Rebirth begins with marrying a female educated youth

"There is no need for Yang Dongsheng's party. When graduation certificates are issued and jobs are assigned, it will not be too late for everyone to have a party."

Ji Yuanhai said to Zhou Heng, Bai Chengzhi, and Zhao Youtian.

"Although he is a bit smart, in the final analysis he is eager for quick success; everyone knows what he wants to do, but they may not really make friends with him."

Zhou Heng and the other three people all nodded when they heard this. Yang Dongsheng repeatedly regarded those who worked early as the same kind and looked down on the students who had not yet worked. They seemed smart but actually offended a lot of people.

Bai Chengzhi said with a smile: "Don't look at how happy he is now, but when the whole class actually gets together, he will know that he can't compare with the monitor."

"That being said, his future prospects are not much different." Zhao Youtian said, his expression a little subtle as he spoke, "It's just that he is a bit overwhelmed."

Zhou Heng snorted coldly: "In the eyes of some people, this kind of shameless thing is very capable! As long as you can get promoted, it doesn't matter!"

Seeing his mood, Ji Yuanhai coughed lightly and changed the subject: "Let's not talk about Yang Dongsheng's matter. Zhou Heng, Lao Bai, do you two have anything to do with me tomorrow?"

"It's nothing too important." Zhou Heng said, "I just want to have a meal and talk with you."

"I have started to go to work now, and I have a lot of emotions in my heart."

"Monitor, are you busy tomorrow?"

Ji Yuanhai nodded: "Well, I have something to do. I have to go out with Brother Yue to do some errands tomorrow. You can go to Fangcaoxuan on the weekend and we can talk again."

Zhou Heng nodded immediately: "It's okay, I'm not in a hurry, business is more important."

Ji Yuanhai looked at Bai Chengzhi again: "Old Bai, do you have something to do tomorrow?"

Bai Chengzhi smiled: "My affairs are similar to Zhou Heng's."

"Originally, I wanted to talk to you specifically. Since you are busy tomorrow, I might as well talk to you today."

"Actually, I just want to ask you for an idea."

Ji Yuanhai saw that he was smiling at first when he spoke, but gradually the smile disappeared, and he knew that he was encountering a problem. Could it be that his workplace cannot arrange accommodation for him and he needs to borrow some money from Ji Yuanhai?

"Well, Lao Bai, tell me what's going on."

Ji Yuanhai stopped joking and asked.

Bai Chengzhi opened his mouth: "Actually... it's quite funny to say this."

"I wrote a letter to my family last month, telling my wife and children to take care of things at home. The main thing is to leave most things to my parents. My wife and children will come to the provincial capital later."

"I also asked my boss two days ago, and he said that it would not be easy to divide the house for a while, but it is still possible to arrange a room in the dormitory for me and my family to live in."

"The place may be a little tight, but at least it's affordable. Besides, our unit isn't that bad. We'll be able to get a house in a few years."

Zhou Heng was surprised: "Isn't this great? I have a place to live and don't have to rent a house. Plus, the work canteen will only last a few years. Everything will be fine when we get a house."

Zhao Youtian also nodded, not understanding where Bai Chengzhi's "making people laugh" came from.

It’s not like you dislike the small dormitory provided by your employer and want to spend money to rent a bigger house, right?

Lao Bai doesn’t look like this kind of person either.

Bai Chengzhi sighed and looked at Ji Yuanhai: "After my wife told my parents, my parents said that since I have provided them with an iron rice bowl, their days of happiness are coming, and they will follow me to the provincial capital..."

"Ah?" Zhou Heng and Zhao Youtian exclaimed in unison.

Ji Yuanhai was also slightly startled.

Lao Bai's parents also want to come to the provincial capital?

The work unit can provide a place for Lao Bai and his family, which is not bad enough. It is absolutely impossible to provide accommodation for Lao Bai's parents as well.

For Lao Bai to solve it himself, the key is that his footing is not stable now, and he is just about to graduate; even if he graduates, he will be an ordinary clerk, and he may not be sure of his future. Under such circumstances, how could he provide for his parents' basic necessities, food, housing and transportation in the provincial capital?

Are his parents here to enjoy themselves? He was obviously here to collect debt from Lao Bai.

"Then, what happened?" Ji Yuanhai asked.

"I'm just making trouble at home, waiting for my reply to make a decision." Bai Chengzhi looked depressed, "If I don't let my parents come to the provincial capital, then they don't know what they will say to me in our village. They will definitely let me My wife and children can’t live in peace, and there will be twists and turns when coming to the provincial capital.”

"If I let them come to the provincial capital... then how can I afford it? Even if I am in the provincial capital, I can't be considered happy. If they come to the provincial capital to enjoy happiness, how much money do I have to earn to support them?"

Ji Yuanhai was thoughtful, while Zhou Heng and Zhao Youtian looked at each other.

They actually had nothing to say.

After all, this is a problem between Lao Bai and his parents. They said harsh words, and Lao Bai might also be angry.

After a few seconds, Ji Yuanhai said: "Lao Bai, when you were a freshman in college, did your parents have a big fight with your wife?"

