Quick wear is not a cannon fodder

And because Fang Erniang had figured it out, she was not sad when she saw her husband's family talking about the divorce. On the contrary, she felt relieved. After all, she was really not satisfied with her husband's family at all. She had not been happy since she got married. However, now that she has left, she even feels that it is not a bad thing.

She couldn't find an excuse to leave before, but now she can leave openly. How good it is. When she goes back, she will ask her mother to find those high-ranking clans for her. If she can't marry into them, she can join them as a concubine. When she thinks about being able to marry into them in the future, she wants to Not only did Fang Erniang not feel uncomfortable with the divorce, but on the contrary, she felt happy.

After returning with the dowry, he saw that Mrs. Fang was planning to find a match for her, so he told her his thoughts.

"With my current reputation and my second marriage, it's impossible to marry into a good family. Instead of marrying into one of those rubbish families, why not mother help me find a high-ranking clan and let me be my concubine? I know Mother feels that the concubine of the eldest daughter of the Earl's Palace is a bit low-priced and does not save face. However, my current situation does not allow me to be picky, so mother agrees to my proposal." Fang Erniang begged.

She wasn't afraid that she wouldn't be able to enter a high-ranking clan as a concubine. After all, given her condition, it was impossible to get married, but there were always people who were willing to take a concubine.

What she is most afraid of now is her own parents. For the sake of face, she feels that it would be shameful for a legitimate daughter from the Earl's Palace to be a concubine. She would rather marry herself down and be a wife than marry herself into the prince's palace as a concubine. , that would be bad, so at this time, he tried his best to explain the advantages of being a concubine. It is nothing more than marrying into a high-level clan, and the child will have a future at least, rather than marrying into a low-level family, and the child will have a future. He has no future and is about to become a white body and a strong man.

Mrs. Fang Er heard that Fang Erniang said that she wanted to marry a high-ranking clan member as a concubine. She did feel that having her own daughter as a concubine was a bit unsightly, but her daughter's words were also true.

In my daughter's current situation, it was difficult to get married in a serious manner, so she hesitated.

In the end, it was Fang Erniang who persuaded Mrs. Fang Erniang. Fang Erniang said: "I know that mother feels that it is difficult to save face, but my daughter is going to marry someone with poor conditions. If mother says it, she will lose face, so she might as well marry me to Being a concubine in a high-ranking clan may not be a good thing for the first few years, but after a few years, when I give birth to a child and have a bright future, others will think that our choice now is the right one."

These words completely convinced Mrs. Fang. Mrs. Fang also thought that it would be too embarrassing to marry into an ordinary family. It would be better to be a concubine for a high-ranking family.

So the second lady Fang nodded in agreement.

Seeing Mrs. Fang Er's nod in agreement, Fang Erniang couldn't help being happy, and immediately said: "Mother, you must help your daughter choose a good clan. If you can choose the prince's palace, then choose the prince's palace. If you really can't choose, the county prince's palace A duke's palace is fine, but there is no need to choose from those marquis and earls' palaces. If you marry someone as a concubine and have a child, it is not good to enfeoff. It is better to be a county king or above. Even if you are a concubine, you can get a concubine if you are lucky. Titles such as concubine are no worse than marrying an ordinary person. Concubines below the duke have no status, so it is boring to marry."

If you are lucky, a concubine in the Duke's Palace will be enfeoffed by an earl; if you go down further, the enfeoffment will be very poor, and unless there are special exceptions, otherwise the clan's viscount and below cannot ascend the title of the original rank, and the next generation will descend the title. , low status, low income, unable to take the imperial examination, and becoming a commoner within two generations, what's the point.

Of course, the same goes for nobles. As long as they are not hereditary and irreplaceable, they are usually conferred titles on their behalf. However, nobles can take the imperial examination, but the clan cannot take the imperial examination, so in order to live a better life in the future, it is natural to marry The higher the better.

After hearing this, Mrs. Fang nodded and said, "Mom knows."

How could she not understand this truth, so she immediately started looking for it in Beijing.

She originally thought that given her family's conditions and her daughter's reputation, it would be impossible for her to marry into a high family, but if she married into a high family as a concubine, wouldn't it be her choice? As a result, when she really looked for it, she found that it was not what she thought.

Nowadays, Fang Erniang has a bad reputation. Many people know that she is not very smart. She is afraid of having a concubine and her family is uneasy. In addition, Fang Erniang is not very good-looking because she is a prince and a prince. There are many beauties, so if you don’t choose beautiful ones with good reputations, why would you want someone with a bad reputation and just the same appearance?

So Fang Erniang felt that if she lowered her requirements and became a concubine, wouldn't the clan just pick her at will? It turned out not to be the case at all.

Even Mrs. Fang Er thought this way. Fortunately, when she first started looking, she wanted to find those who were younger. She didn't care about the older ones. Who knew it would be so difficult to find them.

So people sometimes can't be too confident.

Just like in modern times, many people think that as long as they are willing to put down their dignity, they can make a lot of money just like those whom they despise and are kept and supported by others, but the fact is, Rich people are not cabbage, you can pick them if you want, and others also want to look at them, not everyone wants them, so many people, even if they are willing to show off, can't treat them as wooing women and wooing men, because you don't have the capital.

Fang Erniang is actually in the same situation at this moment.

She herself felt that she had lowered her conditions. She could marry any high-ranking clan member she wanted. Then she would be married to the prince's palace as a concubine. If the child she gave birth to was lucky enough to apply for a duke enfeoffment, wouldn't she be the same as Fang Anran and Fang Sanniang? No, it's even better than them. Only their eldest son can be a duke, and the other legitimate sons can only be granted a marquis. But if you are the prince's concubine, with good luck, all your children can be enfeoffed by the duke. In this way, , wouldn’t it be better than Fang Anran and Fang Sanniang?

But the reality soon hit her in the face. Let alone the prince's palace, it was difficult for the county and prince's palace to find someone who wanted her. However, her mother found a duke's palace who was willing to take her as a concubine.

This is also normal. There are not many princes and princes in Beijing, but at the level of dukes, the number increases. If there are more, there will always be people who don’t mind Fang Erniang’s reputation. Coupled with her appearance, the number of princes and princes will increase. The king sees too many beauties and doesn't like them, but at the level of a duke, he can still appreciate them. In this way, considering her background, it is normal for him to be willing to take her as his concubine.

But she is willing, but Fang Erniang still has to think about it. After all, she wants to marry into the prince's palace and be a concubine with a good reputation, rather than in the duke's palace. There is no title, and the child she gives birth to can be made a count at most. She is not lucky. Well, there are too many bastards, exceeding the number stipulated by the court. They may not even be able to get the earl, and they will be demoted and enfeoffed. In this case, how can she be willing? She naturally wants to marry into the prince's palace.