Parental Qualification Certificate

Children's Day in 3063 AD is the 50th anniversary of the formal establishment of the "Parent Qualification Certificate" system of the Earth Alliance.

From New Year's Day in 3063, the discussion on this system has not stopped.

In opinion polls, the proportion of citizens who support the system is higher than 50 years ago, but those who oppose the system remain tough.

On the eve of June 1st, Su Yutan publicly published a signed article, "Why do we need a Parental Certificate?" ", To support this system.

In view of her legendary experience and the identity of public figures of famous painters, her article quickly became the focus of public and major media attention.

The "Focus People" section of the Earth News Channel invited her to an exclusive interview.

After careful consideration, Su Yutan agreed.

The interview location is in the studio of "Focus People".

Su Yutan is seventy years old, but due to various well-developed beauty and maintenance methods, she looks only thirty or forty years old.

The hostess is Jesse.

After welcoming Su Yutan, she first broadcast a short documentary and reviewed some of Su Yutan's experiences.

The documentary began with the case of Xu Zhenni's killing of her husband and child abused the Earth Alliance that year, and talked about how Su Yutan became a social worker and several cases handled while working as a social worker.

What Su Yutan didn't expect was that this documentary even found the appearance of several small clients.

The first to appear was Jiang Miao's daughter Jiang Beier.

Because of his good relationship with Jiang Miaomiao, Su Yutan is also familiar with Jiang Beier.

When Jiang Beier grew up, he majored in criminal psychology and criminal investigation. Now he is a crime analyst of the police, and has solved many large and small cases.

She is quite successful in her career.

But in life, her father's affairs have become a Kaner in her heart, which makes it difficult for her to trust men.

She has said more than once: her father looks so good! But he was actually so scum and so bad. Are men so beastly?

Psychological factors plus professional factors make Jiang Beier lack of interest in men. Although she had been in love a few times without any pain, each relationship ended in a breakup.

Today, Jiang Belle is in her early fifties and is still a single dog, which makes Jiang Miaomo feel heartache and helplessness.

But in this documentary, Jiang Beier revealed the engagement ring on her hand and said to Su Yutan, "I finally found someone who I dare to marry and would marry. Surprise? Anyway, my mother is happy or bad. Now. "

She smiled with some emotion, and said, "Aunt Su, thank you for saving me and my mother from those lies and the use! Thank you for your example! You can create two" miracles ", I What little psychological obstacle can't be overcome? "

Su Yutan couldn't help laughing.

This is true for mother and daughter! Such good news that they kept hiding from her and let her be told in such a way.

The second person to appear in the picture was Du Gufan.

Dugufan is the child who changed his name by himself and was rejected by his parents.

Because of the psychological trauma left by his parents, Lone Fan refused to be adopted and grew up in a child welfare center. Now he has become a famous writer.

Su Yutan has seen his work. His style of writing is sweet and spicy, and his deconstruction of human nature is extremely precise and sharp. When he reads, he felt sour and stimulating, and had an aftertaste of aftertaste.

In this documentary, Duke Fan clicked on an old notebook in his hand: "Remember this diary? This is for you. You asked me to write down my thoughts and stop thinking about that after writing. idea.

"I tried it and thought it worked well. I wrote more and more and slowly became a writer."

He picked up another book: "This is my new book. The title is" Tears in My Heart. "The hero is based on myself. I asked the show crew to bring you one. The title page of the book has My signature and what I want to say.

"That sentence, I also want to say it once publicly here: Auntie Su, you are the best social worker in my mind."

This child!

Su Yutan couldn't help shaking his head, took the book from Jesse, opened the front page of the book, and looked at it. Sure enough, he saw that the vigorous handwriting wrote the same words.

In the interstellar era, an ordinary storage can hold a large number of books, but because of cultural and heritage reasons, paper books have not magically disappeared.

Of course, today's paper books are all collector's editions, much more expensive than e-books.

The third person to appear is Anuo.

That year, after Arnold was sent to the Earth Alliance's border station by a flying saucer, the border police immediately blocked the border, searched that star field, and finally found the wreckage of the spacecraft and the body of Cui Linlin.

Afterwards, Arnold was sent back to Earth and returned to Qiao's house.

After Avril married Qiao Dongfeng, Anuo had a new mother and several siblings.

Avril Lavigne has always had a problem with Arnold, but she is not a person who will anger her children. Her stepmother does not care for her heart, but she also does her duty.

After understanding Arnold, she was very good to Avril and a few siblings.

When he was in college, Arnold chose a social work major, determined to devote his life to the cause of protecting minors.