"That's what happened." Bai Chengzhi nodded sadly, "I just don't want to work and act like an elder. My wife has done all the work inside and outside, from washing and cooking to working in the fields. My wife I’m so tired that I can’t stand it.”

"At that time, the family sold some of their old assets to survive."

Ji Yuanhai nodded. He actually remembered this matter and was mentioning it specifically now.

There is no need for Ji Yuanhai to comment specifically on what kind of people Lao Bai's parents are. He only needs to be reminded that Lao Bai knows it in his heart.

After Lao Bai finished speaking, his face became even more tangled.

He is a man. After coming to the provincial university to study, he said that marrying his wife has nothing to do with love, and he envied others marrying city wives, but after all, he did not abandon his wife and children; he also had no thoughts of being unfilial to his parents. I also want to be filial to my parents.

But in this situation, if he blindly fulfills his filial piety, how far must he go to be able to satisfy his parents' wish for happiness? He is not alone, he also has a wife and two sons. He also has to consider his own job and future, and the future life of the entire family...

Do you want to satisfy your parents' temporary happiness regardless of your own family?

After thinking about it, Bai Chengzhi finally spoke again: "Squad leader, what do you think I should do?"

Ji Yuanhai said: "Old Bai, make your own decision first. Should you let your parents come to the provincial capital with you?"

"I will definitely bring them to the provincial capital to enjoy their blessings in the future. As long as they are willing to come, I will never say anything else." Bai Chengzhi said, "But now, it is really impossible."

"Then don't let them come now." Ji Yuanhai said, "Just write a letter back and tell them all the difficulties you are facing and the difficulties you have. I hope they can understand you."

Bai Chengzhi smiled bitterly and said, "Just writing a letter? Is that possible?"

"If they ruin my reputation with my relatives and neighbors..."

"That's unexplainable." Ji Yuanhai said, "If your parents want to say bad things about you, can you stop them? You can only ignore it. Believe whoever wants to believe it. Don't take these things to heart."

"Looking at it from another perspective, if your parents really don't understand you and ruin your reputation, they are the ones who took the initiative to sever their relationship with you. The more they do, the colder your relationship becomes."

When Ji Yuanhai said this, Bai Chengzhi's face became tangled and painful.

In this case, his relationship with his parents may be over for the rest of his life, right?

"I really don't want this... I... I'll write a letter back first and tell them about my situation. We don't have a foothold here in the provincial capital, so how can we let them come here to enjoy the blessing..."

Bai Chengzhi said bitterly.

"Try writing a letter first," Ji Yuanhai said. "Maybe your parents are reasonable and can understand your difficulties after receiving the letter."

Bai Chengzhi had no other good solution, and sighed: "I don't ask them to understand, as long as they stop making trouble, even if they curse a few times, I will accept it."

Ji Yuanhai nodded and said, "Lao Bai, don't blame me for not lending you money to solve this problem."

"This matter shouldn't be considered something that can be solved with money; if I really want to give you money to support your parents in coming to the provincial capital, how long will you borrow the money and how long will you have to pay? My family can't survive. Already?"

Bai Chengzhi nodded: "I know your painstaking efforts, monitor."

"I'll write a letter home first and see if we can resolve it smoothly."

Bai Chengzhi wanted to talk to Ji Yuanhai just because he wanted to clarify his heart that was difficult to make a decision. Now that he had made up his mind, it was indeed not the time to ask his parents to come to the provincial capital, so he actually knew what to do.

I just don't know if it will go well. If his parents can't forgive him, I'm afraid there will be another big fuss.

It is also difficult for Ji Yuanhai and the others to interfere in his family affairs.

After all, those are Lao Bai's parents, not the barber shop that once harmed Zhao Youtian...

Before turning off the lights, Bai Chengzhi wrote a letter, read it for a while, tore it into pieces, and wrote it again.

After writing a few words, I put them away again, lying on the bed and sighing softly, tossing and turning.

Seeing him like this, Ji Yuanhai couldn't help but think of his own family.

It wasn't that it was quite bad at the beginning... and I went through some things before finally reaching the current situation.

Every family has its own scriptures that are difficult to recite. This proverb really explains all kinds of family situations.

On Saturday, Ji Yuanhai and Lu Heling came to Fangcaoxuan on Flower and Bird Street. After Ji Yuanhai tidied away the flowers and plants, Yue Feng's car arrived at the door.

Ji Yuanhai got into the car and saw that in addition to the driver and Yue Feng, there was another person in the car, Yue Ling from Yue Feng's second uncle's family.

Ji Yuanhai said hello to Yue Ling calmly.

Yue Ling nodded, seemed quite polite, and asked how Ji Yuanhai's business was going.

Ji Yuanhai responded: "It's okay."

Yue Ling smiled and said no more.

It’s okay, so you’re still doing business?

In this situation, when you were a section member, no one took you seriously. When you become a cadre, others will catch you.

Yue Feng didn't say why Yue Ling followed him today, he just told Ji Yuanhai about the person he was going to visit today.

This is a man whom Mr. Yue trained in the past, named Chen Desheng. Yue Feng and Yue Ling both call him uncle. Now, although he is not as good as the top figures in the province like Meng Qi, he still has considerable power in the department.