My 1979

In fact, there is no such thing as the thinking of the poor and the thinking of the rich. It is just the chicken soup for the soul that I learned from Chenggong.

Saying that rich people should be like that, or that poor people should be like that, is a bit restrictive.

There is always a reason why you are poor or why you are rich.

Everyone's opportunities are different, or everyone's family environment and education level are the reasons for the gap between rich and poor.

Whether poverty leads to wrong thinking, or wrong thinking leads to poverty, Li He cannot figure out the sequence of cause and effect.

For example, he knows an economic principle and understands that "spending time to save time" is much more economically reasonable than "spending time to save money." However, after his income increases, he still can't change his picky attitude. look.

The same is true for He Fang now. She won't change her past thinking easily just because she has money.

Especially for people like Wang Yulan, who is now a wealthy person, her thinking cannot be changed. There is no need to expect her to have the so-called rich mentality in her life.

But he, Li Laoer, has the clearest understanding of the psychology involved in transitioning from poverty to well-off society.

If you ask him to explain some reasons, the word "information asymmetry" will pop up in his mind. It is information asymmetry that causes the poor to become poorer and the rich to become richer.

When he was ignorant, like his parents, he stood in a low place and always had a blind spot in his understanding of high places.

What changed him?

It’s reading. Through reading, we can reduce the cognitive gap and information gap with others.

So that's why he supports the idea that knowledge changes destiny anyway.

Apart from education, there are other simple ways to alleviate poverty.

The sweat of hard work is best used in reading. To put it more tackily, reading is the best shortcut to becoming a rich man.

Of course, with the advent of the Internet era, everyone relies on fragmented knowledge and thinks they are knowledgeable. Everyone thinks that they have bridged the information gap, but they don’t realize that knowledge also requires depth.

After buying the things, Li He knew without asking that He Fang didn't want to go shopping any more. She was never happy with anything that involved spending money. The things she bought were basically for her children, and she basically didn't want to go shopping. I didn’t buy it, it has nothing to do with how much money I have.

He walked down the street with three women, which caused a lot of heads turning. It wasn't because of him. He was such a domineering CEO with a stupid face. Outsiders didn't know his true identity, so he was just a passerby. It was nothing more than three beautiful women that attracted the attention of passers-by!

He Fang's tight jeans made her legs look slim and slim, making her figure look slim and slim.

The fourth man brushed his long hair blown by the wind with his hands, and there was a faint smile on his lips, which made people feel friendly.

Even Lao Wu has grown up, running back and forth with the same happy smile on his face no matter where he is.

The 24th day of the twelfth lunar month is the Small New Year, and it is a festival to worship the Kitchen Lord.

However, in some northern places, the Chinese New Year is celebrated on the 23rd. She and Li He argued for a long time about which day to celebrate the Chinese New Year, and she finally won.

"Twenty-three, the sugar melons are sticky, Master Zaojun wants to go to heaven."

The so-called sugar melon is sugar made from yellow rice and malt.

But where to get sugar melon?

She always felt something was wrong with the sugar melons in supermarkets and candy stores. They tasted too sweet and must contain sucrose and alum.

Authentic Tang Gua tastes slightly sour, crispy, sweet and crispy, with a unique flavor. There is absolutely no honeycomb in the middle. When making it, it takes 4 hours to pass the batter. In addition, you also need to knead the sugar. It takes at least a day to completely make it.

She and Lao Si walked along the streets, and the two of them finally found Tang Gua in an inconspicuous small store. Of course, they were filled with joy.

She is the most particular about these rules, no less behind those old-school people. These rules, whether tangible or invisible, are filled with every aspect of daily life and big and small things.

Li He was really helpless about He Fang's strictures. Maybe on some occasion or at any time, they would appear and restrict his words and deeds.

He Fang said that sometimes rules are also a person's upbringing, and being uneducated is what makes people disgusted.

Li He was speechless.

He Fang asked her aunt to go home. People's hearts are full of flesh. Who doesn't want to go home and reunite with their relatives during the Spring Festival? She can't delay other people's New Year for the sake of her own family. She once wanted to resign her aunt. She had already passed her confinement. She had hands and feet all by herself, and she felt guilty no matter where she needed someone to take care of her.

But as soon as I said this to my aunt, she was shocked, almost in tears, and asked if I had done something wrong. In this way, He Fang felt even more guilty. She never mentioned the matter of her aunt again, and her heart was always soft.

Besides, this aunt was really considerate and considerate in taking care of the children, and she was very decent, and she couldn't bear to part with her.

She thought that the money from Li Laoer's two more bottles of wine would be enough for her aunt's salary.

Li He looked at his aunt's frown before leaving, and probably knew that her aunt was not happy because she was willing to make more money during the Spring Festival. As long as there are visitors during the Spring Festival, she will receive red envelopes when she opens the door.

He shouted to his aunt, "Sister Jiang, come early during the new year."

"Okay. Okay. Then I'll come over in the third grade of junior high school." Sister Jiang turned around and said happily, but hurriedly changed her words, "No, no, I'll come in the first grade of junior high school. If there are guests at home, I won't be able to do it alone."

In the employment relationship of housekeeping, young aunts usually call older uncles and aunts, and when they meet younger ones, they call them by their last names and just say hello. Auntie will usually tell others how to address them when introducing them to their employer.

She was introduced by Yu Dehua, so she naturally called Mr. Li and Mrs. Li as soon as she arrived.

Li He didn't care, but He Fang was opposed to it. Just call her "big girl".

Auntie was very coy at first but now she has become more fluent now. She has been the host of many families over the years, and the only difference from this family is respect. This family is very kind to her. They don't show off or scold anyone. She likes this kind of family. As long as they respect her, she will be particularly energetic in her work.

He Fang took advantage of the time when the children were sleeping to start cleaning. The fourth child was naturally not idle either. She cleaned up the fifth child and helped her hold a stool. She stood on the stool and took a feather duster to clean the dusty layer in the corners of the roof.

After the roof was cleaned, she cleaned the glass, washed the sheets, and mopped the floor...

He also forced Lao Wu to help clean the range hood and microwave oven, the dirtiest things in the kitchen.

The fifth child was naturally unhappy, but he still couldn't resist the fourth child's nagging.

She couldn't explain why she didn't quarrel with the fourth child now. She probably thought that the fourth child was right. The two sisters had really become pigs after eating and drinking for free every day.

She sighed, and in order to prove that she was not a pig, she pressed the rag against the glass of the window with all her strength.