After graduation, he became a social worker at the Xinhai Social Affairs Bureau, using the same cabinet that Su Yutan had used that year—he asked a senior to change to this cabinet for a month.

More than ten years ago, Anuo married a very cute girl and gave birth to a son and a daughter. Today, his two children are in high school, and the family lives happily.

Arnold never lost his temper against his wife and children. Leaving the environment of the misty star domain, the tyrannical tradition passed down from generation to generation has stopped abruptly in him and no longer exists.

In this documentary, Arnold raised a big smile: "Today I'll call you Auntie Su! I take this opportunity to say a few words that I am embarrassed to say face to face.

"Aunt Su, after I grow up, at every moment of great happiness, I will deeply thank you in my heart, thank you for saving me, and giving me the opportunity to have my present life."

Su Yutan smiled and shook her head.

She said silently: No thanks! It was my duty to save you then.

Arnold sighed, and said, "At the same time, I will always be afraid. Because only a little bit, I will miss the current life.

"If you didn't save me in the first place, there would not be so many things later. Maybe you will still be a social worker now, but I don't know what it will become. It is very likely that I will repeat me The mother ’s misfortune inherited her tragedy and passed it on from generation to generation ... ”

Su Yutan thought: It is regrettable that she cannot continue to be a social worker. But if there are no subsequent events, she may not be able to get the "Parental Qualification Certificate", and there may not be those children later.

Therefore, things in the world are often dependent on one another.

Arnold also said, "But it doesn't matter. You are no longer a social worker, and me, and many others can be social workers. We will work together to pass on the responsibilities and morals you have said from generation to generation."

Finally, he made a "come on" gesture.

The documentary ends here.

Jessie asked Su Yutan with a smile: "Seeing the children you helped back then has today's happiness, how do you feel?"

Su Yutan sighed: "I am very happy for them. There is also a bit of regret ... I have not been working as a social worker for a long time."

"If you have more time for social work, can you help more children?"

"Yes."

"What do you think is the most helpful for these children?"

Su Yutan said without hesitation: "It is a system. It is a gradually improved system of protection of minors, social welfare system and" Parental Qualification Certificate "system.

"Without these systems, you have to watch some children abuse, neglect, abandonment, and control by their parents or other guardians, but there is nothing they can do.

"For example: If a child is abused, who will find out about it? Who will handle it? Should they be deprived of their guardianship? Who will be deprived of it? If deprived, who will raise the child in the future? Alimony By whom?

"These issues are very specific and realistic, and cannot be properly resolved without a sound system."

"That's why you support the Parental Qualifications System?"

"Correct!"

"But some opponents say: The birth rate of the population is so low now. Is the" Parental Qualification Certificate "worsening and making the birth rate even lower?"

Su Yutan shook his head: "The fertility instinct has always been engraved in our genes. The reason for the decline in the birth rate of the population has never been the" Parent Qualification Certificate "system, but the economic level, living pressure, parenting conditions and our own psychology problem."

"I think: the" Parental Qualification Certificate "system is conducive to reducing the psychological problems of the next and the next generation. In the long run, it is beneficial to increase people's fertility desire and increase the birth rate of the population."

"It is also said that fertility is a basic right of a person. Is the" Parental Qualification Certificate "system a violation of human rights?"

Su Yutan raised an eyebrow, and her face was a little colder: "Does an adult have the right to childbearing, but the child does not have the right to a healthy environment for growth? Where does the person who speaks such words place their rights?

"When the rights of adults conflict with the rights of children, I am more inclined to safeguard the rights of children. Because adults can and must be responsible for their actions, and when children are born, they are passive and cannot help themselves Selected."

Jesse Simmer asked, "So, do you want the" Parental Qualification Certificate "system to persist?"

Su Yutan shook her head again: "No, I hope it disappears soon."

Jesse was very surprised: "I don't quite understand! Don't you support this system?"

Su Yutan said: "I agree with the president of the Anti-Domestic Violence Foundation: We did not establish this system to discriminate against fertility, not to prevent a certain type of people from leaving bloodlines, but to force all people who want to People who are parents take seriously to learn how to be good parents.

"If one day, without the constraints of the system, everyone will do it automatically and voluntarily, then the system will have no value and can automatically disappear."

Jesse stayed a moment: "Will there be such a day?"

Su Yutan shrugged slightly: "I don't know. Just like a thousand years ago, I couldn't imagine when the" Parental Qualification Certificate "system could be established or not."

"It's true." Jesse nodded thoughtfully, and started a new topic, "What about those who can't pass the test but want to have children?"

