My Haughty Adorable Wife Has Arrived

After eldest cousin Lin Meiting's mood stabilized, Su Xiaowan said gently: "eldest cousin, don't be sad. This little bird will grow up eventually. When its wings harden, it will eventually grow up." Fly far away, the world outside is so big and wonderful, I always want to see it.”

"Niuniu has been an obedient child since she was a child. However, obedient children also have their own ideas. We can control them for a while, but not for a lifetime. We have helped them lay the foundation for this life, but what kind of building do they want to build? It’s up to them to decide on their own house.”

"If you ask me, cousin, just relax and let the bird fly when it grows up. Just live your life well."

"Now that my eldest cousin's business is so big, we don't have to worry about life anymore. I just thought that when Xiaoxuan graduates and can take over the family business, my eldest cousin will be free. You two , I have spent so many years together and away from each other to make a living, so it would be nice to just be a hands-off shopkeeper and go out for a walk.”

When the eldest cousin Lin Meiting heard this, she immediately burst into tears and said with a smile: "You are the only one who can talk and go out to play. The family business is so busy that time is no longer yours, where else can you go to play?"

"Just comfort me. Even if Xiaoxuan graduates, he will have to be familiar with it for several years before he can be entrusted with important tasks. Although I don't understand this, this new baby bird has to be carried for a few days before it can fly. How to hunt."

"Hey ---, actually I don't understand what you said, but in my heart, I just can't get over that hurdle. Niuniu was so obedient and well-behaved when she was a child. Look, what will happen when she grows up? Well, not only did you learn to talk back to me, but you also learned to be disobedient. The more I think about it, the angrier I get."

"She agreed to whatever I said before, but now"

Su Xiaowan listened patiently to her eldest cousin Lin Meiting's nagging. At first, she thought her eldest cousin Lin Meiting was so sad because Niuniu was going to study abroad and she was worried and scared.

However, the taste changed after listening to it. Niuniu had been a very obedient and sensible child since she was a child. Su Xiaowan liked her very much, but sometimes, Su Xiaowan also felt sorry for her little niece.

At such a young age, she is as sensible as a big child. When Tangtang was still having fun, Niuniu had already started studying various art classes. She usually stood and sat down, talked and did things. The child is very stable.

Several times, Su Xiaowan could tell from Niuniu's eyes that she also wanted to play with Tangtang and the others, but she still controlled herself. Even if Su Xiaowan smiled and asked her to go, she wouldn't go. .

My aunt is a lady, so she thinks that Niuniu is a very qualified lady, and my eldest cousin Lin Meiting has always been very convinced of her aunt.

She came from an ordinary family and married into the Song family. Although she was in decline at that time, she was from a serious and scholarly family, so she had always placed her position very low.

The requirements for treating her daughter are even more stringent, and Su Xiaowan sees it. Although she also likes such obedient and sensible children, Su Xiaowan has always felt that children should enjoy a beautiful childhood and adolescence.

As long as parents have a good grasp of the general direction of their children and don't develop their children's temperaments, children who grow freely will be more creative.

Therefore, in private, Su Xiaowan often persuaded her eldest cousin Lin Meiting not to control the children too strictly. A family like theirs did not need their children to marry, so why should they wrong their children so much?

However, the eldest cousin Lin Meiting was extremely stubborn, and her aunt was still an antique, so Niuniu was raised like this.

Although they all lived together, Su Xiaowan could not interfere too much in how other people's children were raised. But now, looking at the behavior of her eldest cousin Lin Meiting, Su Xiaowan frowned.

Although she was worried about Niuniu going to study abroad, she was more angry and upset that the child was out of her control.

Also, Niuniu has been used to being manipulated by her since she was a child. She has never resisted when asked to do whatever she asked. And in the past year or so, what she has done most is to say no. In Su Xiaowan's view, this is a sign that the child is about to Characteristics of growing up.

It's a good thing that she's starting to have her own opinion, because Tangtang started to work against her two or three years ago. She started to make her own decisions about what kind of clothes and shoes she likes, including buying other things.

Niuniu had always listened to her eldest cousin-in-law Lin Meiting, and it was only after she moved into school that she started to make her own decisions.

Su Xiaowan felt that there was nothing wrong with this. The children began to have their own opinions and would not have to worry about being influenced by others in the future.

However, this was a fatal blow to Lin Meiting, the eldest cousin who had always been very controlling. Although she had been respected by everyone in the Song family for so many years, she still felt humble in her heart.

She couldn't catch her eldest cousin Song Yongyi, nor could she catch her son Song Shixuan who went out to study early. Only Niu Niu was a well-behaved child, so she could only hold on to Niu Niu and never let go.

Now, the only person she can control is leaving. How can this not make her panic?

Seeing her eldest cousin crying and talking reminded Su Xiaowan of a single mother in her rescue center.

She is a very controlling person. Her son has to tell her everything she wants to do. Only if she agrees can his son do it. If she disagrees, her son will not dare to do it. Otherwise, his son will be afraid to bear the consequences. of.

It is too easy for a mother to make her son feel guilty and sad, so there is a huge conflict in dealing with her son's girlfriend, and the family is almost restless.

This mother felt that she had suffered a lot of grievances, so she found a rescue center for help. This kind of relationship with unclear boundaries is the biggest murderer of destroying the family.

When children grow up, they will always fly away, and they cannot be stopped. Moreover, when children grow up, they will have their own lives, their own lovers, and their own small families, and there must be a clear boundary with their original families.

The biggest problem of this mother is that she can't distinguish this boundary. She thinks that her son is born by her, so he should be hers. She has worked hard to raise her son, but now he is good to another woman, which she can't accept.

Although the eldest cousin's wife Lin Meiting did not reach this point, she also has this problem. It is not advisable to excessively interfere with the children's choices to satisfy her desire for control.

Although the child is still young and needs the guidance and supervision of adults, such a major life decision still needs to listen to the children's own wishes. Niu Niu is not a child who doesn't care about trivial matters. She has been stable since she was a child and has long-term considerations. Therefore, although Su Xiaowan doesn't know why this child doesn't like to go home in the past year, she doesn't object to the choice she made. Su Xiaowan knows that someone like Lin Meiting, the eldest cousin's wife, can't change overnight. It's better for her to talk to Niu Niu as soon as possible. However, before she can take any action, Han Yiwei made a bigger incident, which caught her off guard.