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Chapter 596 Boys are poor, girls are rich

"What did you say?" Zhang Taiping asked, sitting next to her, leaning against the lion's soft and warm fur.

"Where are you going to plant these plum trees?"

Zhang Taiping pointed to Peach Blossom Mountain to the south of the pond and said, "Let's plant it on this mountain."

"Isn't it already full of peach trees?" Cai Yazhi asked puzzledly.

Zhang Taiping replied: "Peach trees have been planted, but they are not full. When the peach trees were planted, there was only a large gap left. Now, planting plum trees into it will not affect the growth of the peach trees."

"What do you do when you plant plum blossom trees?" In fact, this is what Cai Yazhi wants to ask the most.

Zhang Taiping said: "It is cheaper to buy trees when they are small now, and they can be sold when they grow up. But the most important thing is the ornamental value. The peach blossoms on the mountain mainly bloom in spring, and in winter the mountain becomes barren."

, just like now. If plum blossoms are planted, they will add a lot of vitality to the mountain. And most of what I buy are red plums. Imagine that it snows in winter and the whole world turns white. Only this

The mountain is a fiery red, what a beautiful scene it must be.”

Cai Yazhi imagined it with blurred eyes, and after a while she said honestly: "I can't imagine it."

Zhang Taiping was immediately amused by her, kissed her on the forehead and said: "Anyway, it's beautiful. You can see it when it snows next year."

Cai Yazhi didn't speak anymore, she leaned in his arms and looked up at the stars. The air quality in the mountain village was good, and the stars in the sky were particularly clear. There was no moonlight at the end of the month, and the sky was full of stars, which was also very good.

"Do you remember what happened when we were kids?"

Zhang Taiping thought about it carefully and found that he didn’t have many memories of his childhood. The only thing he had was two little girls, one big and one small, with runny noses following him. He said with a smile: “I remember a little girl with a runny nose as a teacher.

"

"The teacher there has a runny nose. It's only in the winter that the nose often runs." Cai Yazhi said, giving him a gentle hammer.

Zhang Taiping didn't remember much, and he had something in his mind. He changed the subject and said, "Oh, it's already this time, why haven't you seen my little sister back? What did she do?"

"My little sister said it was a social practice in school. She and her classmates went out for practice and said they wouldn't come back until tomorrow," Cai Yazhi said.

Zhang Taiping also has college experience and knows what this is all about.

Cai Yazhi gently stroked her belly and asked, "What do you think this child will be called if he is born?"

Decades ago, people named their children all names of animals or common things, which indicates that they chose such ordinary names in the hope that their children would live as tenaciously as these things, because of the material and ordinary things at that time.

The survival rate of children with low medical standards is not high. But you don’t have to worry about this problem now. It’s natural to give your child a nice and meaningful name.

Zhang Taiping said: "As for nicknames, if it's a girl, it's Nini, and if it's a boy, it's Dandan."

"What about the name?"

Zhang Taiping said: "As for the name, if the girl is named Zhang Huaijin, the boy will be called Zhang Woyu. If the twins are a dragon and a phoenix, they just form Huaijin Holdyu. Jin and Yu both mean beautiful jade, and together they are Huaijin Holdyu.

It is a metaphor for a person’s pure and beautiful character.”

Yaya's given name is Zhang Yutong, which also means beautiful jade. She also hopes that she can be as clean and self-possessed and of high moral character as beautiful jade.

"Huai Jin, Wo Yu." Cai Yazhi murmured these two names and said with shining eyes, "These two names are very good and have good meanings, so let's call them these two names."

"If a boy is born then, we must be stricter and not be too pampering." Zhang Taiping said. He knew that Cai Yazhi had always wanted to give birth to a boy, and he was afraid that if she really gave birth to a boy, he would be too precious.

, spoiled the child rotten.

Cai Yazhi nodded and said: "I understand this truth. It is said that if you don't let go, you will be useless. Boys should naturally be stricter."

