My Koi Fish Wife

Fang Qiuyun hesitated, as if he didn't know how to answer this question.

"Since you have a crush on him, why are you avoiding him? Do you think nothing will happen if you two don't talk? The awkwardness between you two can be seen by anyone with a discerning eye.

So, don’t say some duplicitous things. You can’t deceive others, nor can you deceive yourself, so why bother! "

Seeing that Fang Qiuyun's expression was a little relaxed, Qin Yiling knew that her words had touched her, so she directly asked what she was thinking.

"Do you feel unworthy because of what happened in the past?"

Fang Qiuyun raised his head suddenly, his lips twitching, "I, I"

Yes, that's what she was thinking in her heart. How could she, a broken woman, expect a man to accept her without any grudges?

Although the Madam often emphasized to them that women should be independent and self-respecting, self-respecting and self-reliant, and should respect men and women equally, the Madam taught them a lot, and they recognized it, and in their daily lives, they also worked hard and worked hard. Pass this concept on to the sisters around me.

But it is one thing to admit that you understand. When you actually face this matter, you will inevitably feel a little confused. After all, this is the concept of this era.

Although they don't mind how others look at them, they are afraid that others will look at them differently or criticize the important people around them.

What's more, there are still some people in the national army who know their experiences, and those people are very close to Gao Wei.

If the two of them come together, what will those people think of Gao Wei? Will you dislike it and look down upon it?

Gao Wei is a very good and capable man. Even if he has scars on his face, it will not affect his stalwart image and talents.

And she knew that many sisters in the nursing team had a crush on Gao Wei, and those girls were more pure and flawless than herself.

Therefore, she was timid. She couldn't cross that hurdle, so she put away her thoughts and distanced herself from Gao Wei. Fortunately, neither of them tore the window paper, so there was nothing to talk about. The object is no longer relevant.

Qin Yiling said something very domineering, "If I really love someone, I will never give him up to anyone, because I'm afraid that others won't love him as much as I do."

Fang Qiuyun was slightly startled.

Qin Yiling smiled and explained again, "It's not that I don't feel pain in my back when I stand and talk, I just want to express my view on love. If you really like someone, you will believe that you can make that person happy.

On the other hand, if you can't even decide whether you can give the other person happiness, it only means that the relationship is not deep enough.

Because when a person completely enters your heart and the relationship becomes strong, a kind of overwhelming courage and confidence will be born. You will work hard for the other person and become a better person for the other person. "

"." Fang Qiuyun was silent, feeling that his mind was in chaos, with many thoughts passing by, but he couldn't catch them.

Qin Yiling paused, "To put it simply, if the other person also likes you and you like the other person, then do you know what the other person cares about most?"

Fang Qiuyun shook his confused head.

Qin Yiling could only say sincerely: "What you can't give to the other person is what the other person expects. No one will like 'I am doing it for your own good', 'I love you', 'Without me you will definitely meet someone better than me'" Better people' and stuff like that.

Ask yourself, would you like someone to say good things for you, but force you to accept all realities? The relationship between men and women is the same.

If Gao Wei cares about your previous experiences, he just wants to get the same feelings from you. If Gao Wei cares about your previous experience, then he will not be passionate about you. "

Qin Yiling's idea is very simple. Sometimes feelings are mysterious. Who knows if you don't give it a try?

If she likes a man, then she will believe that she can give him happiness, and because she loves him, she will want to give him the best.

You want to help the other person, but who knows if the other person can treat him like you do?

Therefore, if you want to make the other person happy, you can feel more at ease by leaving it to others.

Fang Qiuyun was stunned. His usually cold face now showed a dull expression.

After a long silence, she asked quietly, "Maybe he doesn't care if he likes me now, but if time goes by and someone talks about what happened before, will he mind?"

Qin Yiling smiled, "Silly girl, who can say for sure what will happen in the future? People have three emotions and six desires, and it is human nature for people's hearts to change. There is nothing to worry about.

You are with the other person now, not in the future. As long as things don't change now, then enjoy life and break up when things change. After all, people will break up sometimes, it's just a matter of time. "

Fang Qiuyun was slightly surprised, with a look of shock on his face. Of course, this 'surprise' was just because he was shocked by Qin Yiling's words.

"Think about it for yourself. Whether we are together or not, you must make it clear to the other person. Being so unclear is not good for anyone." Qin Yiling added.

Fang Qiuyun nodded, "Yes, I understand. Thank you, madam."

"Why are you thanking me? I didn't want to help you with anything. You can only figure it out yourself. Others can't help you."

Qin Yiling chuckled lightly, the same words, if you hear them, it makes sense, but if you don't, it's just a bunch of nonsense, so you have to rely on yourself for everything.

"Well, I'll think about it."

Afterwards, Fang Qiuyun left the backyard and continued to work.

Qin Yiling didn't know whether today's conversation would resolve Qiu Yun's knot in her heart. After all, she was not her, so she couldn't really empathize with him. She just hoped that Qiu Yun wouldn't suppress herself too much.

Recalling Pingping's strange behavior before, Qin Yiling suddenly had a headache.

What's going on with the girls around her? Everyone is so short-spirited.

If you ask her to tell you, she's so scared!

If you don’t take advantage of your youth and have plenty of time to make things happen, why don’t you wait until illness and accidents come?

Besides, she thought the golden flowers around her were quite nice.

Anyone who still dislikes it is really blind.

The purity of the soul, the beauty of the character, these inner beauties are much cleaner than the impurity of the body.

On the third day, Gao Wei and Fang Qiuyun came to Qin Yiling together.

Gao Wei bowed, "Madam, I like Qiuyun and want to marry her. I hope to get your and the commander's blessing. Your kindness to Qiuyun is like a reborn parent, and you are equivalent to Qiuyun's natal family.

Therefore, I want to marry Qiuyun, and I hope you can come forward to preside over our wedding. As you know, I am also alone in my family. There are no elders who can come forward to manage it, and some procedures and customs are not very clear. "

Qin Yiling happily responded, "This is a good thing, congratulations! Leave this matter to me and Aunt Shuangxi, I promise to handle it properly for you."

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