My 1979

In another twenty years, or even ten years, a woman will probably be able to confidently say, "I can't get enough of you, I'll divorce you," and she will find someone who is worthy of her Prince Charming, even if it may be a mule.

In divorce these days, no matter who is right or wrong, it is all the woman's fault. Women who get divorced are looked down upon and have to speak in a low voice.

Just like this, I can't help but talk nonsense behind my back. You see, this kind of woman deserves no man to want her.

"I said, big girl, can we have a nice chat? Why are you crying all the time?

I didn’t chase you away. Anyway, I’m alone. You can help me be my companion. Isn’t it just to stay here until the end of the year?

What's the big deal? "He Fang couldn't see this woman crying. She was actually younger than herself, only 25 years old.

The man left on the third day, carrying the suitcase without hesitation.

He Fang and Li He came directly over and started to clean up the house. The old furniture that was about to fall apart was thrown into the kitchen, ready to be chopped down for firewood.

The place Li He used to rent in Wangershan had a relatively long lease term, and the house had not yet been vacated. There were still a lot of old furniture, so he moved them over and put them together.

The woman is young, has a good figure, and has an almond-shaped face. She is also very handsome, but her face is not good-looking and her hair is messy.

I wiped my already red and swollen eyes with my sleeve and whispered, "Sister, he just doesn't want me anymore, I feel bad. I know you are a good person, but to be honest. When I married him, my parents I didn't agree to it. Later he returned to the city. I didn't hear from him for two years, and he shamelessly found him. My parents were furious. You said I'm divorced now, and if I go back again, even if My parents can't beat me to death. I don't have the face to see others, and my parents don't have the shame to see others. I can't go back as a last resort."

After saying that, tears started flowing down again.

He Fang felt cold. She was still too impulsive and brought trouble back, but she couldn't ignore them. Seeing that she was still crying, she waved her hands irritably, "Okay, stop crying, three-legged Toads are hard to find, but there are still few men with two legs?

You are a man with swollen eye blisters, a wrinkled nose, alcohol residue, a crippled arm that blocks his legs, and a shit-eating mouth, and you still have it for the New Year.

I can live with you, but how do you make a living? How can it be so easy for you to live in a girl's house? "

The woman didn't laugh or cry after hearing this, so she had to say hurriedly, "Sister, don't worry, I give the neighborhood committee factory a paper box every month, and I get 4 yuan a month, which is enough for me to eat and drink. "

He Fang went out, looked at Li He who was smoking in the corner of the kitchen, walked over and said, "I'll be leaving in a few days, how about I let this girl cook for you?

You two gentlemen are lazy and get on the bed one by one. I'm really afraid that you two will starve to death if I leave? "

Li He was stunned when he heard this. The nanny had already done it for him. She was very forward-thinking and said, "She is just a little girl, so the influence is not very good."

He Fang choked directly, "Don't keep talking like a flat belly, and be quick and easy. Huh, I live with you, why didn't you think about the negative impact? I'm not a big girl emotionally, am I?"

Li He was stunned for a moment, where did this temper come from.

But he really hasn't thought about this issue, probably because he is too familiar with her, and because of He Fang's temper, he doesn't treat her as a girl.

"No, don't everyone know about our relationship, our deep revolutionary friendship? There's no place for us to talk nonsense, but who knows this girl?"

He Fang became even more angry after hearing this. She went back to the living room and said to the girl, "You go to my place to cook. I have a stage. Otherwise, I will have to fall on you. I will pay you according to the market price for a month." Salary, you can go there and take a look later. You can live in this apartment, or you can live there."

The woman waved her hand and said, "Sister, you are benevolent enough to keep me here. I will help you and cook a meal, so how can I charge you money."

As soon as He Fang got home, he took the woman to the kitchen and explained step by step, "Although the old man likes to eat meat, he is old after all, so he can't give too much greasy food. He can't eat spicy food, but you, Brother Li, like to eat spicy food."

So you need two plates of roasted pork. One plate with a small portion, no spicy food, for the old man, and one for you, Brother Li.

Except for soy sauce when roasting meat and soy sauce when roasting fish, no other vegetables require soy sauce. Try to use well water as much as possible. When the faucet is turned on, it will cause a lot of noise and cost money."

He Fang pulled the little girl and talked for a long time.

He Fang discussed the wages with Old Man Li. Old Man Li thought for a while and said, "The market price is only seven or eight yuan, so just give me seven yuan."

Li He said, "Will the payment be less?"

Old Man Li sneered, "What's missing? The doorman who works day and night only costs five yuan a month. Foreign workers who come to the city are paying this price now. Besides, as soon as they come here, you spoil them." If you don't, there will be trouble later. If you win with favor, you will fight with hatred. This sentence should be learned from now on. I am a living example in my life. "

The promotion of rice favor and the fight against rice hatred are the gaps caused by the failure of psychological expectations.

Explained using Maslow's theory, when the needs for food and clothing are met, respect for needs will be required. It's all about gratitude, and high standards of favor can easily become the standard for measuring inner gratitude.

Once it falls below this standard, at least you will no longer be grateful, at worst you will turn against you. In fact, they are all people's inner standards, which can easily follow changes in the outside world and gradually change.

Li He thought for a while, he just didn't know how to behave in his previous life.

Just because you don't know how to behave doesn't mean you're not a good person. Rather, he said that he was a good person, a good old person, and a good bad person.

If you occasionally give a girl a rose, she will definitely think you are romantic. But if you send roses to people every day, if you stop sending them one day, then people may complain.

There is another old story that is poorly written. Once upon a time, there was a kind man who gave a few dollars to beggars every day.

One day, kind people stopped giving money to beggars.

The beggar asked him, why don't you give me any more money?

The kind person said, my child is born and I need to save money to buy milk powder.

The beggar was very angry, how could you do this.

Cai Gen Tan: The kindness gradually fades and becomes strong. If it becomes strong first and then fades, people will forget its benefits.

Only then did Li He feel how profound and profound Chinese culture was.

What I disdained in my previous life is worldliness, I really need to learn from it in this life.

The girl's name was Fu Xia, and she and He Fang got busy in the kitchen that night.

When several plates of dishes were served quickly, He Fang praised, "It's really well cooked, neat and smooth, you two are in a good mood."

Fu Xia smiled and said, "If Sister He teaches you well, I can also cook some home-cooked dishes."

Old Man Li took a bite of the dish himself, smashed it into his mouth, and said to He Fang with a smile, "It's worse than you, but the taste is quite good, so it's okay."

Li He knew in his heart that the dish was not bad at all. It could be said that it was delicious, tasty and tasty.

It's just that Old Man Li is showing off his style as a landlord and wants to train people, so Li He must not be able to rebel.

"Is your home in Baoding?"

Fu Xia replied crisply, "Yes, the most famous thing is the donkey meat roasted on fire. I haven't eaten it in years and I'm hungry."

He Fang said, "Sit down and eat together, don't stand."

"Sister, you eat first, I'll go to the kitchen and bring the soup."

After saying that, he went to the kitchen in a panic.

Old Man Li shook his head and snorted, "Although this girl is not evil, she is not telling the truth."

He Fang smiled and whispered, "Lao Gao, I feel the same way, but I just can't tell what's wrong."

Li He was the only one who was confused, and he didn't realize there was anything wrong.

After thinking about it, I could only sigh. I have lacked emotional intelligence and short-sightedness in my two lives. It seems that I can't cultivate it.