"That's what it means." Zhang Taiping said, "Girls should be pampered appropriately."

"Why do girls need to be pampered a little more, aren't they afraid of being spoiled?" Cai Yazhi was a little puzzled.

Zhang Taiping said: "People often say 'boys should be raised poor, girls should be rich', which means that boys should grow up in a relatively difficult environment. The road to growth for boys should not be too smooth, and setbacks should not be allowed.

Instead of his parents going through it for him, he should let him go through it on his own and teach him how to overcome setbacks.

Learn a lesson and let him suffer a little, so that he can be strong and not easily constrained by the environment of being a rich man, and have a tough character. Only with a persevering and positive character can he

Only when you go further in your life will you have a broader sky."

Seeing that she was listening carefully, Zhang Taiping continued: "Just like Xiao Jin and Xiao Feng's children were born, they would directly push the children who had grown feathers but could not fly off the cliff, and let the children learn to fly in the air.

Under the pressure of life and death, the little eagle naturally strives to spread its wings. This is the easiest and fastest way to learn to fly, and only in this way can it truly become an eagle soaring in the sky."

"Is it like what Mencius said, 'Toughing up one's mind and working out one's muscles and bones'?" Cai Yazhi asked.

"Yes! That's the truth." Zhang Taiping nodded and said, "There is a saying that goes, 'In the rivers and lakes, if you beat others with blood, you will also beat your son.' If you also adopt the strategy of enriching your son, your son will be beaten."

He has lost the ability to "grab for food", and it is impossible for parents to take care of him for a lifetime. Under normal circumstances, no one will take over your baton. In this way, if you spoil your son for the first half of his life, you will ruin it.

The rest of my son’s life.”

Cai Yazhi nodded and asked: "So what does it mean for a girl to be rich?"

Zhang Taiping replied: "If a girl wants to be rich, she must pay attention to cultivating her sense of superiority, because the sense of superiority is the basis for a girl to have self-confidence and a good temperament. For girls, the most important thing is a healthy mentality, a gentle and virtuous person"

A good character and a clean and healthy body are good. To achieve this, the girl who is naturally sensitive must live in a carefree and filterless living environment, and try to meet her life requirements and let her

Once she feels the beauty of life, she will face the world with a happy and sunny attitude."

Cai Yazhi became interested. She looked up at Zhang Taiping who was talking eloquently and asked, "What about doing this?"

"First of all, we need to teach her self-respect and self-love; we need to teach her kindness and caring, because kindness and caring are the greatest and most beautiful qualities of a woman; and the third thing is to create a good temperament in her, because a woman's beauty can never rely solely on

Appearance. In addition to giving girls better material conditions, it is also necessary to broaden their knowledge and horizons. Let her know how to distinguish and protect herself from being tempted by the outside world. "

Zhang Taiping himself has come out of hardships, but his hardships seem to be a bit too much. He has a feeling of returning to the ordinary after going through many vicissitudes. He has no ambitions anymore and just wants to live this leisurely life. This

It has nothing to do with the existence of space.

However, he does not want his children to be uncrowned kings in a small mountain village like himself. He hopes that they can go out of the mountains and fly freely in the wider world. This is probably the general nature of a parent.

Cai Yazhi asked: "It is a bit difficult to not spoil the child but also to cultivate her sense of superiority."

Zhang Taiping said: "I will control this time, and you will just cooperate when the time comes."

"Okay, you can take the big picture. I don't know how to educate children." Cai Yazhi nodded.

The two talked for a long time under the starry sky before returning.

When he arrived in the yard, Zhang Taiping suddenly remembered that the fat man was coming tomorrow, and said to Cai Yazhi: "Tomorrow the fat man will come to pay New Year's greetings to the old man. Please let the family prepare."

"Come so early?"

Zhang Taiping said: "Maybe there are too many relatives leaving after the first day of the new year, so I will come early tomorrow."

"Yes, I understand." Cai Yazhi nodded and responded.

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