping daughter,

Chen Aijun's face showed helplessness and distress.

He pushed his daughter's hair to both sides, then hurriedly went out, took the ice pack, sat on the edge of the bed, silently applied ice to the big bump on his daughter's head, and continued to apply ice.

As the audience has said before, it's not that he doesn't love Tiantian, and it's not that he doesn't care about his children.

It's just that, like many parents, he sometimes loves his children in a way that makes people uncomfortable.

Amid the sighs and sighs of the audience, the scene turned and the camera was once again switched to Lu Yu, the father of the post-90s generation.

……………predict….