Su Yutan said easily: "The first way, they can donate their own germ cells. Perhaps one or two decades later, a girl or young man came over and said to them: Hi, I am your daughter or son .

"You don't have to bear the parenting responsibilities they can't afford, you can have your own bloodline descendants, isn't it?

"That's what I did. It was just an accident. I met my eldest daughter in advance."

Jesse couldn't help laughing, "This is indeed a good way. What about the second way?"

Su Yutan said: "The second method, I also set an example. When I passed the" Parental Qualification Certificate ", I was still a grade 6 latent patient, so I passed the exam and was called a" miracle ". .

"Why can I get the certificate, and those who are not as sick as I am, or even not? Can't get the certificate? I think they should reflect on their problems rather than the complaint system.

"Finding problems, solving problems, and regenerating children when they are ready. It's better for them, for their children."

At the end of the interview that day, Jesse broadcast another documentary, which shows the materials of various cases of infringing on the rights of minors for many years, and the commentary is Su Yutan's "Why do we need a Parental Certificate? Excerpt from

When Su Yutan bid farewell to Jesse, a nice mezzo-soprano was reading that part of the text:

When referring to the word parent, people often use words such as greatness and selflessness.

I admit that most parents deserve such praise.

But as a victim of the Xu Zhenni case, as a person who has been working as a social worker, I also want to say: not all parents have that quality.

Some parents' harm to their children may even make them think "I would rather you not give birth to me".

Faced with such complaints, some parents will reflect on themselves, while others will push their faults on their children or others and consider themselves to be right.

Are such people eligible to be parents?

I think: in an age like this, they are not there.

What qualities should you have as a parent?

First, before you decide to have children, you must ask yourself: Why should I have children?

If you have children just to follow the crowd, to compare with others, it is because others have children, so you must have them.

Then, please let the children go!

If you have a child, you do it for some purpose, such as to alleviate family conflicts and obtain financial benefits.

Then, please let the children go!

If you have children, it is because you like children, and it is just because you like children.

Then you have the preliminary qualifications to be a parent.

The most important thing to be a qualified parent is that you love your child from the bottom of your heart.

Because children are very weak before they grow up, you need to invest a lot of time, energy, money and intelligence to take care of tA and protect tA.

Your love for children is the source of all your efforts.

Without this source of motivation, you will be too hard to pay, you will lack patience, and you will become increasingly irritable and distressed because of all the troubles your child brings. Raising a child will become your burden; being raised by you will become a child's misery.

To be a qualified parent, love is not enough. It should also be knowledgeable and knowledgeable.

You need basic health knowledge to know how to reduce your child's risk of contracting an illness.

You need to have basic knowledge in psychology and pedagogy to understand how to help, guide and protect your children.

If your child goes bad, becomes negative, and becomes unhappy, you watch as tA goes awry on a wrong, dangerous, dark road, but is helpless, or even ignorant about it, then you are really Not qualified parents.

In life, you will always encounter difficulties and bumps. Therefore, to be a qualified parent, you must have a strong mind.

You should at least do one thing: no matter what difficulties and adversity you are in, don't vent your anger, resentment, and temper to your child, because the child is more innocent and helpless than you.

I don't expect those who are of low moral character to think wholeheartedly about their children. That is unrealistic.

I count on: The "Parental Qualification Certificate" system can make it less easy for those who are not eligible to be parents to get the chance to hurt their children.

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When Su Yutan stepped out of the studio, Qiao Wangchuan was waiting for her outside.

She went over and took his hand, and said to him, "Let's go after the sun!"

The so-called "chasing the sun" is a romantic activity unique to the UFO era.

Near the sunset longitude of the earth, sitting on a flying saucer flying backwards at the linear speed of the earth's rotation, you can see that the sunset has been hanging in the sky, as if catching up with the setting sun.

"Okay! Let's go after the sun." Qiao Wangchuan said pettingly.

The two sat on the flying saucer, applied for the "sun chase route", and flew towards the longitude of the sunset at this time.

Sitting in a flying saucer, looking at the beautiful sunset that seemed to be unable to fall in the sky, Su Yutan said to Qiao Wangchuan, "Do you know why I suddenly want to chase the sun today?"

"why?"

"Because I remember the myth of Kua ’s pursuit of the sun. Kua ’s pursuit of the sun is often used to describe unrealistic dreams. Today I hope that the" Parent's Qualification Certificate "system will one day disappear, and people hope a thousand years ago Like building this system, they are exaggerating their father's dream of chasing Japan. "

Qiao Wangchuan smiled and said, "But we can already 'catch up with the sun' today. It can be seen that such a dream is not so unrealistic."