Quick wear is not a cannon fodder

Except that Uncle Wang's house is now a mess, the situation at Uncle Wang's house isn't much better either.

However, Uncle Wang's son and his wife are now more vigilant because of the failure experience of Uncle Wang's family.

They don't spend as much as Cousin Wang, but they can't save much because they have to pay the mortgage, raise children and living expenses. How much money can they save in this way?

But it's not like Cousin Wang's house, where they can't make ends meet, so they need to sell their house and buy a new one that's worse.

But they may have to change soon, and the reason is very simple - for the sake of their son's education, the couple may have to sacrifice one of them from working.

But the situation of Cousin Wang's son gave Cousin Wang a blow. He thought that if he didn't want his son to live well in the future, not only would he not be able to live well, but he would also be dragged down by him, and he would be dragged down by himself, so he had to educate his child well.

Their son's education, like Cousin Wang, was previously left to Uncle Wang and his wife, but now seeing that Cousin Wang's son almost failed to pass the high school entrance examination, the couple has discussed it. When his son enters junior high school, Wang The cousin's wife went back and kept an eye on her son. She would rather waste six years than let her son develop like Cousin Wang's son.

Anyway, unlike my cousin’s family, their family’s reputation has been completely ruined and they can go back.

And once Cousin Wang's wife loses her salary, Cousin Wang's salary alone will definitely not be enough to support a family of four - he also gave birth to two sons - and pay off the mortgage.

It should be said that Cousin Wang's salary alone is not enough to pay off the mortgage, let alone support the family. Therefore, the couple has planned to sell the house and replace it with a cheaper house before their son enters junior high school. This way, if you have money on hand, you won’t have to worry about working alone in the future and having no money to pay off the mortgage and meet living expenses.

And if you sell your house in advance, you will not be forced to sell the house at a low price due to lack of money. At least sell it in advance and sell it slowly, so that you don't have to sell it at a low price and lose a lot of money.

Not long after, Cousin Wang’s younger son, despite the attention of Cousin Wang and his wife, still had unsatisfactory grades and was admitted to the worst high school. The eldest son was in the worst high school and failed the exam in the end. After going to college and a junior college, Cousin Wang firmly decided to let his wife go back and watch their two sons study in person.

Although this will result in a loss of a lot of income, if the son does not do well in the future, they will also suffer. They may also be blamed by the son for not taking care of them personally and letting them be left-behind children, causing them to fail in the exam.

So Cousin Wang, who was waiting on the sidelines, sold his house and bought a house in a more remote place. At the same time, he asked his wife to return to his hometown and keep an eye on his son.

The children of An Ran's family who were personally taught by An Ran later entered the city's key high schools, which also strengthened cousin Wang's belief that parents must keep an eye on their children. After all, if the cousin and his wife don't keep an eye on their children, the children will not be admitted to a good high school. , and An Ran personally watched the child all the way, and the child entered the city's key high school. The contrast was too obvious. He would be stupid not to let his wife take care of the child in his hometown.

Although he lost a lot of money, Cousin Wang's approach was still right. After Cousin Wang's wife came back, it was indeed better for the biological mother to take care of the children. So a few years later, although Cousin Wang's eldest son did not take the public examination, A key high school, but at least I got into a good high school. Judging from the admission rate of that high school, as long as my cousins ​​continue to watch at home, they should be able to get into a university, which is better than the two sons of Cousin Wang's family - Cousin Wang The youngest son of the family did not go to college and only studied at a junior college.

Due to the depreciation of college degrees, Cousin Wang's eldest son, who has already started working, has not found a very good job - a job with a high salary, he has a low education, and others don't want it; a job with a low salary, he doesn't like it. , so if you can't achieve high, you can't achieve low.

Seeing this situation, Cousin Wang felt that he had done the right thing by letting his wife go home and look after the children. At least his son should be able to enter college in the future. With a college degree, it would be easier to find a job.

Except that Cousin Wang and his wife did not come back to take care of their children - in fact, they originally wanted to keep an eye on their children while they were studying, but wouldn't this be a disgrace in their hometown? They didn't want to be laughed at when they came back, so they didn't come back to take care of the children themselves - other parents (at least one of them, I think) were by the children's side, such as the second aunt and uncle's house, but the results of the two families were not very good.

Needless to say about the second aunt's family, the son is originally the kind of indifferent, and the daughter-in-law is also indifferent. What kind of children can be expected from such a family.

Of course, it does not mean that the upper beam is not straight and the lower beam must be crooked, but in the second aunt's house, there is obviously no accident, so the second aunt's grandson is not as good as Cousin Wang's children, and has not passed the high school entrance examination.

But naturally, children don’t want to go out and work hard after graduating from junior high school. Today’s children are different from children in the past, so they went to vocational high school, and then passed the vocational high school to study in a higher vocational school.

——Actually, the child couldn't study. After graduating from vocational high school, he went to work for two years. He found that working was more difficult than studying, so he came back to study in a higher vocational school.

The grandson from my aunt's family is better off. After all, my daughter-in-law has never gone out to work and wants to be a full-time housewife. She keeps an eye on the children, because the daughter-in-law from my aunt's family is a little more coordinated than the daughter-in-law from my second aunt's family. She supervises at least two of them. My son is studying, so his grades are slightly better, but he has only been admitted to a regular high school, and he has not been admitted to college. He only studied in a junior college. There is no way. The competition is also very fierce now. It is not enough to be admitted to a high school. Admitted to university.

In addition, children also like to play with mobile phones, so this aspect also has some impact.

——Although my aunt’s daughter-in-law is keeping an eye on her at home, when her child is older and wants to play with her mobile phone, it’s impossible not to give it to her, because the other person will be rebellious and cause trouble if she doesn’t give it to her. In the end, my aunt’s daughter-in-law can only give in. Let them play with mobile phones, and as a result, the children's grades are affected.

But my aunt's eldest grandson did well in the exam and was just a little short of the college score. If the child hadn't been unwilling to repeat the exam, he might have been able to go to college.

My aunt's grandson was a little better. He was probably tutored by his elder brother. Although he also played with mobile phones, he was only marginally successful and passed the entrance examination.

Although the two children in my aunt's family seemed to be doing well, they were not doing well. Anyway, when the time came for the two of them to buy a house, both sons had to buy a house. Before, only the aunt's son made money in their family, and they were always in a tight situation. Naturally, they didn't save any money and couldn't get it out, so the two of them were never able to buy a house.

They don’t have a house, so they have never been able to find a girlfriend. The two brothers have been complaining about their parents and aunt and their wife, saying that other families, including their generation, have multiple apartments, but theirs can’t get even one apartment. When I came out, I was extremely angry and scolded them for doing such a bad job.